MissLondon wrote:Lemon wrote:Limbs wrote:
i'm so sorry ur going through this. your dad sounds like actually severely mentally ill
yeah, i think he is also burnt out from working too much and economical issues we face rn. does not justify him i know it is just i kind of understand him. will i forgive though? no.
If your dad is burnt out from working/financial strain
maybe he wouldnāt be upset if you worked part timeĀ
while living at home.
It would give you some independenceĀ
and allow you to save money for your own place
It might also make him Ā and others chill
about your nails, shoes whateverĀ
if their money didnāt pay for it.
Also would be weird if he got upset over it
because most parents want their kids to be independentĀ
since they wonāt live forever.
Anyway, best of luck with
your situationĀ
i already told him i made cv and that i am reaching out to a job giver. he knew i was going to get a work. in fact ii worked 2 jobs last semester so i could pay myself without any help and took off 450tl a month off of his back.Ā