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kagura wrote:
cobain wrote:
kagura wrote:
cobain wrote:
"believe it or not but school will go great. full focus there now.
i need my key relatively soon. when you drag home some new guy who's rumbling around in your apartment i don't want my key there easy to grab. if you already have someone new there i want it right now, i'll come get it instantly, and i'll stomp the motherfucker to death if he so much as looks at me.
i think you should be straight up to me and say if you've met someone new (or have feelings for someone else) and that's why you dumped me. (i won't do anything stupid, unless i meet him, i promise)
not that i have anything to do with your private life but you've been my girlfriend for over a year, and until the other day you claimed you loved me. so if you want to do the "right" thing, don't piss on me by lying about something like that. you can't be that cowardly!
i don't mean this in an ill way, i just want to be clear"

i....................
ok wtf.... i understand he's mad but threatening to beat shit out of new lover who doesn't even exists goes way too far... 
he said something similar last time we broke up
that he'll beat the shit out of whoever i date next no matter how much time has passed, if i remember it correctly. idk why he says those things. to like make me scared of meeting someone new for the rest of my fucking life????? like dude???
worst part is that he could probably take down anyone and anything. big dude, used to fight a lot. it scares me a bit
oh my goshhh... good you broke up with him. 
yeah i wouldn't keep any contact to him, unless is necassary like giving his stuff back 
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Posts: 7616
Date: 07-09-2021 18:42
Furby
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Furby wrote:
cobain wrote:
"believe it or not but school will go great. full focus there now.
i need my key relatively soon. when you drag home some new guy who's rumbling around in your apartment i don't want my key there easy to grab. if you already have someone new there i want it right now, i'll come get it instantly, and i'll stomp the motherfucker to death if he so much as looks at me.
i think you should be straight up to me and say if you've met someone new (or have feelings for someone else) and that's why you dumped me. (i won't do anything stupid, unless i meet him, i promise)
not that i have anything to do with your private life but you've been my girlfriend for over a year, and until the other day you claimed you loved me. so if you want to do the "right" thing, don't piss on me by lying about something like that. you can't be that cowardly!
i don't mean this in an ill way, i just want to be clear"

i....................

wtf this guy seems so weird, he just keeps jumping from conclusion to conclusion and blaming you when he could just accept that things weren't right for you and you wanted to break up.. why are people so stupid, i hope you're doing okay though : (
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Date: 07-09-2021 18:53
Private
Popstar



Rouya wrote:
this man needs to get his shit together honestly, acting as if he has some kind of ownership over you. "you've been my girlfriend for over a year" as if that gives you any kind of responsibility towards him now? he isnt with you anymore, you dont owe him shit and he sounds insane honestly
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Date: 07-09-2021 20:46
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
yeah i just said "i've not met anyone new. i don't know why you believe the worst of me. you'll get your key."

and he said
"but hello! i didn't mean that i think you have. it wouldn't have been the first time in world history where a relationship ends because of that. both you and i have been through that before, you should know how i meant"

idk. i'm starting to feel the emptiness and loneliness now that it's dark out and late evening. i was gonna watch a film but i can't get myself to do it bc i'm just gonna think of him the entire time. that he would've liked that film, or how cozy it would've been to cuddle with him. bc we watched a lot of films and series together and always cuddled and that was always so nice. and his smell... laughing n playing with his beard. joking together. all that shit u know. i'll never experience that with him again
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Date: 07-09-2021 21:02
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
i think i might just watch tiktok until i fall asleep. that's a good distraction
but once in a while something pops up that reminds me of him, or something about breakups, or something i'd like to send to him. but... for the most part it's a good way to keep my mind busy i guess
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Date: 07-09-2021 21:05
Private
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Lolinontot wrote:
Bruh he's going through all the stages of grief at the same time all combined with a very childish behaviour of playing both the blame game and the aggressive child bully game...... 

Just make sure that once he starts the pleeding to get you back game, don't fall for it.
Take care of yourself ~ sending all my positive powers to you!!

