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Claire wrote:
roach wrote:
lean wrote:
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i'm going through the same at 27 lol turns out what they thought was BPD was probably autism and c-ptsd. wild
<3 c-ptsd gang

i have adhd, i don't think i have autism.
my brother is diagnosed with adhd as well but i think he may be misdiagnosed tbh. he has a lot of symptoms in addition to, or in opposition of adhd symptoms, just like i have "bpd symptoms" that are like kinda lacking or slightly off. seems bizarre for both of us to just have vague adhd, bpd and ocd instead of being autistic and traumatized by our nightmare childhood
and theres like overlap with neurodivergence and trauma like youre more likely to be abused if youre adhd or autistic and youre more likely to have autism if you have adhd so like idk a lot of this shit is all the same shit 
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Date: 10-02-2023 01:54
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roach wrote:
Claire wrote:
roach wrote:
lean wrote:
<3 c-ptsd gang

i have adhd, i don't think i have autism.
my brother is diagnosed with adhd as well but i think he may be misdiagnosed tbh. he has a lot of symptoms in addition to, or in opposition of adhd symptoms, just like i have "bpd symptoms" that are like kinda lacking or slightly off. seems bizarre for both of us to just have vague adhd, bpd and ocd instead of being autistic and traumatized by our nightmare childhood
and theres like overlap with neurodivergence and trauma like youre more likely to be abused if youre adhd or autistic and youre more likely to have autism if you have adhd so like idk a lot of this shit is all the same shit 
i feel like eventually they are just going to boil it down to something more encompassing of "general neurodivergence with severe trauma"  but for the time being there's a lot of misdiagnosis going on which is dangerous when we are all being medicated differently. i remember being put on ativan, seroquel, trazodone AND cipralex all at the same time and felt absolutely zombified but still anxious. i'm completely unmedicated now and thriving it's scary.
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Date: 10-02-2023 01:57
Lean
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lean wrote:
roach wrote:
lean wrote:
roach wrote:
i'm going through the same at 27 lol turns out what they thought was BPD was probably autism and c-ptsd. wild
<3 c-ptsd gang

i have adhd, i don't think i have autism.
my brother is diagnosed with adhd as well but i think he may be misdiagnosed tbh. he has a lot of symptoms in addition to, or in opposition of adhd symptoms, just like i have "bpd symptoms" that are like kinda lacking or slightly off. seems bizarre for both of us to just have vague adhd, bpd and ocd instead of being autistic and traumatized by our nightmare childhood
tbh yeah i think more people are misdiagnosed than is recognized. bpd is also a weird diagnosis because it's essentially like "because of your shitty childhood you're now hyper sensitive and prone to impulsive behaviours, your energy comes in waves, abandonment issues," etc etc which can all really be linked to adhd or autism. it kind of feels like a catch all when a doctor doesn't really want to look too much into the patient.
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Date: 10-02-2023 02:02
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MissLondon wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
W ur poetry typin quirk? No one is safe london. Not even u!
Poetry? Never understood that
weird ass shit so it’s whatever 
sorry people are qwerked up 
over it lol
Either u cant read jokes
Or I cant read jokes

No matter the answer
Claire has the last laugh
You’re right, I can’t read it
as a joke because whenever someone 
comments about it, it’s usually 
passive aggressive mocking shit lol
my bad if that wasn’t the intent 
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Date: 10-02-2023 02:33
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Clavicle wrote:
I just turned thirty last month and the past year or so I've been like "You know.... maybe I do have adhd." I think it went undiagnosed as laziness when I was younger but now I feel like a lot of the "quirks" that come with it are quirks I fit in to. I don't think I want to get medicated for it, or even officially diagnosed. It's kinda nice to just think "Huh, maybe the fact I struggled in school to pay attention wasn't because I was a lazy piece of shit" lol. 
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Date: 10-02-2023 03:17
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Claire wrote:
Clavicle wrote:
I just turned thirty last month and the past year or so I've been like "You know.... maybe I do have adhd." I think it went undiagnosed as laziness when I was younger but now I feel like a lot of the "quirks" that come with it are quirks I fit in to. I don't think I want to get medicated for it, or even officially diagnosed. It's kinda nice to just think "Huh, maybe the fact I struggled in school to pay attention wasn't because I was a lazy piece of shit" lol. 

