emogirrrl123 wrote:
Yikes. Unfortunately, this isn't uncommon. We had a creep at my ex school as a teacher as well. He didn't assault anyone but he did groom some students, myself included, to have sex with him after graduating. While we were still in contact, he told me about the students he found sexually attractive from time to time and sexualised the underage me (asked when I lost my virginity, how I must have had been a horny child/teen etc). He(59 now, 54 when I first met him) printed my school photos while I was still a student (16-19 yo) and stalked me a lot. And somehow younger, insecure me thought this was romantic and proof that we were meant to be. Also, my mom didn't give a f, great.
Later on he encouraged my excessive alcohol usage during a dark time of my life (which led to my now cured alcoholism) and encouraged me to do risky/dangerous stuff and encouraged me to go to sex work (I didn't, thank god). He tried to mold me to his fantasy of a trashy, messed up nymphomaniac and I didn't realize it was abusive until the end of last year because he was sexually submissive. A guy tried to rape me and he said I should be proud to be that hot. Yikes. Truly. Yikes.