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Sylvan wrote:

Sol wrote:
i don't know if this is doable for you but maybe you can ask him straight up? ask what his intentions are as you don't want to lead him on or something, i'm sure he'll understand ! if there's anything more than friendly going on, you can tell him that you're not interested in him that way & you won't have to feel guilty :]

I don't know how he would react. Like he's the first person that I met at uni and talked to about more than just about uni stuff and I'm just so bloody lonely.

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Sol wrote:

Sylvan wrote:

Sol wrote:
i don't know if this is doable for you but maybe you can ask him straight up? ask what his intentions are as you don't want to lead him on or something, i'm sure he'll understand ! if there's anything more than friendly going on, you can tell him that you're not interested in him that way & you won't have to feel guilty :]

I don't know how he would react. Like he's the first person that I met at uni and talked to about more than just about uni stuff and I'm just so bloody lonely.

hmm so you're scared that he'll no longer want to talk to you after you ask him about his intentions?

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Sylvan wrote:

Sol wrote:

Sylvan wrote:

Sol wrote:
i don't know if this is doable for you but maybe you can ask him straight up? ask what his intentions are as you don't want to lead him on or something, i'm sure he'll understand ! if there's anything more than friendly going on, you can tell him that you're not interested in him that way & you won't have to feel guilty :]

I don't know how he would react. Like he's the first person that I met at uni and talked to about more than just about uni stuff and I'm just so bloody lonely.

hmm so you're scared that he'll no longer want to talk to you after you ask him about his intentions?

Yes like one hand I don't want to lead him on but on the other hand I don't wanna be alone all the time.
It's nice to have some1 who wants to spend time with u, yk?
I experienced this before that the moment a guy finds out you aren't into him that way they drop u like a hot potato and that shit hurts

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Sylvan wrote:
Maybe I should like tell him a funny anecdote about how I misunderstood something trivial and that silly me, you have to tell me stuff very directly because I overlook stuff a lot?

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Sol wrote:

Sylvan wrote:

Sol wrote:

Sylvan wrote:
I don't know how he would react. Like he's the first person that I met at uni and talked to about more than just about uni stuff and I'm just so bloody lonely.

hmm so you're scared that he'll no longer want to talk to you after you ask him about his intentions?

Yes like one hand I don't want to lead him on but on the other hand I don't wanna be alone all the time.
It's nice to have some1 who wants to spend time with u, yk?
I experienced this before that the moment a guy finds out you aren't into him that way they drop u like a hot potato and that shit hurts

yeah, that definitely sucks. though, i doubt you'd want to be friends with a guy who'd drop you like that anyways, right? if he'd do that, he can hardly be a good friend, i think. though that doesn't make it easier i guess.