Raritybubble wrote:Maxwell wrote:
I am somehow both "I don't care at all" and "I care way too much" simultaneouslyÂ
i'm the same way, but this just got me thinking that we might have it wrong.
it's impossible to have the "I don't care at all" mindset while deeply caring about how others perceive you. perhaps, not caring about how others feel is how we
want to be, and we are so painfully self conscious that we try to reaffirm our own insecurities by saying "i don't care! i live how i want!", and we've somehow convinced our brains into thinking that certain way, like a shield because deep down we are the most insecure people

That's what Taylor swift does whenever she writes songs like shake it off lol