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Pavlov wrote:
You can also accept yourself as a person who has a right to take up space and exist and have a good life while being ugly, but it is hard because self worth is so intertwined with outer appearance, because we are so focused on that nowadays, idk there is always this pressure to justify your appearance and thrive for an ideal you will never be able to reach (or at least not without lots of money and health risks). disintegration wrote:
Pretty privilege definitely exists and saying stuff like 'everyone is pretty' erodes the meaning of the word.
yea its easier for attractive people to accept themself because they wont get constantly reminded of how other people think they are ugly, being able to accept urself is a privilege, and you can of course try to accept urself regardless of what other think, but its harder and its not always possiblePavlov wrote:
nah its a privilege
actually agreeing with both statements like women aren't supposed to think of themselves as pretty because of the whole being modest and humble shit, but also OP is most certainly conventionally attractive, ugly people don't think of themselves as pretty, because they have eyes and ears to observe the reaction of people around them and the general ideals of beauty. nah its a privilege
Pretty privilege definitely exists and saying stuff like 'everyone is pretty' erodes the meaning of the word.