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Annie wrote:
i think about her a lot... and we've fought more than ever during the pandemic since we've almost never been limited to text until now and she once mentioned liking me and then over the summer it had me overthinking EVERYTHING until i came to the realization that i reciprocated that n then i finally got the guts to confess a year later but she was in a relationship.... n then it kinda just stayed on the backburner of our friendship and I've been contemplating whether or not im just delusional and Im mixing platonic love with friendship love and ive still been going back and forth but reading this I RELATE TO ALL THE NOT FRIENDSHIP LOVE n i have no fucking clue what love feels like so im terrified but ive known this girl almost my entire life and even with all of this, even though it feels like our friendship is on the brink of extinction i still want her in y life forever and i miss her so much and ive fantasized about being with her and what it would be like and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Annie wrote:
i think about her a lot... and we've fought more than ever during the pandemic since we've almost never been limited to text until now and she once mentioned liking me and then over the summer it had me overthinking EVERYTHING until i came to the realization that i reciprocated that n then i finally got the guts to confess a year later but she was in a relationship.... n then it kinda just stayed on the backburner of our friendship and I've been contemplating whether or not im just delusional and Im mixing platonic love with friendship love and ive still been going back and forth but reading this I RELATE TO ALL THE NOT FRIENDSHIP LOVE n i have no fucking clue what love feels like so im terrified but ive known this girl almost my entire life and even with all of this, even though it feels like our friendship is on the brink of extinction i still want her in y life forever and i miss her so much and ive fantasized about being with her and what it would be like and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Rouya wrote:
sounds like romantic love to me

Annie wrote:
FUCK

Rouya wrote:
hehe good luck!

is she still in a relationship now?

Rouya wrote:
ah... well, i dont mean this in a negative way, but the friendship is probably already changed to something different after having been together 4 times, no matter the feelings you experience regarding it. however, you might want to talk to them about the feelings you're having, and if they don't reciprocate the feelings then definitely do not sleep together again - especially if you're moving in together. that's just a recipe for hurt

but if you dont feel safe talking with them about the feelings and you might know already that they dont reciprocate them then well... same goes, don't sleep together again and maybe take a bit of a break to get some distance so your feelings can cool down a bit

Annie wrote:
i think about her a lot... and we've fought more than ever during the pandemic since we've almost never been limited to text until now and she once mentioned liking me and then over the summer it had me overthinking EVERYTHING until i came to the realization that i reciprocated that n then i finally got the guts to confess a year later but she was in a relationship.... n then it kinda just stayed on the backburner of our friendship and I've been contemplating whether or not im just delusional and Im mixing platonic love with friendship love and ive still been going back and forth but reading this I RELATE TO ALL THE NOT FRIENDSHIP LOVE n i have no fucking clue what love feels like so im terrified but ive known this girl almost my entire life and even with all of this, even though it feels like our friendship is on the brink of extinction i still want her in y life forever and i miss her so much and ive fantasized about being with her and what it would be like and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Rouya wrote:
also i want to emphasize that there's nothing wrong or bad with the feelings you're having, you just might want to protect yourself if you know that they aren't being reciprocated and you're moving in with this person. dont feel ashamed or bad, but also take care of yourself and it's ok to protect yourself by putting some distance between the two of you until your feelings have calmed down a bit x

Annie wrote:
no... but she's constantly confusing me with whether she likes me or not or whether she even likes girls or not n i dunno how to address that

Annie wrote:
can you tell ive never been in a relationship

Rouya wrote:
hmm
did she tell you she liked you at some point, like definitively?

Annie wrote:
she came up to me one year and said "kinda random n weird but i think i have an actual crush on you" and has called me cute twice which is VERY unlike her

Annie wrote:
i think about her a lot... and we've fought more than ever during the pandemic since we've almost never been limited to text until now and she once mentioned liking me and then over the summer it had me overthinking EVERYTHING until i came to the realization that i reciprocated that n then i finally got the guts to confess a year later but she was in a relationship.... n then it kinda just stayed on the backburner of our friendship and I've been contemplating whether or not im just delusional and Im mixing platonic love with friendship love and ive still been going back and forth but reading this I RELATE TO ALL THE NOT FRIENDSHIP LOVE n i have no fucking clue what love feels like so im terrified but ive known this girl almost my entire life and even with all of this, even though it feels like our friendship is on the brink of extinction i still want her in y life forever and i miss her so much and ive fantasized about being with her and what it would be like and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

ellem wrote:
I say confess ur feelings

Annie wrote:
man our friendship is on the rocks as is