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BunnyButts
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BunnyButts wrote:
absintjente wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
absintjente wrote:
because i was agreeing with her..?
it came off super insulting at first 
yes, it was insulting those earlier in the thread who have presented the points i disagreed with in the post. im sorry it came off unclear, but quoting a post isnt only reserved for disagreeing, its also for elaborating on the point someone makes in the post.
maybe clarifying youre agreeing next time cause opening with even educted people hate fat people doesnt read well to someone who just said their educated thought
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Date: 18-01-2021 20:10
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absintjente wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
absintjente wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
it came off super insulting at first 
yes, it was insulting those earlier in the thread who have presented the points i disagreed with in the post. im sorry it came off unclear, but quoting a post isnt only reserved for disagreeing, its also for elaborating on the point someone makes in the post.
maybe clarifying youre agreeing next time cause opening with even educted people hate fat people doesnt read well to someone who just said their educated thought
yes, and i am sorry - but given that im one of the only ones in the thread who has actually argued for fat ppls right to exist it would be bizarre that i took an 180 in less than an hour
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Date: 18-01-2021 20:12
Kino
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Kino wrote:
absintjente wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
absintjente wrote:
because i was agreeing with her..?
it came off super insulting at first 
yes, it was insulting those earlier in the thread who have presented the points i disagreed with in the post. im sorry it came off unclear, but quoting a post isnt only reserved for disagreeing, its also for elaborating on the point someone makes in the post.
you really should’ve added a ‘yes, and’ before going off like that because most people will read it as directed towards nesta
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Date: 18-01-2021 20:13
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absintjente wrote:
Trainor wrote:
absintjente wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
it came off super insulting at first 
yes, it was insulting those earlier in the thread who have presented the points i disagreed with in the post. im sorry it came off unclear, but quoting a post isnt only reserved for disagreeing, its also for elaborating on the point someone makes in the post.
you really should’ve added a ‘yes, and’ before going off like that because most people will read it as directed towards nesta
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Date: 18-01-2021 20:16
Sweethoney
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Sweethoney wrote:
absintjente wrote:
Nesta wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
same omg and I even watch the tiktok
I saw it a few days ago and I'm just done with blaming people for existing. Like it's fine to educate on issues and situations like this but I am done doing it on behalf of other wide demographics like "skinny" just bc fucked up industries have advertised that that's the ideal of this era, and it's not even healthy like when can we just stop and put that energy into real actions like calling out the companies and industries for not being inclusive. 
Also i am just particularly done with this on a personal note bc for me it builds on the same issue it tries to resolve, that skinny people are being praised for being skinny which totally erase the potential traumatic existence of that side of the weight spectrum as well  
its baffling to me how otherwise well read and articulate ppl, who normally has a nuanced view on being viewed as shit by society just... throws fat ppl under the bus.

ok, we can spend all day arguing about whether or not it fulfills the criteria of opression, but the core of the problem is that it isnt ok to be mean to ppl because they are fat. why is that so controversial?
like, why cant we accept that it obesity is bad but that it isnt a personal flaw?
We shouldn't make fun of people for things they cant change. Nobody wants to be obese. its all kind of bad things associated with that but telling an overweight person to just stop eating has the same mentallity of telling someone extremly underweight to just eat a burger... thats not work it works. If its so easy nobody would have these problems. Why add hate to the already hateful world..
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Date: 18-01-2021 20:18
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wrote:
absintjente wrote:
Trainor wrote:
absintjente wrote:
yes, it was insulting those earlier in the thread who have presented the points i disagreed with in the post. im sorry it came off unclear, but quoting a post isnt only reserved for disagreeing, its also for elaborating on the point someone makes in the post.
you really should’ve added a ‘yes, and’ before going off like that because most people will read it as directed towards nesta
It's fine. 👍🏻
Date: 18-01-2021 20:33
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absintjente wrote:
actually now that i read nestas post again more clearly, i do not agree. i think its preposterous to live in a society in which fat ppl are constantly told that they are worth less, and that the circumstances in which they become fat are entirely their own to claim that SKINNY ppl are the ones who are blamed for existing.
when you have been told by a teenager on a random internet forum that losing weight is "just doing it" you can say you are blamed for simply existing. but that is not the case. fat ppl are constantly villainized for simply being fat, and their health is seen as fair game for strangers to criticize. yes, being fat isnt healthy - but you cannot sit there and say that the only factor in being fat and obesity is the individual choice. nothing happens in a vacuum, and it seems that a lot of societally aware ppl agree with this... until it is about fat people. 

strange.

and i say this as a skinny person myself. no one in the tik tok is "blaming me for existing", they are simply pointing out that by me being a person who has access to the means of being healthy i am skinny - and that is where the privelige lies. 

i would also like to point out that eating disorders in no shape or form only affect skinny people. its just that since theyre skinny we accept their fate as that of a tragic beauty. when a fat person has a difficult emotional relationship with food because of the very same mechanisms - the body dyspmorphia, the depression - they get no sympathy. 
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Date: 18-01-2021 20:34
BunnyButts
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BunnyButts wrote:
can we get this thread closed or deleted or something
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Date: 18-01-2021 20:37
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Imani wrote:
absintjente wrote:
Referee wrote:
eat healthy then u won't be oppressed i guess 
if it were that easy, why is large quantities of the entire world struggling with obesity? why is it an epidemic?
because they like to eat? or don't care enough about eating healthier?

yeah people live in food deserts or have medical problems and that suckss but the majority of obese people don't 
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Date: 18-01-2021 20:52
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AtlantaG1912 wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
can we get this thread closed or deleted or something
^^
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Date: 18-01-2021 21:09
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honestly tho that ed comment... 😐 big oof to me lmaooaoaoo anyways
Date: 18-01-2021 21:12
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Claire wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
can we get this thread closed or deleted or something
on god lmao 
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Date: 18-01-2021 21:14
BunnyButts
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BunnyButts wrote:
Claire wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
can we get this thread closed or deleted or something
on god lmao 
like I rarely ask for threads to be deleted but damn this came from the depths of hell 
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Date: 18-01-2021 21:15
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Claire wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
Claire wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
can we get this thread closed or deleted or something
on god lmao 
like I rarely ask for threads to be deleted but damn this came from the depths of hell 
why it keep getting bumped lmao give it up guys
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Date: 18-01-2021 21:15
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ouch wrote:
Yes cus fat ppl r the minority  ig so it would make no sense to accommodate those ppl specifically (like plane seats n stuff) when it is more expensive for the airlines and fatness is 99% preventable, its not like being black or whatever 
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