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fat is ok now???
Private
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the other day i talked on jodel about how like. when i'm seeing people (men) i wish i could tell who is ok with/attracted to fat people, and who isn't, because it just makes me anxious not knowing what they're thinking about my body. because you know sometimes men hookup with women they find ugly out of desperation, despite thinking they're gross. n it would just feel awful if i'm one of those people

and literally everyone in the thread (over 10 people) jumped at me saying i need to "get over my fucking insecurities and stop blaming men", that of course fat people can be attractive, being fat doesn't make you any less worthy and i'm stupid for thinking like this

and i just??? when did this happen, is being fat actually acceptable now? because i've spent my whole damn life hearing that people my size are disgusting, whales, ugly, not worthy of being alive, etc. i still hear that a lot. i don't understand how ppl can say shit like that and then blame fat people for being insecure about being fat?? what. i mean pick a side already
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and before anyone says "if you don't like being fat just lose weight", yes i know but that's not what we're talking about right now
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Limbs wrote:
and before anyone says "if you don't like being fat just lose weight", yes i know but that's not what we're talking about right now
I hate the "just lose weight" I wanna swoosh, that shit require fucking work and willpower. 
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i fucking hate society omg. one time i got told by a therapist i’d be happier if i lost some weight bc itd give me confidence LMAO 
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vives wrote:
i fucking hate society omg. one time i got told by a therapist i’d be happier if i lost some weight bc itd give me confidence LMAO 
🙃🙃🙃🙃
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Angelica wrote:
vives wrote:
i fucking hate society omg. one time i got told by a therapist i’d be happier if i lost some weight bc itd give me confidence LMAO 
🙃🙃🙃🙃
i was also 15 at the time… what type of “therapist” tells that to a 15 year old 😭 
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vives wrote:
Angelica wrote:
vives wrote:
i fucking hate society omg. one time i got told by a therapist i’d be happier if i lost some weight bc itd give me confidence LMAO 
🙃🙃🙃🙃
i was also 15 at the time… what type of “therapist” tells that to a 15 year old 😭 
I understand that exercise can bring a healthy mind, but assuming that being skinny will resolve mental problems sounds like a stretch. I guess it works for some if that is where the problem stems from, but i wasn't much happier, when i was skinnier.
MichaelaNightray
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vives wrote:
i fucking hate society omg. one time i got told by a therapist i’d be happier if i lost some weight bc itd give me confidence LMAO 
I have heard the same thing. I can't count on my fingers how many times i have heard 'You'd be so pretty if you lost weight' or 'Imagine how pretty you would be if you lost some weight'

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lmao boys literally be resorting to insulting our weight when we reject them 
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kruspersille wrote:
lmao boys literally be resorting to insulting our weight when we reject them 
what
that's not what i said at all though
MissLondon
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Why listen to the negative shit tho?
I think when someone is truly comfortable 
in their own skin, it shows and it’s ATTRACTIVE 
Kinda sad that people get so caught up with
how others view them.
whatever size you are, own it🤷🏾‍♀️
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MissLondon wrote:
Why listen to the negative shit tho?
I think when someone is truly comfortable 
in their own skin, it shows and it’s ATTRACTIVE 
Kinda sad that people get so caught up with
how others view them.
whatever size you are, own it🤷🏾‍♀️

MissLondon
Queen of Queens



Limbs wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Why listen to the negative shit tho?
I think when someone is truly comfortable 
in their own skin, it shows and it’s ATTRACTIVE 
Kinda sad that people get so caught up with
how others view them.
whatever size you are, own it🤷🏾‍♀️
I don’t understand what that means 
but I feel that if I would have posted
something negative you would have believed it
apologies if that’s not the case
Private
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MissLondon wrote:
Limbs wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Why listen to the negative shit tho?
I think when someone is truly comfortable 
in their own skin, it shows and it’s ATTRACTIVE 
Kinda sad that people get so caught up with
how others view them.
whatever size you are, own it🤷🏾‍♀️
I don’t understand what that means 
but I feel that if I would have posted
something negative you would have believed it
apologies if that’s not the case
what does this even mean, you wanted to say something negative but decided to post this instead for some reason?

you're saying the same thing people on jodel said, just with different words. if you can't see why that would be frustrating, idk what to tell you. n it's "kinda sad" you feel the need to be condescending
MissLondon
Queen of Queens



Limbs wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Limbs wrote:
I don’t understand what that means 
but I feel that if I would have posted
something negative you would have believed it
apologies if that’s not the case
what does this even mean, you wanted to say something negative but decided to post this instead for some reason?

you're saying the same thing people on jodel said, just with different words. if you can't see why that would be frustrating, idk what to tell you. n it's "kinda sad" you feel the need to be condescending
That’s the thing, why is it that you’re more prone
to believe/react to something negative 
more easily than something positive?
that said, where in the post was I condescending
when I encouraged you to love who you are?
MennaMohsin
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Guys, don't even care about that shit, like, just live? life isn't that long to care for what people say.
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