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Date: 10-02-2023 03:43
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liv wrote:
i’ve suspected i have autism for YEARS now if i go get diagnosed and don’t actually have autism i would be so disappointed lmao but yeah i think i definitely do. i was in a denial for a while, hated the idea but i’ve fully accepted it now 
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Date: 10-02-2023 06:09
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Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
if ur on vp and u arent diagnosed with autism i literally think you should get checked out for it half you BPD hoes are misdiagnosed i know it
I wouldn’t be shocked at all if I had bpd that was misdiagnosed as bipolar (I’ve had to fight ever psych I have cuz they all wanna label me bipolar and put me on mood stabilizers and I refuse those and I just doubt I’m bipolar so much) but I ain’t seeking a dx the stigma is terrible

but ur not wrong that a lot of autistic woman are misdiagnosed bpd 
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Date: 10-02-2023 09:07
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Anachronism wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
if ur on vp and u arent diagnosed with autism i literally think you should get checked out for it half you BPD hoes are misdiagnosed i know it
I wouldn’t be shocked at all if I had bpd that was misdiagnosed as bipolar (I’ve had to fight ever psych I have cuz they all wanna label me bipolar and put me on mood stabilizers and I refuse those and I just doubt I’m bipolar so much) but I ain’t seeking a dx the stigma is terrible

but ur not wrong that a lot of autistic woman are misdiagnosed bpd 
Claire I had low low low self esteem and I would parasuicide as cries for help and do stupid shit for attention, break shit, steal shit and cut myself raw and get hammered af and everything was so unstable, I was in abusive relationships and refused to leave them because I believed that was what I deserved and I felt lost without them even if they treated me like trash 

the real kicker is dbt techniques are helpful for me, and I’ve grown out of my behavior nearing 30 and it’s like I have this “stop and think” pause button I never had when I was young 

I know bpd is over diagnosed in certain populations but I do believe it’s also under diagnosed and commonly misdiagnosed as bipolar. I hope I never find out cuz I don’t want bpd on file but it would explain so fucking much imo 
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Date: 10-02-2023 09:15
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Anachronism wrote:
t
lean wrote:
roach wrote:
lean wrote:
<3 c-ptsd gang

i have adhd, i don't think i have autism.
my brother is diagnosed with adhd as well but i think he may be misdiagnosed tbh. he has a lot of symptoms in addition to, or in opposition of adhd symptoms, just like i have "bpd symptoms" that are like kinda lacking or slightly off. seems bizarre for both of us to just have vague adhd, bpd and ocd instead of being autistic and traumatized by our nightmare childhood
tbh yeah i think more people are misdiagnosed than is recognized. bpd is also a weird diagnosis because it's essentially like "because of your shitty childhood you're now hyper sensitive and prone to impulsive behaviours, your energy comes in waves, abandonment issues," etc etc which can all really be linked to adhd or autism. it kind of feels like a catch all when a doctor doesn't really want to look too much into the patient.
@lean   That is actually a perfect description of me yet I have been labeled bipolar so many times and never bpd 

I think c-ptsd is a better diagnosis b/c bpd is linked to trauma 

I find it interesting I was like… I had very little behavioral problems as a kid aside from a very autistic (and diagnosed) need for control, I was stubborn and rigid, and lost in my own world, distracted all the time cuz I wasn’t living in the present, my behavior problems were like… refusal to eat anything that wasn’t bread or cheese and tantrums cuz my routines were disrupted or my cousin didn’t put my book back in order or things weren’t “correct” but if stuff went the way I thought they should I was well behaved, like scarily so 

the rebellious attention whore shit and unstable identity and relationships began when my mom relapsed into alcoholism and became a prostitute 

