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Deep talk with me and my boyfriend
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So, since I see that vp people like deep talks and stating opinions I decided to post some themes me and my boyfriend have  discussing and include you guys in them in hope you find it interesting.

Themes the two of us have discussed frequently:
-parenthood and how every parent fucks up their child in some way

-are we inclined to love or just keep in touch with our family just because it's our family even of we don't have any respect for them

-meditation bringing you to the "truth" and how it's hard to get there because there is fear that when you do, nothing will matter and living will not make sense

-therapists are bad at their jobs

-teachers are terrible at their job

-the schooling system is outdated

-my fear of people hating me so I try to make myself likable but I also hate when people use it for their gain

-his anxiety that his anxiety will make him crazy
Date: 06-12-2020 21:52 | Times changed: 2
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Annie wrote:
Ooh hopefully i can contribute
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Date: 06-12-2020 21:54
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Annie wrote:
Ooh hopefully i can contribute
I hope you do
Date: 06-12-2020 21:59
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Just... pick a theme when you want I guess. I didn't think that part trough.
Date: 06-12-2020 22:05
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Rotte wrote:
Oh, i'm just gonna follow this.. might write something later
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Date: 06-12-2020 22:06
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Angelica wrote:
Oh, i'm just gonna follow this.. might write something later
o yeey I will count that as a success to entertain vp people
Date: 06-12-2020 22:08
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callum wrote:
parenthood and how every parent fucks up their child in some way

its true, its true 
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Date: 06-12-2020 22:08
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callum wrote:
parenthood and how every parent fucks up their child in some way

its true, its true 
what is your story 
or opinion

I agree with the statement even tho I have wonderful parents and don't really have anything against the way they raised me and my sisters. But parenting is damn stupid and I never understood why people put themselves into that situation.
Date: 06-12-2020 22:13
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callum wrote:
NOface wrote:
callum wrote:
parenthood and how every parent fucks up their child in some way

its true, its true 
what is your story 
or opinion

I agree with the statement even tho I have wonderful parents and don't really have anything against the way they raised me and my sisters. But parenting is damn stupid and I never understood why people put themselves into that situation.
i mean just look at the way we stereotype kids on gender and the implications of that, i did a sociology lesson on it and thinking about how we teach boys to play with more "skilled" toys than girls is like the first red flag, like ofc they r gonna move on to do more advanced stuff on a general consensus 

and then we teach kids to fucking obey capitalism and stuff like

not sure if that goes under "fucks kids up" but it defo is fucked up one way or another 
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Date: 06-12-2020 22:15
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wug wrote:
-parenthood and how every parent fucks up their child in some way
well yes of course, humans are egoistic and stupid simultaneously, parents want to relive their lives through their kids, fixing mistakes they did to get a better outcome, kids won't listen because they are by nature stupid cunts so they do the same mistakes over and over again, humanity is bound to fail. 

-are we inclined to love or just keep in touch with our family just because it's our family even of we don't have any respect for them
no. 

-meditation bringing you to the "truth" and how it's hard to get there because there is fear that when you do, nothing will matter and living will not make sense
waste of time.

-therapists are bad at their jobs
i see you on this and up it with: it's the patients that are the problem.

-my fear of people hating me so I try to make myself likable but I also hate when people use it for their gain
rip

-his anxiety that his anxiety will make him crazy
rip
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Date: 06-12-2020 22:16
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Annie wrote:
Ooh imma have to write an essay for thiz
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Date: 06-12-2020 22:17
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-parenthood and how every parent fucks up their child in some way
i don't think that anyone is 100% the perfect parent, in some way, either minor or in a grand scale, they're going to affect their child negatively... that's when it's up to the child itself to grow as a person. in minor cases i'm sure the person can tame it (but just like literally everyone else, they will have some sort of unresolved issue), and in bigger ones.. mental illness yep, or in worse cases, complex trauma

-are we inclined to love or just keep in touch with our family just because it's our family even of we don't have any respect for them
no, i disagree w this immensely. family doesn't matter it's just a sOciaL cOnstrUct (lmao)

-meditation bringing you to the "truth" and how it's hard to get there because there is fear that when you do, nothing will matter and living will not make sense
i think you mean enlightenment? i don't think anyone nowadays actually goes through enlightenment because arguably speaking you would not be part of society if you truly were enlightened (aka ""ego death"" and if you experience it where would your will to function as a member of society be?).
many have said that they felt as if they no longer belong in it after going through some sort of spiritual awakening but i beg to differ, as i said, i don't believe anyone nowadays actually goes through that. it's a temporary state of mind and one eventually gets used to "normal life" again.

-therapists are bad at their jobs
it depends.. i donno what to say on this, i think my opinion is too controversial or weird to share on vp so i'll abstain lmao

-my fear of people hating me so I try to make myself likable but I also hate when people use it for their gain
ive discussed this so many times so im lazy to respond

-his anxiety that his anxiety will make him crazy
i relate.. i think people underestimate how dysfunctional anxiety can make someone and especially underestimate how serious it is... it ruins people's daily lives. it's really fucked up but thankfully there is treatment/medicine for it and i do believe that with enough mental strength one can eventually break out of that pattern
Date: 06-12-2020 22:18 | Times changed: 1
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dont mind the typos im illiterate
Date: 06-12-2020 22:20
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commander2 wrote:
NOface wrote:
callum wrote:
parenthood and how every parent fucks up their child in some way

its true, its true 
what is your story 
or opinion

I agree with the statement even tho I have wonderful parents and don't really have anything against the way they raised me and my sisters. But parenting is damn stupid and I never understood why people put themselves into that situation.
me til 2017 n now its like all i want in life   

i feel like mine def kinda failed me in some ways, even if i have a rlly good bond w them nowadays, bbut tht always makes me scared of having kids of my own bc ppl say every1 will make th same mistakes their parents make u kno hcbdhbvhf   
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Date: 06-12-2020 22:20
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absintjente wrote:
-the schooling system is outdated

youd be hard pressed to find anyone, especially teachers, that disagree
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Date: 06-12-2020 22:21
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absintjente wrote:
absintjente wrote:
-the schooling system is outdated

youd be hard pressed to find anyone, especially teachers, that disagree
if you think students hate the school system, just know that teachers hate it four times as much
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Date: 06-12-2020 22:21
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