emogirrrl123 wrote:
So, I've been seeing this guy for some time now (2-3 months?) and yesterday we talked about how we feel about seeing other people. I asked him if he had been with other people while we've been seeing each other, once two weeks ago, and then I told him that I don't like sharing. Then he was quiet for a while and then answered "sharing is caring?" and said that it didn't mean anything to him because it was just a one night stand and because in addition to fucking, we're also friends (we weren't friends before hooking up/meeting each other for the first time) and he enjoys spending time with me, the other girl was just sex.
Then I was like hmmmm and said that he can keep doing that as long as they stay as one night stands (he can't keep seeing them after sex) and I'm always, ALWAYS, the number one for him and this means that I can fuck other people too but that they won't mean anything more than sex to me. Then I told him that I actually already fucked a guy as well because lol I wanted to see whether I liked him/the guy1 for real or ifĀ just felt like that because of the sex. The result was that I actually liked him. He answered "good"
Then we didn't talk about it anymore for the rest of the evening/night but I asked about it again in the morning (if we agree to these "rules" for now on) and told him that if he ever breaks these "rules", we'll stop seeing each other. He agrees to the "rules" and says that he wants to keep seeing me because things between us are so smooth
And uhh then I left after reminding him to use condoms with these ladies because bro I don't want any STDs and now I'm confused of what this all means? We're clearly not a couple but we're semi-exclusive as we just allow one night stands for him and meaningless fuckbuddyships for me and both of these without any emotional attachments. But like... Does he still like me or what??