it's been 5 weeks and i might be in danger - Forum

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scoff wrote:

Claire wrote:
you might need to move.

i know you dont wanna hear it

but you really are in danger and you should probably relocate so he cant find you

nope, i actually refuse to move away from this area
i'd rather have him murder me HONESTLY
i will NOT change ANYTHING for him or to get away from him
i'm here and if he wants me away, he'll have to kill me

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scoff wrote:

Claire wrote:
and you should be working toward getting a restraining order.

if i do mention his name AT ALL to the police, things WILL escalate
he hasn't contacted me in a month anyway, i heard all this from other people
if i put a restraining order on him, he'll just send someone else

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Claire wrote:

scoff wrote:

Claire wrote:
and you should be working toward getting a restraining order.

if i do mention his name AT ALL to the police, things WILL escalate
he hasn't contacted me in a month anyway, i heard all this from other people
if i put a restraining order on him, he'll just send someone else

typically that would also violate a restraining order. maybe look into it and do some learning before deciding its not what you need.

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scoff wrote:

Claire wrote:

scoff wrote:

Claire wrote:
and you should be working toward getting a restraining order.

if i do mention his name AT ALL to the police, things WILL escalate
he hasn't contacted me in a month anyway, i heard all this from other people
if i put a restraining order on him, he'll just send someone else

typically that would also violate a restraining order. maybe look into it and do some learning before deciding its not what you need.

yes, but he will be notified and him trying to spread out to everyone that i'm a crazy ass bitch will get some legitimacy from it since technically, he hasn't threatened me (in person) at all. this is not a big city. things spread. and i will not under any circumstances move away from this town unless i personally choose to due to something that has absolutely nothing to do with him. he's not gonna win this.

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scoff wrote:

Claire wrote:
put out notice on social media that people shouldnt tell him where you are

just put out a post "if my ex asks where i am don't disclose that information"

the more people who know that he abused you the safer you are

everybody knows. the problem is, he has my address because it's on the fucking internet for everyone to see (because it's public information where people live)
so he knows where i live and he knows people everywhere so if i go to a pub, someone might tell him where i am. all that shit. i'm not going to fucking hide because of it.