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Annie wrote:
hungover wrote:
Annie wrote:
ellem wrote:
If u wanna explain more ur welcome to if you want an outside perspective? 
i think about her a lot... and we've fought more than ever during the pandemic since we've almost never been limited to text until now and she once mentioned liking me and then over the summer it had me overthinking EVERYTHING until i came to the realization that i reciprocated that n then i finally got the guts to confess a year later but she was in a relationship.... n then it kinda just stayed on the backburner of our friendship and I've been contemplating whether or not im just delusional and Im mixing platonic love with friendship love and ive still been going back and forth but reading this I RELATE TO ALL THE NOT FRIENDSHIP LOVE n i have no fucking clue what love feels like so im terrified but ive known this girl almost my entire life and even with all of this, even though it feels like our friendship is on the brink of extinction i still want her in y life forever and i miss her so much and ive fantasized about being with her and what it would be like and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Sounds like  a crush, yeah. Do you feel safe talking to her about it?
i have but like i said she was in a relationship at the time so she kinda just teased me about it n moved on n now idk how to talk to her about it
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ellem wrote:
Annie wrote:
ellem wrote:
Annie wrote:
she came up to me one year and said "kinda random n weird but i think i have an actual crush on you" and has called me cute twice which is VERY unlike her
I say confess ur feelings
man our friendship is on the rocks as is
Ouff that sucks.. feels like these feelings could jeopardize it too tho if not being cleared ya know? Could put a wedge in your friendship:-(
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Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
also i want to emphasize that there's nothing wrong or bad with the feelings you're having, you just might want to protect yourself if you know that they aren't being reciprocated and you're moving in with this person. dont feel ashamed or bad, but also take care of yourself and it's ok to protect yourself by putting some distance between the two of you until your feelings have calmed down a bit x

I have bpd and they're my favourite person, I'm basically addicted to seeing and talking to them-
i see

is there a way to know for sure whether they reciprocate your feelings or not? or do you know already?
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Annie wrote:
you guys are gonna make me do something ill regret
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hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
also i want to emphasize that there's nothing wrong or bad with the feelings you're having, you just might want to protect yourself if you know that they aren't being reciprocated and you're moving in with this person. dont feel ashamed or bad, but also take care of yourself and it's ok to protect yourself by putting some distance between the two of you until your feelings have calmed down a bit x

I have bpd and they're my favourite person, I'm basically addicted to seeing and talking to them-
i see

is there a way to know for sure whether they reciprocate your feelings or not? or do you know already?

I don't know 100%, it's just a gut feeling I guess?
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Annie wrote:
Annie wrote:
you guys are gonna make me do something ill regret
but also yolo so ill think about it
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ellem wrote:
Annie wrote:
Annie wrote:
you guys are gonna make me do something ill regret
but also yolo so ill think about it
Yolo is indeed my favorite motto, it usually works out kinda fine if u just say yolo
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hungover wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:

I have bpd and they're my favourite person, I'm basically addicted to seeing and talking to them-
i see

is there a way to know for sure whether they reciprocate your feelings or not? or do you know already?

I don't know 100%, it's just a gut feeling I guess?

But I should probably take a bit of a break from them, which will be hard.
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Annie wrote:
im gonna go do the dishes n think
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Rouya wrote:
Annie wrote:
Rouya wrote:
Annie wrote:
no... but she's constantly confusing me with whether she likes me or not or whether she even likes girls or not n i dunno how to address that
hmm
did she tell you she liked you at some point, like definitively?
she came up to me one year and said "kinda random n weird but i think i have an actual crush on you" and has called me cute twice which is VERY unlike her
i think you should just confess your feelings to her. if your friendship is already on the rocks, then take the risk. if she doesn't reciprocate, then you could just say "well you did the same thing to me a year ago and we remained friends after that"

but if it were me i would take the risk. you may either lose her as a friend regardless or you could gain something new and precious. or you remain and continue to be friends and it's fine
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Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
i see

is there a way to know for sure whether they reciprocate your feelings or not? or do you know already?

I don't know 100%, it's just a gut feeling I guess?

But I should probably take a bit of a break from them, which will be hard.
yeah i think you should maybe take a break. if the feelings persist after a break from them, you may have a clearer head regarding what type of feelings they are and whether or not it's a good idea to confront them about the feelings. but right now it seems like you just need a bit of a breather to let all the dust settle and then you can take it from there, when you feel a little clearer about it
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Date: 19-08-2021 19:11
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ellem wrote:
This thread kinda makes me wanna spill my romantic life too lol
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ellem wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
hungover wrote:

I don't know 100%, it's just a gut feeling I guess?

But I should probably take a bit of a break from them, which will be hard.
yeah i think you should maybe take a break. if the feelings persist after a break from them, you may have a clearer head regarding what type of feelings they are and whether or not it's a good idea to confront them about the feelings. but right now it seems like you just need a bit of a breather to let all the dust settle and then you can take it from there, when you feel a little clearer about it
I think this is very good advice 
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hungover wrote:
ellem wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:

But I should probably take a bit of a break from them, which will be hard.
yeah i think you should maybe take a break. if the feelings persist after a break from them, you may have a clearer head regarding what type of feelings they are and whether or not it's a good idea to confront them about the feelings. but right now it seems like you just need a bit of a breather to let all the dust settle and then you can take it from there, when you feel a little clearer about it
I think this is very good advice 

I think so too
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Date: 19-08-2021 19:17
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hungover wrote:
If you block ppl on here, can they still see your threads ?
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