Rotte wrote:
hungover wrote:
As someone who grew up curvier/chubbier than most my classmates, and friends - I fully understand what you've gone through with the comments, not feeling good enough, etc.
I recently discovered that I can get whoever the fuck I want, my size doesn't matter 98% of the time, because people find confidence attractive, and while I'm nowhere near confident with my size, fake it til you make it, haha. I started getting lots of positive attention when I started dressing the way I wanted, instead of how our society "wants" curvier, fat and chubby women to dress. (I'm thinking modest, covered up, etc.)
Am I making sense? I don't know.
Lmao, i don't mind my extra fat anymore, but dressing how i want is one of those things i need to work towards ngl. I can admire that