I think there is something to bpd but it’s current representation is very biased and misogynistic, I am 4ever team c-ptsd
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Date: 10-02-2023 09:33
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Claire wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
if ur on vp and u arent diagnosed with autism i literally think you should get checked out for it half you BPD hoes are misdiagnosed i know it
I wouldn’t be shocked at all if I had bpd that was misdiagnosed as bipolar (I’ve had to fight ever psych I have cuz they all wanna label me bipolar and put me on mood stabilizers and I refuse those and I just doubt I’m bipolar so much) but I ain’t seeking a dx the stigma is terrible

but ur not wrong that a lot of autistic woman are misdiagnosed bpd 
Claire I had low low low self esteem and I would parasuicide as cries for help and do stupid shit for attention, break shit, steal shit and cut myself raw and get hammered af and everything was so unstable, I was in abusive relationships and refused to leave them because I believed that was what I deserved and I felt lost without them even if they treated me like trash 

the real kicker is dbt techniques are helpful for me, and I’ve grown out of my behavior nearing 30 and it’s like I have this “stop and think” pause button I never had when I was young 

I know bpd is over diagnosed in certain populations but I do believe it’s also under diagnosed and commonly misdiagnosed as bipolar. I hope I never find out cuz I don’t want bpd on file but it would explain so fucking much imo 
i think youre probably right actually. and i dont think that negates anything i said already i think all this shit is true. i think too that doctors are more likely to diagnose something tehy can give u medicine for before something they  cant you know?? like bipolar is medicated- bpd isnt so theyll say oh youre bipolar and hope the meds work. or in my case like oh lets give her adhd meds and that didnt work so now we gotta diagnose the thing the meds dont work on. like they really are out here just tryna give us chemical lobotomies before trying anything that takes actual efforts like therapies. not that meds didnt help me when i had hardcore depression just that doctors really just wanna medicate us and get us out the door.
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Date: 11-02-2023 01:13
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Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
I wouldn’t be shocked at all if I had bpd that was misdiagnosed as bipolar (I’ve had to fight ever psych I have cuz they all wanna label me bipolar and put me on mood stabilizers and I refuse those and I just doubt I’m bipolar so much) but I ain’t seeking a dx the stigma is terrible

but ur not wrong that a lot of autistic woman are misdiagnosed bpd 
Claire I had low low low self esteem and I would parasuicide as cries for help and do stupid shit for attention, break shit, steal shit and cut myself raw and get hammered af and everything was so unstable, I was in abusive relationships and refused to leave them because I believed that was what I deserved and I felt lost without them even if they treated me like trash 

the real kicker is dbt techniques are helpful for me, and I’ve grown out of my behavior nearing 30 and it’s like I have this “stop and think” pause button I never had when I was young 

I know bpd is over diagnosed in certain populations but I do believe it’s also under diagnosed and commonly misdiagnosed as bipolar. I hope I never find out cuz I don’t want bpd on file but it would explain so fucking much imo 
i think youre probably right actually. and i dont think that negates anything i said already i think all this shit is true. i think too that doctors are more likely to diagnose something tehy can give u medicine for before something they  cant you know?? like bipolar is medicated- bpd isnt so theyll say oh youre bipolar and hope the meds work. or in my case like oh lets give her adhd meds and that didnt work so now we gotta diagnose the thing the meds dont work on. like they really are out here just tryna give us chemical lobotomies before trying anything that takes actual efforts like therapies. not that meds didnt help me when i had hardcore depression just that doctors really just wanna medicate us and get us out the door.
I don’t disagree with anything you’ve said and it’s becoming recognized (even by experts like tony Atwood) that a lot of woman with autism and other conditions are being labeled bpd because they don’t wanna deal 

yet like at 14/15 I’m labeled bipolar and put on all these drugs that made me gain 60 lbs and gave me tardive dyskenisa and sedated in the hospital for “autistic meltdowns” when it was clear I was acting out because I was bullied in school and abused by my mom and wanted attention. I needed social support but I wasn’t given that, just meds and “oh you were born dat way” like no my self esteem was destroyed and I reacted accordingly, I think it got missed cuz I didn’t wanna be like “yeah my mom is a prostitute drug addict and I miss a lot of school cuz I’m to stressed to focus on it cuz I hate my life but I want better” cuz foster care didn’t sound much better and that’s where I’d of ended up if I told the truth 

how about our mental health system is broken 
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Date: 14-02-2023 10:45
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
I mean yeah I’ve met a lot of woman mislabeled bpd but also people from dysfunctional families with unstable lives labeled bipolar and then find out they have bpd and their behavior is maladaptive coping skills and skewed perceptions and they didn’t need half the medicines they were taking 

I feel this happens to men as well and no one ever talks about it 
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