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PetaI wrote:
depends

but most of the time i do take it seriously pls..

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MissLondon wrote:
@Eostre in response to the deleted post
at that point, I always feel as if the attitude then
becomes “do as I say and not as I do” lol

You’re 💯 regarding the friend aspect
so I respect those even more who
let me know, “love ya but you’re wrong sis”
idk maybe people go along with it
out of fear people won’t like
or accept them anymore
then again, idk how vp thinks

Hehe ye i was taking a double thought bc it was so late if i was gonna keep it up or not

It's good to be called out by friends once in a while and told if they don't agree w stuff u r doing or saying

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Living legend

Maxwell wrote:
Depends who writes it, how they write it, when they write it, what they write about, etc etc

On a basis lvl ai take it prob less serious than normal bcus it is vp, but also u all r real ppl behind this wall so gotta keep one serious bone in me

Alam
World famous

Alam wrote:
If you're asking if I care about people here or take them for their word on things, yes, generally I do. If you're asking if the dumb shit people here say affects me outside of the time I spend here, no, rarely if ever.

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Rotte wrote:
Dont think i ever thought about something through and through?

maybe mostly eostre threads, bc I am curious with their topics sometimes.

MissLondon
Queen of Queens

MissLondon wrote:

Maxwell wrote:
Depends who writes it, how they write it, when they write it, what they write about, etc etc

On a basis lvl ai take it prob less serious than normal bcus it is vp, but also u all r real ppl behind this wall so gotta keep one serious bone in me

That’s fair and I agree
regarding some users

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YSL wrote:

Aske wrote:
i take it seriously, as in i take it that ppl are being serious, unless obviously joking
but i don't take it seriously in the sense that it carries any weight or affects me personally cuz it's whatever

this

MissLondon
Queen of Queens

MissLondon wrote:

Alam wrote:
If you're asking if I care about people here or take them for their word on things, yes, generally I do. If you're asking if the dumb shit people here say affects me outside of the time I spend here, no, rarely if ever.

I care if it’s others
when it’s basic human relatable things
like being nervous for a date
losing a loved one, being homeless etc

Do I take people for their word
concerning me?
No, they come across as
a little pretentious tho

MissLondon
Queen of Queens

MissLondon wrote:

Melody wrote:
depends
i mostly take people seriously unless they indicate clearly that they are joking. i can't read sarcasm and i misunderstand ppl's intentions. i generally write in /neu unless i indicate it otherwise or add emojis. i try to assume everyone writes in /neu also but i have also seen ppl here mock indicators so it gives me mixed signals. i have SAD (social anxiety disorder) so sometimes my mind twists ppl's written words into worst thing imaginable but i try to ignore the voices in my head

I stopped using emojis here
because I was told it’s passive aggressive

I’m contacting the VP NAACP
on Monday

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Melody wrote:

MissLondon wrote:

Melody wrote:
depends
i mostly take people seriously unless they indicate clearly that they are joking. i can't read sarcasm and i misunderstand ppl's intentions. i generally write in /neu unless i indicate it otherwise or add emojis. i try to assume everyone writes in /neu also but i have also seen ppl here mock indicators so it gives me mixed signals. i have SAD (social anxiety disorder) so sometimes my mind twists ppl's written words into worst thing imaginable but i try to ignore the voices in my head

I stopped using emojis here
because I was told it’s passive aggressive

I’m contacting the VP NAACP
on Monday

yeah emojis can absolutely be read as passive aggressive depending on how u word urself, as well as the topic u r handling at the given moment. default crying and smiling emojis (as well as the written out variants) i've noted are super often used in passive aggressive manner in conjunction with sarcasm, so when ppl use them next to words like "thank you" or "i'm sorry", i have trouble reading if they are being genuine or not. i avoid using them myself bc of that

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Melody wrote:
idk if that's something ppl care to read abt but. ppl aren't obligated to portray their feelings, it just makes stuff easier for the few of us who r disabled on social level ahahah

Stormiexx
Streetmusician

Stormiexx wrote:
i take everything on vp seriously.

MissLondon
Queen of Queens

MissLondon wrote:

Melody wrote:

MissLondon wrote:

Melody wrote:
depends
i mostly take people seriously unless they indicate clearly that they are joking. i can't read sarcasm and i misunderstand ppl's intentions. i generally write in /neu unless i indicate it otherwise or add emojis. i try to assume everyone writes in /neu also but i have also seen ppl here mock indicators so it gives me mixed signals. i have SAD (social anxiety disorder) so sometimes my mind twists ppl's written words into worst thing imaginable but i try to ignore the voices in my head

I stopped using emojis here
because I was told it’s passive aggressive

I’m contacting the VP NAACP
on Monday

yeah emojis can absolutely be read as passive aggressive depending on how u word urself, as well as the topic u r handling at the given moment. default crying and smiling emojis (as well as the written out variants) i've noted are super often used in passive aggressive manner in conjunction with sarcasm, so when ppl use them next to words like "thank you" or "i'm sorry", i have trouble reading if they are being genuine or not. i avoid using them myself bc of that

Whenever I use emojis
it’s just me using it
nothing more or less
but thank you for being decent
and taking time to further
explain it