Claire wrote: i bet shes not actually mad about this i bet theres more to this. i bet theres other shit that aint right between you two and shes using this as a thing to be mad about
GENOS wrote: i think she’s angry at me not for only selling clothes that i got from her but also bcus i’m basically working 9 to 5 almost every day and i told her i want to change myself this year and focus on myself and fix myself and thats the reason why i dont really hit her up anymore (mind you i dont hit anyone up to hang out or anything) and i think she doesnt accept the fact that i want to start focussing on myself now..
I have trouble with cutting toxic people out of my life but, friends should not be mad (or possibly intimidated) when you are working on yourself or "changing". You don't need people that bring you down when you are lifting yourself up u know Sounds like she's insecure
Yea like heyy i was cleaning my closet and found this stuff you gave me years ago but don’t use anymore, do you want them back or should i just sell them among some other things i don’t need
GENOS wrote: i think she’s angry at me not for only selling clothes that i got from her but also bcus i’m basically working 9 to 5 almost every day and i told her i want to change myself this year and focus on myself and fix myself and thats the reason why i dont really hit her up anymore (mind you i dont hit anyone up to hang out or anything) and i think she doesnt accept the fact that i want to start focussing on myself now..
Then go with the standard It's not you, it's me And leave it at that
GENOS wrote: im so glad you guys said this to me because i was really afraid yall would take her side. she was my very dear friend but she’s so toxic and manipulative and that truly fucked with me.and my beliefs
im taking a lot of distance now because im working on myself but things like this can really make me upset
GENOS wrote: a few weeks ago i sold a shirt that i got from her too which i totally forgot that i got from her and now she said “you dont have to ask me if i think its ok to sell it weeks after you sold something else i gave you. its yours now lol” ...idk what to think of this