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Am I crazy?
Taomiline
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Taomiline wrote:
Background info: My friend loaned almost 400€ from me last year. Not all at once, but the final debt was eventually the sum above.

She's been really slow with payments and today I finally told her to just forget about the debt. She still owed me 255€.

I honestly feel better not having to worry about the debt anymore, and I don't critically need the money back so it's cool. It felt like the right thing to do. But like, am I crazy to let go of a debt that big? Even if she is a dear longtime friend.

Thoughts?
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Date: 13-12-2021 22:17
Taomiline
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Taomiline wrote:
She was really grateful and it was a huge weight off her shoulders.
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Date: 13-12-2021 22:17
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Sylvan wrote:
If you can afford it, good for you, but I wouldn't lend her money ever again 
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Date: 13-12-2021 22:20
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Pavlov wrote:
youre gonna regret that one day
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Date: 13-12-2021 22:20
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Arthema wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
If you can afford it, good for you, but I wouldn't lend her money ever again 
^^^
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Date: 13-12-2021 22:21
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disposable wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
If you can afford it, good for you, but I wouldn't lend her money ever again 
this 
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Date: 13-12-2021 22:21
Taomiline
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Taomiline wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
If you can afford it, good for you, but I wouldn't lend her money ever again 

Yeah, that's what I was thinking too.
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Date: 13-12-2021 22:23
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autism wrote:
No
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Date: 13-12-2021 22:30
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As long as you can afford it, it was practically a "good deed" for your friend which I hope they show big gratefulness for. Like helping out a friend who needed it or something. However, I would not want to make it a habit or do it again without clear rules for when they are paying you back because that's *a lot* of money.

hopefully, she'll pay you back in another way or something later in life when she might be more financially independent and stable. i hope it went to something important.


it was crazy in the eyes of capitalism, for sure. 
but everyone understands helping out friends who need it more than you when you can.
Date: 13-12-2021 22:31
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BloomCissi wrote:
Vintersolverv wrote:
As long as you can afford it, it was practically a "good deed" for your friend which I hope they show big gratefulness for. Like helping out a friend who needed it or something. However, I would not want to make it a habit or do it again without clear rules for when they are paying you back because that's *a lot* of money.

hopefully, she'll pay you back in another way or something later in life when she might be more financially independent and stable. i hope it went to something important.


it was crazy in the eyes of capitalism, for sure. 
but everyone understands helping out friends who need it more than you when you can.
Oh wow, you changed your username. 
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Date: 13-12-2021 22:34
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BloomCissi wrote:
Vintersolverv wrote:
As long as you can afford it, it was practically a "good deed" for your friend which I hope they show big gratefulness for. Like helping out a friend who needed it or something. However, I would not want to make it a habit or do it again without clear rules for when they are paying you back because that's *a lot* of money.

hopefully, she'll pay you back in another way or something later in life when she might be more financially independent and stable. i hope it went to something important.


it was crazy in the eyes of capitalism, for sure. 
but everyone understands helping out friends who need it more than you when you can.
Oh wow, you changed your username. 
yes and this name is annoyingly long
Date: 13-12-2021 22:36
Hungover
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hungover wrote:
No, I don't think it was. If you can afford it, it's not crazy - she clearly needs it.
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Date: 14-12-2021 00:12
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absintjente wrote:
i think my one rule abt lending money is i dont. i just give it, because lending money can put a serious strain on any relationship and i dont want my view of ppl being soured by something as trivial as money. 
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Date: 14-12-2021 00:30
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DAD wrote:
it seems like she was struggling to pay stuff back like bills, food etc. including you so maybe it was a big weight off her shoulders and she was truly grateful but yeah i would be cautious loaning more money. 
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Date: 14-12-2021 00:41
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MissLondon wrote:
It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks
if you feel like it was the right thing to do.
Because you gave from you heart
I think you’ll be blessed 
with something in return❤️
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Date: 14-12-2021 01:17
Taomiline
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Taomiline wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks
if you feel like it was the right thing to do.
Because you gave from you heart
I think you’ll be blessed 
with something in return❤️
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Date: 14-12-2021 01:52
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