Chat0yant wrote: i wouldn't usually loan money, but i live by the quote (dave ramesy i think) "don't lend anyone money unless you are ok never getting it back". so i did loan my one friend gradually like $200 cause she needed it and i was just like "if u wanna pay me back, cool. if not, cool, i'm not gonna ever bring it up cause ur more important to me than money" so i think if you are ok with helping her out and such, great. just don't go any farther than you can without resentment building cause u have a life too (i.e. don't let her abuse you--not that it sounds like she was in this situation.
idk if that was too much to say but i don't want you to be discouraged. be smart, but it's ok not to live your life as efficiency incarnate
OceanDarling wrote: Ok so your Not wrong for asking for the money back I mean if u really needed it then it's fine and if it takes weight of her shoulder then your fine it thats just my opinion♥️