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how do i tell my friend that i dont want
GENOS
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GENOS wrote:
to be friends anymore? she was my very dear friend but she was toxic as hell. we got into a fight every week or so. about what you may ask. well one time she got angry at me because i didnt think belle delphine had a weird child fetish. she told me several times to “fuck off” and never talk to her again. she has never said sorry for anything wrong she did but expects everyone to say sorry to her. she likes to be the centre of attention and i am the complete opposite. we clash a lot because of that. sometimes i feel like she’s so full of herself. one time she sent me a pic of a random girl and she asked me “am i prettier than her? cus i think i am” and how she doesnt understand when someone thinks she’s not hot.

she’s upset about how i forgot her birthday (im sorry but i dont remember anyone’s birthday, not even my dad’s) and how i only commented “hahahaha” on a funny video she sent me. and she gave me some clothes more than 2 years ago that i never wear anymore so i sold it and she was really upset about that too and she told all her friends how bad of a friend i am and now they think im a “bitch cunt”

after our last fight in january i really wasnt in the mood to talk to her at all so i took my distance. ive had enough of negative energy around me and i want it to stop. of course we have had great memories like going to concerts and going out eating, but the negative was more powerful than the positive energy. i want to cut the contact. but i really dont know how to tell her... what the hell should i say?

TLDR: i want to cut contact with my toxic best friend but im too afraid for her reaction, that she might me to fuck off again. we were great friends but i dont see any joy in our friendship anymore. how do i tell her this?
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Meep wrote:
i had a toxic friend and i just slowly started to ignore her
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:12
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Levana wrote:
just ignore her at this point it's honestly not worth it. you'd rather just cut her off completely
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:14
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wug wrote:
Levana wrote:
just ignore her at this point it's honestly not worth it. you'd rather just cut her off completely
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:15
GENOS
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GENOS wrote:
Meep wrote:
i had a toxic friend and i just slowly started to ignore her
my mom said i should do that too. but i want to let her know she’s toxic and manipulative.
even her friend at school told her that she’s manipulative when she wanted to cut the contact but my friend didnt want to believe it and said it was BS
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:16
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MissLondon wrote:
Not saying anything sometimes carries more weight than words. 
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:17
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Rotte wrote:
GENOS wrote:
Meep wrote:
i had a toxic friend and i just slowly started to ignore her
my mom said i should do that too. but i want to let her know she’s toxic and manipulative.
even her friend at school told her that she’s manipulative when she wanted to cut the contact but my friend didnt want to believe it and said it was BS
If anything leave her a text saying, like u can't deal with the toxic behavior anymore how u feel and then just cut it from there
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Juniper wrote:
Block 
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:18
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Sofia wrote:
you could ignore her or tell her that you think you're being treated unfairly and that it's starting to take a toll on you and your friendship and that you don't want to be in it anymore

i think she needs a wake up call and you can give it to her by talking and telling her what's been on your mind for some time now, then you could cut the contact
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:18
GENOS
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GENOS wrote:
Juniper wrote:
Block 
im so afraid that she will talk shit behind my back to people who know me and talk to the people who have hurt me in the past
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:19
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I had a very similar situation with my best friend. We got into a ridiculous arguement because she thought I was stealing money from her which I wasnt (long story short I wasnt getting money from our other roommate for internet and payments built up and we got cut off. I showed her proof her money was going toward it and she didnt believe me). She told me we needed to "take a long break from our friendship". Didnt talk to her for a month and she messaged me trying to apologize but I just ignored her. Realized she was toxic and I was much better off without her. Just cut ties completely. If shes anything like my friend she wont listen if you try to tell her you dont want to be friends. 
Date: 13-06-2020 22:19
GENOS
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GENOS wrote:
Photosynthesis wrote:
I had a very similar situation with my best friend. We got into a ridiculous arguement because she thought I was stealing money from her which I wasnt (long story short I wasnt getting money from our other roommate for internet and payments built up and we got cut off. I showed her proof her money was going toward it and she didnt believe me). She told me we needed to "take a long break from our friendship". Didnt talk to her for a month and she messaged me trying to apologize but I just ignored her. Realized she was toxic and I was much better off without her. Just cut ties completely. If shes anything like my friend she wont listen if you try to tell her you dont want to be friends. 
sounds a bit like my friend :-/ whenevr we get into an argument she ALWAYS says “we need to take a break from our friendship” so manipulative
idk how to handle this situation
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:23
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GENOS wrote:
Photosynthesis wrote:
I had a very similar situation with my best friend. We got into a ridiculous arguement because she thought I was stealing money from her which I wasnt (long story short I wasnt getting money from our other roommate for internet and payments built up and we got cut off. I showed her proof her money was going toward it and she didnt believe me). She told me we needed to "take a long break from our friendship". Didnt talk to her for a month and she messaged me trying to apologize but I just ignored her. Realized she was toxic and I was much better off without her. Just cut ties completely. If shes anything like my friend she wont listen if you try to tell her you dont want to be friends. 
sounds a bit like my friend :-/ whenevr we get into an argument she ALWAYS says “we need to take a break from our friendship” so manipulative
idk how to handle this situation
Next time just extend that break indefinitely. You will be better off without her I promise 
Date: 13-06-2020 22:24
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Sobbing wrote:
i'd be upset if my bestfriend forgot my birthday and sold off the clothes i gifted her too but I'd get over it eventually, 
think it's weird that she went ahead and made others think bad of you and is very full of herself

best you can do is just tell her these things, if people end up siding with her then you just know that they werent worth the time, honestly
you're probably in a young age too so its tough but i promise you that these people arent gonna be there for you when you're 40 either way so move on and focus more on yourself rather than negative people around you
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:25
GENOS
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GENOS wrote:
Catpods wrote:
i'd be upset if my bestfriend forgot my birthday and sold off the clothes i gifted her too but I'd get over it eventually, 
think it's weird that she went ahead and made others think bad of you and is very full of herself

best you can do is just tell her these things, if people end up siding with her then you just know that they werent worth the time, honestly
you're probably in a young age too so its tough but i promise you that these people arent gonna be there for you when you're 40 either way so move on and focus more on yourself rather than negative people around you
yeah i understand she got upset about that, but i cant help forgetting something its not on purpose you know. and about the clothes stuff. its more than 2 years ago and i dont wear any of that anymore so why leave it in my closet?  i told her im working on myself, finding my true self who i really am and im working a lot rn but she didnt say anything like “good for you, i understand” she just went ahead and talked shit about me
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:28
GENOS
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GENOS wrote:
Photosynthesis wrote:
GENOS wrote:
Photosynthesis wrote:
I had a very similar situation with my best friend. We got into a ridiculous arguement because she thought I was stealing money from her which I wasnt (long story short I wasnt getting money from our other roommate for internet and payments built up and we got cut off. I showed her proof her money was going toward it and she didnt believe me). She told me we needed to "take a long break from our friendship". Didnt talk to her for a month and she messaged me trying to apologize but I just ignored her. Realized she was toxic and I was much better off without her. Just cut ties completely. If shes anything like my friend she wont listen if you try to tell her you dont want to be friends. 
sounds a bit like my friend :-/ whenevr we get into an argument she ALWAYS says “we need to take a break from our friendship” so manipulative
idk how to handle this situation
Next time just extend that break indefinitely. You will be better off without her I promise 
i completely stopped talking to her and she’s questioning herself rn
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Date: 13-06-2020 22:29
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