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Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:
Hey guys! 

Some of you might have noticed, that i haven't been much online for the past months. One of the reasons is that my parents have been close to a divorce for a long time now, and the past months have been really difficult. I'm 17 yo and I still live at home, and with all the quarantine and stuff I've been home almost 24/7. That basically means I've been listening my parents fighting A LOT. This environment has been very toxic for me and cause my anxiety go through the roof.

The reason for all this is, that my dad has been lying about his money situation, stealing my moms mail and doing really shady stuff behind her back. In conclusion we are almost 100k € in debt. When I heard of all this, I couldn't believe my ears. This all came out almost 6 months ago, but everything feels still so unreal.

Anyhow, if some of ya'll have been in even a bit similar situation, I could use some support. Please share your experiences and be kind. <3
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Date: 30-06-2020 11:46 | Times changed: 2
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Appealingly wrote:
Oh really sorry to hear that. My parents has been going through rough times too. One day my mom drunkenly told my brother and I that she would divorce my dad. Eventually, they made up though. Thank god! My point is: I feel your pain. It was the worst time of my life. 
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Date: 30-06-2020 11:50
Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:
Appealingly wrote:
Oh really sorry to hear that. My parents has been going through rough times too. One day my mom drunkenly told my brother and I that she would divorce my dad. Eventually, they made up though. Thank god! My point is: I feel your pain. It was the worst time of my life. 
Thank you! I'm sorry to hear that too. It's so weird that things that are not my fault still affect me this much. It feels SO UNFAIR aaaahhh
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Date: 30-06-2020 11:52
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damn, i'm really sorry you have to go through this situation :[ i'm hoping you at least can escape it asap or that you and your mom get back on your feet eventually
Date: 30-06-2020 11:52
BTS
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BTS wrote:
take care of yourself first - idk but maybe sleep at your friends home or say they should seperate and don’t argue when you are there. or your dad should move away til he found something/ mom
i was 7 i guess when my parents divorced 
i remember little things how they fight so it wasn’t great
i think it’s the best for you when you don’t go to deep in their fight or situation. they should handle it alone
but not in front you
yeah and speak to your love ones who you trust or idk therapie? it can help 
don’t let everything in yourself, if you can’t handle it yourself
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Date: 30-06-2020 11:53
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Appealingly wrote:
Aphrodite wrote:
Appealingly wrote:
Oh really sorry to hear that. My parents has been going through rough times too. One day my mom drunkenly told my brother and I that she would divorce my dad. Eventually, they made up though. Thank god! My point is: I feel your pain. It was the worst time of my life. 
Thank you! I'm sorry to hear that too. It's so weird that things that are not my fault still affect me this much. It feels SO UNFAIR aaaahhh
Well, it's your parents, so ofc I will affect you if things aren't good between them. That's only human. But it sucks bc you have no power over the situation since it's between your parents and not your parents AND you.
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Date: 30-06-2020 11:53
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Rotte wrote:
I have been in a situation kinda like this, but it was between my mother and father, it was my mother and former step dad.
U can hit me up in pm if u need to talk about it, then im here!

💗💗
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Date: 30-06-2020 11:54
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Limited wrote:
I can relate. My parents were separate for over a year. He said plenty of times that my mother was cheating on him, but we both (my mother and I) found out that it was actually him cheating on her. There was a lot of fighting, yelling and yikes, really unhealthy relationship we all had in the house. 
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Date: 30-06-2020 11:55
BTS
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BTS wrote:
this might horrible now but it’s for the better
 i think if you can handle that or already in the process of this traumatic thing  you also can handle difficult times in the future ~3
wish you the best :3
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Date: 30-06-2020 11:56
Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:
Heaven wrote:
damn, i'm really sorry you have to go through this situation :[ i'm hoping you at least can escape it asap or that you and your mom get back on your feet eventually
We are trying to figure out something, but my mom loves our home and had been saving a lot of money for this when we moved here since she's always wanted to live in this area. All my mom wanted is to live a peaceful life in her dream house, but no. It just hurts to look at her dreams being crushed.. Gladly I turn 18 next year, so I'll try to find myself an apartment somewhere 
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Date: 30-06-2020 11:56
Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:
BTS wrote:
take care of yourself first - idk but maybe sleep at your friends home or say they should seperate and don’t argue when you are there. or your dad should move away til he found something/ mom
i was 7 i guess when my parents divorced 
i remember little things how they fight so it wasn’t great
i think it’s the best for you when you don’t go to deep in their fight or situation. they should handle it alone
but not in front you
yeah and speak to your love ones who you trust or idk therapie? it can help 
don’t let everything in yourself, if you can’t handle it yourself
I've fortunately been going to therapy for other reason for a couple of years, so at least I have someone to talk to. My friends have also been rly supportive and im super thankful for that. But yeah im trying to take care of myself, I guess I've forgotten it along the way.
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Date: 30-06-2020 12:00
Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:
Ella wrote:
I have been in a situation kinda like this, but it was between my mother and father, it was my mother and former step dad.
U can hit me up in pm if u need to talk about it, then im here!

💗💗
Thank you my love 
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Date: 30-06-2020 12:01
Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:
Limited wrote:
I can relate. My parents were separate for over a year. He said plenty of times that my mother was cheating on him, but we both (my mother and I) found out that it was actually him cheating on her. There was a lot of fighting, yelling and yikes, really unhealthy relationship we all had in the house. 
Oh that sucks sad I'm glad there's no cheating involved here, or at least not that I know of. I honestly wouldn't be surprised tho, I don't trust anything my dad says anymore. But I'm just hoping everything gets better one way or another
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Date: 30-06-2020 12:03
Annie
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Annie wrote:
I hope you can leave that situation ASAP. The closest I can relate is my mom leaving my dad right before I was born cause he abused alcohol and took her money. A lot has happened since but I really can't say it compares to your situation, you're dealing with it personally. I can't really say I like your dad at all. It's all so shitty. I'm sorry you and your mom have to go through this
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Date: 30-06-2020 12:05
Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:
BTS wrote:
this might horrible now but it’s for the better
 i think if you can handle that or already in the process of this traumatic thing  you also can handle difficult times in the future ~3
wish you the best :3
Thank you so much <33
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Date: 30-06-2020 12:05
Annie
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Annie wrote:
BTS wrote:
this might horrible now but it’s for the better
 i think if you can handle that or already in the process of this traumatic thing  you also can handle difficult times in the future ~3
wish you the best :3
I agree, as much as it's hard to go through now it's just building you up to be stronger in the future
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Date: 30-06-2020 12:06
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