duckgirl wrote:Anachronism wrote:duckgirl wrote:
i guess i explained it wrongfully but ppl who had surgery because of physical problems should not even be talked abt bc obviously ppl who have physical problems that make them actual physical harm arent the same as people who will change something abt themselves just because they want to follow a trend or look like someone / an ideal
What is wrong with that? Does that have to be inherently negative? Can you like a certain aesthetic or ideal in a way that celebrates yourself? Plus were all influenced by our surroundings anyway, like why is it that art influenced by trends is ok but when it's a person's body, we have to tell them how much they'll regret it?
Tbh you sound judgmental. I mean bdd and low self esteem is one thing but I think you're mistaken in thinking that is universal to plastic surgery customers.
if youre changing how you look because you open instagram and see "ideal bodies" and believe that thats how you should look like, then yes, its negtive as fuck
im not saying that you will automatically regret getting a plastic surgery, but
still you should not preach about loving your body if you in fact hate your body n would 100% change it if possiblei dont care if i sound judgmental. im 2 tired seeing pictures of ideal bodies n ppl believing that its totally healthy 2 change your body just bc you dont look a certain way
U don't think there r many ppl like this in the body positive movement lmao? Everyone has to start somewhere, wherever they are in their journey u should always support them anyways and not guard them out bcus ur petty