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Elisia wrote:

toraix wrote:

Elisia wrote:

TogetherForever wrote:
Definitely no. An option would be to help him move his stuff. That way, you and your family could move on from the situation. Obviously, don't do it by yourself; have him help you. And maybe your helping him could spark something so that he'll declutter more.

i tried helping, and what should've taken 10 minutes took 3 hours because every item has a story
my favorite exaple is the Bejeweled CD, he can't play it and doesn't like it, but it was his wife's favorite so he won't throw it away Shrug

I RELATE TO THIS SO MUCH

honestly best way is to get like actual strangers to help declutter who are paid for their time (speaking from experience)
i dont think anyone should be forced to sit in a dusty musty home full of stuff even if its a loved one

i thought about it, but he'd never pay someone to do it, because he just doesn't see it as a problem

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Elisia wrote:

Aske wrote:
no youre not, sounds like what he's been telling your family is straight up dishonest. i dont think you should be raising the man no matter how much of a chaos machine he is, but if he made you a promise you are right to put your foot down when he doesnt keep it.

The whole family is blaming his behavior on his mental illness, and because of his mental illness they seem to think i should give in to whatever he says since it's his house anyway.

I feel very solid in the fact that I gave my condition and my condition was not met

i mean, if it is obviously causing issues and they believe it is a mental health issue, shouldn't they be helping him get into/take seriously therapy? Like, if he needs professional help, you can't be expected to just magically fix things. As someone else said, let a professional help. A professional declutter-er could be an option, but a professional health care associate might help more.

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