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that is a good question...
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Barbarella wrote:
"is it pathology or a bad personality"
is the basis of my fucking identity crisis right now lol
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Date: 14-10-2021 17:05
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Sylvan wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
"is it pathology or a bad personality"
is the basis of my fucking identity crisis right now lol
Imo intention matters a great deal, oftentimes I'm surprised by the strong reaction I get for stuff I thought was neutral/ a normal thing to say.
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Barbarella wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
"is it pathology or a bad personality"
is the basis of my fucking identity crisis right now lol
Imo intention matters a great deal, oftentimes I'm surprised by the strong reaction I get for stuff I thought was neutral/ a normal thing to say.
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holy fuck
but like, does intention matter if regardless of intention you can't make friends because of being too...too much? lol
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Sylvan wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
"is it pathology or a bad personality"
is the basis of my fucking identity crisis right now lol
Imo intention matters a great deal, oftentimes I'm surprised by the strong reaction I get for stuff I thought was neutral/ a normal thing to say.
RIGHT
holy fuck
but like, does intention matter if regardless of intention you can't make friends because of being too...too much? lol
I think it matters when it comes to what kind of person you are, even though the outcome of a bad personality and shortcomings in interpersonal matters may have the same result. One could argue however that once you had that realization you should try to work on it.
Personally, I'm split when it comes to that stuff. On the one hand, you don't want to hurt people, thoughtless words and not conforming to social standards can hurt other people, on the other hand, we live in such a complicated society and sometimes people chose to be offended by things that don't really matter in the big picture.

It's complicated to stay true to yourself while simultaneously not pushing people you like away. If the whole social stuff doesn't come naturally to you, you will have to make some sacrifices to find a balance, at least in my experience. It is exhausting to put out metaphorical fires when you weren't even aware of lighting a match.
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Barbarella wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Imo intention matters a great deal, oftentimes I'm surprised by the strong reaction I get for stuff I thought was neutral/ a normal thing to say.
RIGHT
holy fuck
but like, does intention matter if regardless of intention you can't make friends because of being too...too much? lol
I think it matters when it comes to what kind of person you are, even though the outcome of a bad personality and shortcomings in interpersonal matters may have the same result. One could argue however that once you had that realization you should try to work on it.
Personally, I'm split when it comes to that stuff. On the one hand, you don't want to hurt people, thoughtless words and not conforming to social standards can hurt other people, on the other hand, we live in such a complicated society and sometimes people chose to be offended by things that don't really matter in the big picture.

It's complicated to stay true to yourself while simultaneously not pushing people you like away. If the whole social stuff doesn't come naturally to you, you will have to make some sacrifices to find a balance, at least in my experience. It is exhausting to put out metaphorical fires when you weren't even aware of lighting a match.
that hit me in a whole ass new way lol

mostly its hard in workplaces, I can't hold a job - I'm self employed now but for years I was just fired for behaviors I didn't know were problems. 
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I understand them, but if I care depends on situation, just goes automatic when needed 
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ouch wrote:
ouch wrote:
I understand them, but if I care depends on situation, just goes automatic when needed 
The only way my atomatic responses are gonna mess up is if im on drugs tbh, I still KNOW while im saying stuff that I shouldn't say this n that n bla bla bla, but I can't stop lmfao 
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Alam wrote:
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Barbarella wrote:
ouch wrote:
ouch wrote:
I understand them, but if I care depends on situation, just goes automatic when needed 
The only way my atomatic responses are gonna mess up is if im on drugs tbh, I still KNOW while im saying stuff that I shouldn't say this n that n bla bla bla, but I can't stop lmfao 
I'm actually somewhat better when I'm stoned? Not perfect but it does slow my mouth down to meet my brain.
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ouch wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
ouch wrote:
ouch wrote:
I understand them, but if I care depends on situation, just goes automatic when needed 
The only way my atomatic responses are gonna mess up is if im on drugs tbh, I still KNOW while im saying stuff that I shouldn't say this n that n bla bla bla, but I can't stop lmfao 
I'm actually somewhat better when I'm stoned? Not perfect but it does slow my mouth down to meet my brain.
Yeah its mostly on stimulants I mess up a lot, cus finally my brain is like ah yes lets talk duper super fast n its a blessing cus my brain always wnat to talk that fast but also when im not used to it, stuff just comes out that would usually be automatically weeded away before it comes out 
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Barbarella wrote:
Gonna get stoned and clean my kitchen to meditate on this question lol
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Barbarella wrote:
it's been 24 hours and I still do not feel any closer to knowing the answer to this question lol
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Hope you find your answer tbh bc i don't got one 
Date: 15-10-2021 17:07
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Chat0yant wrote:
Alam wrote:
Both
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Barbarella wrote:
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Hope you find your answer tbh bc i don't got one 
Oh I definitely do not expect anyone on VP to be able to read my mind lol

I just love sharing the kind of questions that like, rip you apart from the inside out. 
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