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nah, 20 years of your life or more is one hell of a commitment and you can never get rid of them after you got them
like i want to have influence and shape a part of a childs mind and stuff but i can do that as an aunt/uncle whatev or just babysit a good friends kids or be a teacher of some kind or date someone who is divorced and has their kids like 2 days a week or sth.
also my genes are just soo bad (alopecia in afab people, bad eyes, breast cancer, colon cancer, dying from a heart attack at 50, overweight,... my relatives are ill a lot) so i would never ever consider like genetic children, adoption big big maybe