popularity - Forum - Virtual Popstar

Harumi
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Harumi wrote:
I don't have a need to be popular, I think there are more negative effects to it than positive, like everyone having their opinion about you..

And being popular doesn't always mean that you are well liked by others.

I would rather have most people thinking I'm a nice person they would like to talk to sometimes, and have a group of friends that really care.

MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
I'm assuming that you mean rl

No, did that in hs/College. In hs, it felt like a job.. College? Off the chain and often made me lose focus.

Now, I'm popular amongst my patients. It hits different and means more.

Private
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
Tbh i was one of the popular girls in school when i was a teenager but i still never rly cared about it. Its overrated as fuck ngl most ppl dont actually care about u as a person they just want to hang out with u cuz they think its cool. Also popularity isnt rly a thing once u get out of high school lol its a teen thing

Private
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Raquelle wrote:
I need everyone to like me
or at least be neutral
popularity is not for me

Private
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Evey wrote:
i love to have friends, the more the merrier, but I know that I don't go along with a lot of people so popularity won't "happen". + i'm too easy to read when that's the case (that i don't like someone)

Gilmore
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Gilmore wrote:
I only need the ones I like to like me. That's enough. Kinda same with popularity, hard to explain, I guess.

Private
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GvcciGoddess wrote:

Harumi wrote:
I don't have a need to be popular, I think there are more negative effects to it than positive, like everyone having their opinion about you..

And being popular doesn't always mean that you are well liked by others.

I would rather have most people thinking I'm a nice person they would like to talk to sometimes, and have a group of friends that really care.

this.

if ur well known in ur school/town there will be rumors spread about u and ppl will talk behind ur back. When i was 15 there was a rumor at my school that i was sleeping with one of the teachers. I have friends from that time that still believes that rumor til this day. That shit sticks with u

Private
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scoff wrote:
naturally i want to be liked
that's human

i don't care that much for popularity tho

Private
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Versailles wrote:
i dont think popularity is a thing when you're an adult (other than celebrity status

Harumi
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Harumi wrote:

GvcciGoddess wrote:

Harumi wrote:
I don't have a need to be popular, I think there are more negative effects to it than positive, like everyone having their opinion about you..

And being popular doesn't always mean that you are well liked by others.

I would rather have most people thinking I'm a nice person they would like to talk to sometimes, and have a group of friends that really care.

this.

if ur well known in ur school/town there will be rumors spread about u and ppl will talk behind ur back. When i was 15 there was a rumor at my school that i was sleeping with one of the teachers. I have friends from that time that still believes that rumor til this day. That shit sticks with u

yeah I wasn't one of the popular, but most people knew who I was because of crazy rumors, not very fun, I could only imagine what it would be like if everybody knew who I was and judged me by that rumor, imagine people you've never met have that kind of negative opinion of you even before you get to know eachother.