Abbys wrote:devilcake wrote:Abbys wrote:
i don't think i have other flaws. my only flaws are the RESULTS of having low empathy.
obviously you cannot agree or disagree with this since you don't know me but the reason i did the things i did was because my empathy (or rather conscience) didn't stop me
You don’t think arrogance is a flaw? 🫢🫢🫢🫢
, or an unwillingness to examine your own behaviours beyond what you have made up your mind about, or listen to others perspective etc etc. and even if you think those sort of things are caused by a lack of empathy they are still their own thing no matter the cause and can be worked on and examined separately
if i was arrogant, i don't think i would admit to having any flaws in the first place !
but i think my lack of empathy is comparable to a domino effect.
kind of like, if somebody has a drinking problem and they loose their job, lose their money, become easily agitated and lose their family etc. the MAIN problem here would be the alcohol. if only they stopped drinking alcohol, they wouldn't have all the problems that the drinking caused them. does that make sense?
NO.