Also I think he's threatening your non-existent partner because he thinks it's "charming"
In a freaky messed up way- men tend to think that women want men that are willing to fight over them, It's really primitive of him to act like that really, and if  you're ever going to respond to that then just respond by saying you'd call the police cause that's not cool, that's called assault.
And that's not okay even if he means it as a joke because he's scaring you. - a joke is meant to be funny - that's just threatening.
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Date: 07-09-2021 21:16 | Times changed: 1
Private
World Famous



Claire wrote:
you can literally block him
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Date: 07-09-2021 21:18
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World Famous



Versailles wrote:
kagura wrote:
cobain wrote:
"believe it or not but school will go great. full focus there now.
i need my key relatively soon. when you drag home some new guy who's rumbling around in your apartment i don't want my key there easy to grab. if you already have someone new there i want it right now, i'll come get it instantly, and i'll stomp the motherfucker to death if he so much as looks at me.
i think you should be straight up to me and say if you've met someone new (or have feelings for someone else) and that's why you dumped me. (i won't do anything stupid, unless i meet him, i promise)
not that i have anything to do with your private life but you've been my girlfriend for over a year, and until the other day you claimed you loved me. so if you want to do the "right" thing, don't piss on me by lying about something like that. you can't be that cowardly!
i don't mean this in an ill way, i just want to be clear"

i....................
ok wtf.... i understand he's mad but threatening to beat shit out of new lover who doesn't even exists goes way too far... 
What the actual fuck is wrong with him. The one message about it's her decision and not friends but not enemies was more mature response, but all others - what a mess. At this guy is a grown man pushing 40? This is where I say you dodged a bullet. His responses are so unstable, understandable being sad and upset but some of the messages are just extremely bad. Esp the blaming and not seeing his faults or atleast ASK for his faults and wish to fix it altought the train has passed
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Date: 07-09-2021 21:34 | Times changed: 1
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Streetmusician



kruspersille wrote:
wait hes almost 40???
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Date: 07-09-2021 21:42
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
wait hes almost 40???
hhhhh yeah he turns 40 in january
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Date: 07-09-2021 22:11
Private
Streetmusician



kruspersille wrote:
cobain wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
wait hes almost 40???
hhhhh yeah he turns 40 in january
this just got so much more embarrassing on his part
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Date: 07-09-2021 22:12
Klavier
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Klavier wrote:
cobain wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
wait hes almost 40???
hhhhh yeah he turns 40 in january
bruh and hes reacting as if hes like   22 at most
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Posts: 49077
Date: 07-09-2021 22:14
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
Lolinontot wrote:
Bruh he's going through all the stages of grief at the same time all combined with a very childish behaviour of playing both the blame game and the aggressive child bully game...... 

Just make sure that once he starts the pleeding to get you back game, don't fall for it.
Take care of yourself ~ sending all my positive powers to you!!

Also I think he's threatening your non-existent partner because he thinks it's "charming"
In a freaky messed up way- men tend to think that women want men that are willing to fight over them, It's really primitive of him to act like that really, and if  you're ever going to respond to that then just respond by saying you'd call the police cause that's not cool, that's called assault.
And that's not okay even if he means it as a joke because he's scaring you. - a joke is meant to be funny - that's just threatening.
this has actually been one of the red flags i noticed quite early on but i didn't care or smth
he reacts quite strongly to a lot of things. he reacts esp with frustration and anger, he's angry at a lot which became quite draining. like he wasn't angry at me a lot, but just things in general. if someone looked at him on the street he could take GREAT offense to it and i always told him to shut the hell up and chill bc they didn't mean shit by looking at him. lol.
he punches things when he gets angry too but i asked him to stop because it makes me feel uneasy and a bit scared so he actually stopped. so theres that

thank you !
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Posts: 10232
Date: 07-09-2021 22:16
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World Famous



Versailles wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
cobain wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
wait hes almost 40???
hhhhh yeah he turns 40 in january
this just got so much more embarrassing on his part
middleaged man threatening to beat up imaginary potensial exes interest. Guilt tripping ex as the only chance to get kids and list goes on. Doesn't see his faults at all, and blames on his ex.  what a treat 
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Posts: 6859
Date: 07-09-2021 22:19
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
Klavier wrote:
cobain wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
wait hes almost 40???
hhhhh yeah he turns 40 in january
bruh and hes reacting as if hes like   22 at most
i honestly think all the heroin, speed and pills fucked w him in that way
like the emotional development and just.. development in general i guess. i feel mean saying that but he says something like that himself. not with those exact words tho
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Date: 07-09-2021 22:20
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