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Six
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Six wrote:
Limbs wrote:
also 
> but like i cannot shake the feeling that u deserve better
i'm sorry but i cannot take reading this multiple times esp when this is just making me feel worse so: no, i barely deserve to be alive, i don't deserve anything good and it's ridiculous i'm even thinking about this. you don't have to reply anything to this i'm just saying it for the sake of my guilt
well this is probably where a lot of ur problem stems from.  dear u have very low self confidence and that's probably why ur feeling so bad even though he's apologized.  u deserve the world, everyone does, and it's our job to give it to ourselves.  you do deserve for him to remember your birthday, and guess what: he apologized and felt bad because he knows that.  he knows he should be doing more for u and that is a good bf (even if he makes mistakes).  i think u need to learn how to love urself a little bit more because u need to give urself that
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Date: 14-02-2021 02:33
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
Maybe you’re the only one 
who thinks he’s your bf 
at any rate, good luck 
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Date: 14-02-2021 02:33
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Limbs wrote:
Dew wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Dew wrote:
Your relationship sounds exhausting and shitty. Also, you're not being very clear? You said he forgot and now you're saying he remembered but it just wasn't to your liking so you fought your entire birthday?

Sounds really healthy. lol. 
pls learn to read and maybe stop acting so catty for no reason : ) 
like i said, this year he forgot, last year we argued a lot. two separate birthdays. you have a new one each year can you imagine that
You were the one who said people were being 'fucking annoying' for making assumptions based on the words YOU said yourself...

I'm not being catty. You've made posts before complaining about your bf I'm pretty sure, what are we supposed to think? We're strangers....
"I-""Sounds really healthy. lol." "Also if it's an issue with communication, guess what'll solve it. communicating with him" 
this is catty
i didn't say people were being fucking annoying, i said making assumptions was getting fucking annoying. actions. not people.
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Date: 14-02-2021 02:34
Dew
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Dew wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Dew wrote:
Limbs wrote:
pls learn to read and maybe stop acting so catty for no reason : ) 
like i said, this year he forgot, last year we argued a lot. two separate birthdays. you have a new one each year can you imagine that
You were the one who said people were being 'fucking annoying' for making assumptions based on the words YOU said yourself...

I'm not being catty. You've made posts before complaining about your bf I'm pretty sure, what are we supposed to think? We're strangers....
"I-""Sounds really healthy. lol." "Also if it's an issue with communication, guess what'll solve it. communicating with him" 
this is catty
i didn't say people were being fucking annoying, i said making assumptions was getting fucking annoying. actions. not people.
You then went on to be catty yourself...'pls learn to read' 'you have a new one each year can you imagine that'

like...please...the hypocrisy. 

Also, you're the one giving us context. I am interpreting the things you've said. Where tf do you think the assumptions are coming from?
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Date: 14-02-2021 02:51
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Limbs wrote:
Six wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Six wrote:
then that is good that he feels bad that he forgot, and it shows a lot of growth in ur guys relationship.  what about it is still bugging u after him apologizing?  did u accept his apology?  how old are u guys btw?
i don't know why it's still bugging me, that's the problem. that's why idk how to work through it since he's already apologized. :/ i'm 24 and he's a bit older than me
ok so i can relate a little bit.  i am 25 and i have been friends with my bf for over 5 years but just recently started dating.  before him i was in a lot of really abusive relationships so i don't always feel like i have the proper tools to communicate how i'm feeling, but my bf is very patient with me.  

i think the best thing to do is localize exactly what's still bugging you about it.  is it that you feel hurt that he forgot?  is it that he hasn't made it up to you?  is i tthat you feel like he doesn't deserve a big birthday when he didn't celebrate yours?  once you've figured that out, you can talk to him.  but i think it's an internal issue at this point rather than an external issue, especially if he has apologized and you have accepted it.

did you say you have a therapist?  have you talked to them about this?
yea that makes a lot of sense! i need to do some digging, maybe meditate about it

my psychologist from last summer just came back to work and i'm starting work with her next week =) psyched about it
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Date: 14-02-2021 02:51
Dew
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Dew wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Maybe you’re the only one 
who thinks he’s your bf 
at any rate, good luck 
LMFAO
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Date: 14-02-2021 02:51
Private
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Limbs wrote:
Dew wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Dew wrote:
You were the one who said people were being 'fucking annoying' for making assumptions based on the words YOU said yourself...

I'm not being catty. You've made posts before complaining about your bf I'm pretty sure, what are we supposed to think? We're strangers....
"I-""Sounds really healthy. lol." "Also if it's an issue with communication, guess what'll solve it. communicating with him" 
this is catty
i didn't say people were being fucking annoying, i said making assumptions was getting fucking annoying. actions. not people.
You then went on to be catty yourself...'pls learn to read' 'you have a new one each year can you imagine that'

like...please...the hypocrisy. 

Also, you're the one giving us context. I am interpreting the things you've said. Where tf do you think the assumptions are coming from?
yeah, if you're catty to me i'm going to be catty to you. anyway i really don't want to argue about this any more, i guess that's fair i didn't give much context n this is how the internet works haha


edit unrelated to this post//
i asked a mod to lock this thread because i feel like it ended up being pretty negative (which is my fault mostly) and i don't want that to continue on valentine's day. but there's some good insights in the comments so i don't wanna delete it either. idk if they will lock it but if they do here's an explanation
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Date: 14-02-2021 02:54 | Times changed: 1
Dew
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Dew wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Dew wrote:
Limbs wrote:
"I-""Sounds really healthy. lol." "Also if it's an issue with communication, guess what'll solve it. communicating with him" 
this is catty
i didn't say people were being fucking annoying, i said making assumptions was getting fucking annoying. actions. not people.
You then went on to be catty yourself...'pls learn to read' 'you have a new one each year can you imagine that'

like...please...the hypocrisy. 

Also, you're the one giving us context. I am interpreting the things you've said. Where tf do you think the assumptions are coming from?
yeah, if you're catty to me i'm going to be catty to you. anyway i really don't want to argue about this any more, i guess that's fair i didn't give much context n this is how the internet works haha
in any case good luck with ur bf I hope u sort it all out
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Date: 14-02-2021 02:58
Private
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legohouse wrote:
Locked upon owners request 
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Date: 14-02-2021 04:08
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