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can u talk to s/o about mental health?
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Yeah
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:39
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Gilmore wrote:
Marcelien wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Marcelien wrote:
tbh, not really cool of u to say red flag when u dont know them. just saying.
the fact that it bothers you enough for you to start thinking if someone else does it too and to say that it's a big deal makes it red imo. I don't mean he's a serial killer and I don't mean that he is scum. Maybe you should talk to him about this and not to anonymous people online.Ā 
im just curious if anyone else experience this. cus i know many girls who date guys who arent touchy-feely kind of people who might experience similar stuff. but then again none of them are on VP cx so i guess this is the sort of reaction to expect, and they arent honestly the most mentally challenged people (not meaning stupid, i mean hasnt experienced any mental health problems as i know of
(btw, im not saying its a bad reaction to say this isnt good. i know its not good, but he has other good qualities. and for me a red flag is like "u shudnt be with this person" kind of thing. like they drink too much, or is abusive, or manipulates me. but i guess i can see why this would be a red flag for some.)
Yeah I get it. I just remember it affecting me a lot in the long run. I hope it's not as bad as it was in my relationship, and like you said, at least this doesn't occur every time. I hope you get to talk about it with him and you get it sorted out, that can be a big problem + communication is always one of the most important things. :)
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:41
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Marcelien wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Marcelien wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
the fact that it bothers you enough for you to start thinking if someone else does it too and to say that it's a big deal makes it red imo. I don't mean he's a serial killer and I don't mean that he is scum. Maybe you should talk to him about this and not to anonymous people online.Ā 
im just curious if anyone else experience this. cus i know many girls who date guys who arent touchy-feely kind of people who might experience similar stuff. but then again none of them are on VP cx so i guess this is the sort of reaction to expect, and they arent honestly the most mentally challenged people (not meaning stupid, i mean hasnt experienced any mental health problems as i know of
(btw, im not saying its a bad reaction to say this isnt good. i know its not good, but he has other good qualities. and for me a red flag is like "u shudnt be with this person" kind of thing. like they drink too much, or is abusive, or manipulates me. but i guess i can see why this would be a red flag for some.)
Yeah I get it. I just remember it affecting me a lot in the long run. I hope it's not as bad as it was in my relationship, and like you said, at least this doesn't occur every time. I hope you get to talk about it with him and you get it sorted out, that can be a big problem + communication is always one of the most important things.
it probably wont be a big deal in the long run. im pretty sure this is the guy im ment to be with. we have a very good relationship in most ways c: sorry ur relationship didnt work out :c
and i agree : communication is the most important thing.Ā 
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:44
Gilmore
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Gilmore wrote:
Marcelien wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Marcelien wrote:
im just curious if anyone else experience this. cus i know many girls who date guys who arent touchy-feely kind of people who might experience similar stuff. but then again none of them are on VP cx so i guess this is the sort of reaction to expect, and they arent honestly the most mentally challenged people (not meaning stupid, i mean hasnt experienced any mental health problems as i know of
(btw, im not saying its a bad reaction to say this isnt good. i know its not good, but he has other good qualities. and for me a red flag is like "u shudnt be with this person" kind of thing. like they drink too much, or is abusive, or manipulates me. but i guess i can see why this would be a red flag for some.)
Yeah I get it. I just remember it affecting me a lot in the long run. I hope it's not as bad as it was in my relationship, and like you said, at least this doesn't occur every time. I hope you get to talk about it with him and you get it sorted out, that can be a big problem + communication is always one of the most important things.
it probably wont be a big deal in the long run. im pretty sure this is the guy im ment to be with. we have a very good relationship in most ways c: sorry ur relationship didnt work out :c
and i agree : communication is the most important thing.Ā 
Awe, sounds wonderful. Hope it lasts (l) and yeah it sucks but I think I'm better off alone anyway, at least for now
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:45
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Versailles wrote:
just tel em and being honest, that's what i do. Esp if im having bad traumarelated period and/or depression and tell em how stuff are now
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Date: 04-11-2020 17:00
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Sherb wrote:
a thousand times yes
my boyfriend has a degree in psychology so he's very in touch with how to handle me when I express my feelings, he gives sound advice and is just very patient with me. that's all I can ask and that's why I love him so muchĀ 
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Date: 04-11-2020 18:10 | Times changed: 1
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Bug wrote:
Nope, not at all. He just gets mad at me for being "weak" or what not
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Date: 04-11-2020 18:20
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Versailles wrote:
Sod wrote:
Nope, not at all. He just gets mad at me for being "weak" or what not

emotionally unavaible?
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Date: 04-11-2020 18:34
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
I dont have time to read this thread but yesĀ 

My bf is very understandingĀ 

Though sometimes it does take a toll on him cuz he wants things to be light and not about me and my feelings and problems all the time which is fair, especially cuz I am very self centeredĀ 

But he listens, tries to help, gives advice and truly seems to careĀ 
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Date: 04-11-2020 19:32
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Persona wrote:
yes, my bf is great with my mh. sometimes only my very very bad days he does get frustrated - not at me as such, but the worry about me gets too intense sometimes. He's great with other people's feelings, but sometimes has a hard time processing his own i think. like sometimes my outward feelings are so intense it's too much for him. he sometimes puts it down to him being on the spectrum. but it think anyone who is empathetic would be like that to some extent. but overall he's extremely caring and understanding.Ā 
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Date: 04-11-2020 19:36 | Times changed: 1
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DEITY wrote:
yea he has always supported me n my mental health
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Date: 04-11-2020 19:38
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cult wrote:
Why do i always read s/o as shout out
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Date: 04-11-2020 19:46
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