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Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
Abby wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Abby wrote:
yep from what I know
and it's funny since I don't know a lot
just that it was hell being an intersex child with conservative parents
so they kinda forced me to be a girl
but it's okay since I identify as a woman and my ovaries works
but idk if it makes me a cis woman
since
I had balls and everything
kinda confusing
If you have ovaries, then yes, you'd be an intersex woman
I mean yeah but when ppl ask I just say that I'm a woman
I never have the power to explain because usually ppl won't listen
but yeah 
well i dont think you owe anyone an explanation anyway
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Date: 03-07-2020 17:51
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uhyre wrote:
Ella wrote:
mikkelrev wrote:
Ella wrote:
I'm at the point where i can't follow, so i refer to people with their or them instead so that i can't really go wrong.. lol
my bf fell into that hole
its still misgendering when u know better
If the person has identified themself with a gender and i know, i will use what they refer. But as soon as i don't i just rather not refer to gender, because i don't wanna get it wrong. 
ok yeah thats acceptable it just sounded like youd use those for everyone regardless skjdfshdf
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BEWAREARTEMIS
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
Abby wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
If you have ovaries, then yes, you'd be an intersex woman
I mean yeah but when ppl ask I just say that I'm a woman
I never have the power to explain because usually ppl won't listen
but yeah 
well i dont think you owe anyone an explanation anyway
Yes, exactly
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Arthema wrote:
Ella wrote:
mikkelrev wrote:
Ella wrote:
I'm at the point where i can't follow, so i refer to people with their or them instead so that i can't really go wrong.. lol
my bf fell into that hole
its still misgendering when u know better
If the person has identified themself with a gender and i know, i will use what they refer. But as soon as i don't i just rather not refer to gender, because i don't wanna get it wrong. 

I do the same since when I was a child I was misgendered a lot since well
my appearance was a bit misleading so I get the feeling

but yeah
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Rotte wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
Ella wrote:
I'm at the point where i can't follow, so i refer to people with their or them instead so that i can't really go wrong.. lol
there are people who dont like being called their or them i think
I mean they can say that, i don't know about others but i think it might be better to identify them with a gender neutral reference than getting it wrong and then they can tell me
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Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
Ella wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
Ella wrote:
I'm at the point where i can't follow, so i refer to people with their or them instead so that i can't really go wrong.. lol
there are people who dont like being called their or them i think
I mean they can say that, i don't know about others but i think it might be better to identify them with a gender neutral reference than getting it wrong and then they can tell me
yeah i agree
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Date: 03-07-2020 17:53
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Arthema wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
Abby wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
If you have ovaries, then yes, you'd be an intersex woman
I mean yeah but when ppl ask I just say that I'm a woman
I never have the power to explain because usually ppl won't listen
but yeah 
well i dont think you owe anyone an explanation anyway
true
but some people will see that I'm not sure in the answer and will try to ask anyway
or other lgbt+ ppl
I also don't like to explain it cus
this term is so big
and I'll usually won't have the power to talk about it
so I don't
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non binary is when u don't feel like neither a male or female
Date: 03-07-2020 17:53
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my contribution to this topic:
Date: 03-07-2020 17:54
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Rotte wrote:
mikkelrev wrote:
Ella wrote:
mikkelrev wrote:
my bf fell into that hole
its still misgendering when u know better
If the person has identified themself with a gender and i know, i will use what they refer. But as soon as i don't i just rather not refer to gender, because i don't wanna get it wrong. 
ok yeah thats acceptable it just sounded like youd use those for everyone regardless skjdfshdf
Oh no no! It's rather if i don't know the gender.. Like on here unless people told me their gender i refer with "yea they are doing something" instead.
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BEWAREARTEMIS
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Heaven wrote:
non binary is when u don't feel like neither a male or female
This is exactly what I don't get, does that mean you don't feel like the genitals you have or is it something deeper than that?
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Arthema wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Abby wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
If you have ovaries, then yes, you'd be an intersex woman
I mean yeah but when ppl ask I just say that I'm a woman
I never have the power to explain because usually ppl won't listen
but yeah 
Oh, of course
It's better because not many people know about intersexual conditions, and if you try to explain they either won't still get it or they won't listen, as you said
Don't waste your time
exactly what I'm doing
as far as I know my boy doesn't mind and that's all lol
not that I need his approval but like he doesn't care, he just thinks I'm so feminine and it's cute
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Date: 03-07-2020 17:55
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wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Heaven wrote:
non binary is when u don't feel like neither a male or female
This is exactly what I don't get, does that mean you don't feel like the genitals you have or is it something deeper than that?
well . . u mentally don't feel like a woman or a male.. as for your body it's more complex than that and i myself am trying to understand it, but it'd be nice to not have tits lah mao
Date: 03-07-2020 17:55
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Annie wrote:
Ella wrote:
I'm at the point where i can't follow, so i refer to people with them or they instead so that i can't really go wrong.. lol
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Date: 03-07-2020 17:55
BEWAREARTEMIS
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Abby wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Abby wrote:
I mean yeah but when ppl ask I just say that I'm a woman
I never have the power to explain because usually ppl won't listen
but yeah 
Oh, of course
It's better because not many people know about intersexual conditions, and if you try to explain they either won't still get it or they won't listen, as you said
Don't waste your time
exactly what I'm doing
as far as I know my boy doesn't mind and that's all lol
not that I need his approval but like he doesn't care, he just thinks I'm so feminine and it's cute
Just remind yourself that even if you weren't *feminine* you still are a woman and you'd still be cute
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Date: 03-07-2020 17:56
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