devilcake wrote:
And fuck even with the belle thing i know for a fact that pedophilia/exploiting underage people is something she can't even joke about and he's there half defending it. He clearly doesn't even have any respect for her opinions.
and yeah he's one of those people who you can tell is really immature, and stuck in a very high school mindset but will use big words and start whining about context in every single argument.
Honestly can't imagine why she would fall for him in the first place and part of me thinks it's because she was in a very vulnerable part of her life and had just started dating. it makes me really sad and worried for her.
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
He's def manipulating her and everyone else. No matter how much shit have you been going through; everyone has gone through bad shit and many of us still behave like a decent human being. He's just not mature enough to take accountability for the things he does
It's really not. I hope she'll realize soon. Whenever it comes up in conversation again i'm definitely reminding her because jesus. It's like the shit with the slurs too, i know she doesn't really agree with it, but i think she feels like she has to excuse it or else being with him would be bad.devilcake wrote:
idk it feels manipulative on his part too. To be all 'no it wasn't me it's all the shit i've been going through.' She's been through so much shit as well though and she would never.
She's brainwashed into thinking that she's responsible for everything her boyfriend does. I get that she can feel bad, but still isn't her responsabilityBEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
She's really brainwashed, I'm sorry to say that but it's an objective fact
yeah maybe that's it. She's a very empathetic person too, normally. so if he's going through a hard time with his health right now it's not surprising she's blaming that, because she feels bad for him yanno.She's really brainwashed, I'm sorry to say that but it's an objective fact
idk it feels manipulative on his part too. To be all 'no it wasn't me it's all the shit i've been going through.' She's been through so much shit as well though and she would never.
He's def manipulating her and everyone else. No matter how much shit have you been going through; everyone has gone through bad shit and many of us still behave like a decent human being. He's just not mature enough to take accountability for the things he does
And fuck even with the belle thing i know for a fact that pedophilia/exploiting underage people is something she can't even joke about and he's there half defending it. He clearly doesn't even have any respect for her opinions.
and yeah he's one of those people who you can tell is really immature, and stuck in a very high school mindset but will use big words and start whining about context in every single argument.
Honestly can't imagine why she would fall for him in the first place and part of me thinks it's because she was in a very vulnerable part of her life and had just started dating. it makes me really sad and worried for her.