siXsiXsiX wrote:octocat wrote:siXsiXsiX wrote:
right! it's gonna be magical!
what have you got in mind for your celebration/wedding?^^
jesus how sweet. if you managed long distance for five years then you know it's real!
when i met my guy i was ready to move in right away. we didn't. but that's how easy everything it felt with him.
we've been living together for half a year now tho
and i'm 27.. so you don't want to waste your time on a fling. and i didn't intend on meeting anybody. but it just happened
this might sound sad and/or boring. but both of us are introverts who don't enjoy being in the spotlight, and i don't have a lot of close ppl around me, so i don't really feel the need for a traditional wedding. i'd be happy with going to the stadshus and then maybe just have a nice dinner afterwards with closest family.
i'd be happy with not being married as well, it might be legally beneficial at some point but i don't feel like it's a vital part to make that "promise" in our relationship that it's forever. like u said, we managed 5 years long distance and grew up together, that's all the proof i need hahah

that sounds very romcom and i love that, life should be easy with a partner and when it accidentally finds u just hold on tight and enjoy the ride haha!
i get you! doesn't sound boring at all! that's what you want, and it's special to you!
and i don't want much more than that either. i think we'll get married at the stadshus
but then i want cermonial party at the barn i was talking about. with our parents and siblings and a few friends.
yeah. i'm not that well read upon what it means to be married apart from the ritual of love. lol
but if one off you dies and you own a house. and i't written on the person who dies. you have no right to it.. and their belongings doesn't go to you.. and stuff like that i think
i hoenstly have no clue what it means for the better or the worse..
yeah i suppose, honestly i think we're both pretty lazy so we'd probably be the couple who just stays engaged for 10 years before getting married haha