Limbs wrote:
the other day i talked on jodel about how like. when i'm seeing people (men) i wish i could tell who is ok with/attracted to fat people, and who isn't, because it just makes me anxious not knowing what they're thinking about my body. because you know sometimes men hookup with women they find ugly out of desperation, despite thinking they're gross. n it would just feel awful if i'm one of those people
and literally everyone in the thread (over 10 people) jumped at me saying i need to "get over my fucking insecurities and stop blaming men", that of course fat people can be attractive, being fat doesn't make you any less worthy and i'm stupid for thinking like this
and i just??? when did this happen, is being fat actually acceptable now? because i've spent my whole damn life hearing that people my size are disgusting, whales, ugly, not worthy of being alive, etc. i still hear that a lot. i don't understand how ppl can say shit like that and then blame fat people for being insecure about being fat?? what. i mean pick a side already