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wug wrote:
summary of thread please 
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Hazelnut wrote:
people will treat you shitty no matter what so in order to get empathy you need to earn it.
There's no point in sharing empathy towards strangers who will only use it.
being mean towards others through internet is okay to some extent.
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Date: 21-07-2022 19:02
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wug wrote:
Hazelnut wrote:
people will treat you shitty no matter what so in order to get empathy you need to earn it.
There's no point in sharing empathy towards strangers who will only use it.
being mean towards others through internet is okay to some extent.
how do you "earn" empathy 
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Date: 21-07-2022 19:03
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Abbys wrote:
i just don't want to be fake. i would rather be nice because i genuinely want to be nice rather than just being nice for the sake of being nice.

although i do consider myself a "nice person". people who truly know me wouldn't describe me as a bad person. it's just that i'm not as empathetic as i would like to be
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Klasifikovany wrote:
i can't read 
are u jared
Date: 21-07-2022 19:03
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devilcake wrote:
Abbys wrote:
devilcake wrote:
I don’t think low empathy automatically makes one a bad person, if you can see it and recognize that that is part of the reason why you have acted badly in the past you should probably start with aiming for not using it as a crutch and excuse for your bad behaviour. Make the conscious decisions to do good things no matter the empathy you feel for other people.
it's not an excuse, just an explanation. if i had a "normal amount" of empathy, i wouldn't have done those things in the first place. that's what i meant.

but i will keep that in mind. the point about doing good things for others. that's a good idea.
Yeah I gotchu. Like it’s fine to recognize it’s a reason you did those things in the past, you just don’t need to train your empathy to be a good person is what I’m saying

i firmly believe what makes one a good person is the actual choices you make. Like if you’re actively trying to be a better person, treating people well and with kindness it doesn’t matter if you can’t empathize with someone when smth bad happened to them or smth like that… but you can still be there for them yanno? Making that choice!

just like how someone with intrusive thoughts aren’t a bad person because they thought about doing something bad to someone ya know,  because they don’t actually wanna do it 🤷‍♂️
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Hazelnut wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Hazelnut wrote:
people will treat you shitty no matter what so in order to get empathy you need to earn it.
There's no point in sharing empathy towards strangers who will only use it.
being mean towards others through internet is okay to some extent.
how do you "earn" empathy 
you earn empathy when I start to care for you.
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wug wrote:
PetaI wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
i can't read 
are u jared
no 
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wug wrote:
Hazelnut wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Hazelnut wrote:
people will treat you shitty no matter what so in order to get empathy you need to earn it.
There's no point in sharing empathy towards strangers who will only use it.
being mean towards others through internet is okay to some extent.
how do you "earn" empathy 
you earn empathy when I start to care for you.
that makes no sense 
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Klasifikovany wrote:
PetaI wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
i can't read 
are u jared
no 
sad
Date: 21-07-2022 19:05
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wug wrote:
PetaI wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
PetaI wrote:
are u jared
no 
sad
yes
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ouch wrote:
I have zero empathy but it doesn't matter cus its not the lack of empathy that makes u stalk someone etc lmao 
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Hazelnut wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Hazelnut wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
how do you "earn" empathy 
you earn empathy when I start to care for you.
that makes no sense 
it does. no stranger deserves my empathy, nor kindness.
no nothing, thats the key how to get used. people only will take what they want and not give a damn.
giving empathy for free is a free ticket to giving the image of yourself that ur not worthy, ur basicly giving urself and welcoming everyone who wants to use you.
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hmm wrote:
ouch wrote:
I have zero empathy but it doesn't matter cus its not the lack of empathy that makes u stalk someone etc lmao 
yes there has to be sum else to the equation
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wug wrote:
Hazelnut wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Hazelnut wrote:
you earn empathy when I start to care for you.
that makes no sense 
it does. no stranger deserves my empathy, nor kindness.
no nothing, thats the key how to get used. people only will take what they want and not give a damn.
giving empathy for free is a free ticket to giving the image of yourself that ur not worthy, ur basicly giving urself and welcoming everyone who wants to use you.
i don't think empathy works like that, it doesn't have an on/off switch 
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