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Pitbull
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Pitbull wrote:
basically im mentally ill therefore i get drained fairly quickly at times


basically i didnt rl feel like coming home to my bfs' study group at like 19.45 
had to take a shower = work in the morning
SO SOMETIMES I DONT REALLY FEEL LIKE TALKING OR BEING IN THE SAME ROOM. Like i just want to be alone. 

So I said hi to two of them, went out to have a cig and a little quiet time. Went in, said hi to bf and two others, grabbed a towel and took a long ass bath.
After we had a small argument where he basically said 
"Ppl think it's weird you barricade yourself in the bathroom and wait til they leave"

ahhhAA
I just replied with a "hi i mentally ill, a lot of times i get too tired to deal with other people other than the ones in my "safe" zone during anxiety and episodes. 

imdehdhdw

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basically they think im weird, im crying
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:00
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
i hate him and wish u would break up w him . If u were w the right person, u behaving like that wouldnt b an issue whatsoever n its unfair that ur made to feel bad for it
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:01
Pitbull
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Pitbull wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
i hate him and wish u would break up w him . If u were w the right person, u behaving like that wouldnt b an issue whatsoever n its unfair that ur made to feel bad for it
idk i mean, he doesn't think im weird

just the majority of my "friends"
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:07
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
i hate him and wish u would break up w him . If u were w the right person, u behaving like that wouldnt b an issue whatsoever n its unfair that ur made to feel bad for it
idk i mean, he doesn't think im weird

just the majority of my "friends"
i mean he made sure to tell u that they think ur weird . u had a 'small argument' abt this in ur own words... i doubt he defended u either when they were probably calling u weird to him
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:10
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
im sorry im not trying to make u feel worse or anything , im sorry ur upset! N i rly hope u feel better soon love 💜 but i just also rly rly think that ur bf sux
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:13
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ShyChy wrote:
I think it’s nice that he’d want you to join his friends but it’s insensitive that he would also not respect that you have anxiety around them and want to keep to yourself.
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:16
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Rouya wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
i hate him and wish u would break up w him . If u were w the right person, u behaving like that wouldnt b an issue whatsoever n its unfair that ur made to feel bad for it
idk i mean, he doesn't think im weird

just the majority of my "friends"
sorry i dont know your situation very well, but if it's his study group, are you friends with them as well or? what's the situation? bc if it's only his study group and you dont have anything to do with them, i would say just ignore it, but if they are your friends too, maybe it's something you need to talk about with them as well as him
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:17
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Rouya wrote:
bc if they are your friends they are weird for calling you weird behind your back to your bf. seems like something to clear with everyone, not just him. however i dont think you should feel bad at all, you were acting in a way where you were taking care of yourself, and that's understandable and completely normal
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:19
Pitbull
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Pitbull wrote:
Rouya wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
i hate him and wish u would break up w him . If u were w the right person, u behaving like that wouldnt b an issue whatsoever n its unfair that ur made to feel bad for it
idk i mean, he doesn't think im weird

just the majority of my "friends"
sorry i dont know your situation very well, but if it's his study group, are you friends with them as well or? what's the situation? bc if it's only his study group and you dont have anything to do with them, i would say just ignore it, but if they are your friends too, maybe it's something you need to talk about with them as well as him
we're actually all friends lol.
I do want to admit, that I've never really told them that I am mentally ill. Usually the times in go to the unit for therapy it's usually just me going to "the dentist"
My bf did defend me - however I've told him i'm not comfortable with them knowing why = hence why he didn't tell them anything other than "stop saying that" 
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:20 | Times changed: 1
Alam
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Alam wrote:
Do you know of Daniel Sloss? Incredible comedian, has two specials on Netflix. I'd highly recommend you watch jigsaw, watch it all the way through, I think it might help you out.
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:21
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Rouya wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Rouya wrote:
Escobar wrote:
idk i mean, he doesn't think im weird

just the majority of my "friends"
sorry i dont know your situation very well, but if it's his study group, are you friends with them as well or? what's the situation? bc if it's only his study group and you dont have anything to do with them, i would say just ignore it, but if they are your friends too, maybe it's something you need to talk about with them as well as him
we're actually all friends lol.
I do want to admit, that I've never really told them that I am mentally ill. Usually the times in go to the unit for therapy it's usually just me going to the dentists. 
My bf did defend me - however I've told him i'm not comfortable with them knowing why = hence why he didn't tell them anything other than "stop saying that" 
ah fair enough. maybe he just shouldn't have told you that they said you were weird then. do you think it would be easier if you at least told them that sometimes you have days where you want to be alone, and that they shouldnt take it personally? because it sounds like they thought it had something to do with you not wanting to hang out with them and they took it personally because of that. maybe just letting them know "hey i had a rough day" would be enough? idk. sorry you had such a bad day though, ive been in your place having this happen to me as well

also it's up to you whether you want to let them know you're mentally ill or not, but from my experience i've never had bad experiences when telling my friends about it - only if they were bad friends, and then obviously you should prob ditch them no matter if you are mentally ill or not
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:29 | Times changed: 2
Alam
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Alam wrote:
Alam wrote:
Do you know of Daniel Sloss? Incredible comedian, has two specials on Netflix. I'd highly recommend you watch jigsaw, watch it all the way through, I think it might help you out.
It's about relationships, by the way, I'm not just randomly recommending a comedian I like, though he is very funny.
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:42
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klay wrote:
tbh you deserve better
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Date: 07-01-2021 17:45
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Versailles wrote:
Your boyfriend is clearly unsympathic and care more how his friends, rather than how you're doing right now. 
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Date: 07-01-2021 22:10
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ellem wrote:
That’s bs thoooo, everyone deserve some alone time, and us with mental issues might need a bit more of that than others, definitely nothing wrong with that!! Don’t blame urself or anything cause this is definitely on them :-/// not realizing people aren’t always social is just.. weird 
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Date: 07-01-2021 22:15
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MissLondon wrote:
Idk the circumstances of your relationship but i would get tired of coming home to a house full of people on the daily too.
Your man and his friends are selfish 
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Date: 07-01-2021 22:16
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