kalypso wrote:ellem wrote:
im def more fine w overly pessimistic peeps than overly positive, much less annoying, but the best are realists, tho I'm not one of them lol
i have overly optimistic friends, so they see me v pessimistic, they told me it all the time in school n it honestly made me v sad, n i already was struggling a lot with my mental health in school, so ofc i get more pessimistic seeming when u say i am one, and def in ur eyes, being unrealistic overly optimistic i seem pessimistic bc i was not doing great back then. but i was just realistic everytime and would just get pessimist throwing in my head everytime

and when i tried to tell them they wouldn't understand, so yes thinking of it, i fucking hate overly optimistic ppl
yes i am pessimistic tho, but im a mix of pessimistic and realistic
ya I think I come off more pessimistic than I actually am haha, so I get what u mean I think, sometimes the truth is very grim what can I say