Limbs wrote: i wouldn't think it's a big deal tbh because clearly it's about the action of smoking and not you as a person. like if he said that he probably finds everyone who smokes repulsive, right. some ppl have really strong opinions about smoking and it can be a dealbreaker for relationships and stuff
Delusion1111111 wrote: ok i dont wanna sound dramatic but if my bf said that id b very ??? bcos why are u going around thinking that ppl are REPULSIVE for doing something like smoking like i think thats weird n i dont like ppl who r that judgemental. fair enough if u dont like cigarettes but i think it is overly judgemental to think that ppl r repulsive for smoking when addiction is v complex in the first place u know
ia tbh
benefit of the doubt, maybe he meant he finds smoking/cigarettes repulsive, rather than you repulsive for doing so. have you told him that he hurt your feelings by saying what he did?