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kagura wrote:
my bf, the love of my life, decited to break up with me just like that
and i mean i understand his reasons, but i don't and i don't want to understand. because it's not anything i did or he did, he just suddently felt like he's better alone
we literally spoke about moving together 3 weeks ago and now he's like that. and yea he also said this feeling of needing be alone came as surprise to him too
and i was all like ?? what the fuck you can't act on that then
but yea we talked for 2 hours yesterday and it wasn't a goodbye really. he didn't ask me to wait for him to change his mind or anything, but he said he'll probably do that when he's feeling better. so i told him that i'll wait for that, because he waited for me when we met and i wasn't ready
so i guess i just basically promised him not to fall in love with anyone else in few months

i feel so bad, but then again not so bad. because i know this is not going to be the end
and if he never returns idk i can start up living my lesbian dream life in summer or something
also i have no idea how to explain to people what happened, i mean our friends are fine i can just tell them to ask him about it. but how i'm gonna tell sisters or mom, i really don't want to explain this
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Date: 20-02-2021 12:39
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kagura wrote:
also any tips for healing for broken heart? i mean i know only time helps but...
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Date: 20-02-2021 12:43
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Saekki wrote:
i don't have any tips but i wanted to share a speck of support 
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Date: 20-02-2021 12:50
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hutsu wrote:
i can't really put it all into words rn but i'm sort of going through a  similar situation. i'm sorry your plans fell apart, i hope the sad haze passes soon and you can go back to kicking ass
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Date: 20-02-2021 12:53
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kagura wrote:
Saekki wrote:
i don't have any tips but i wanted to share a speck of support 
thanks

i'm not very good at coping about anything in general. i just feel like i've been living in a void for a week, i don't remember basically anything i have done
but i'm very lucky to have other great people in my life. i'll never take my friends as granted, because i know they choose to care about my shit it's not their responsibility 
so i'll be okay in any case
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Date: 20-02-2021 12:56
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kagura wrote:
hutsu wrote:
i can't really put it all into words rn but i'm sort of going through a  similar situation. i'm sorry your plans fell apart, i hope the sad haze passes soon and you can go back to kicking ass
oh i'm sorry to hear that too
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Date: 20-02-2021 12:57
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kagura wrote:
and i guess i should be mad at him, but i just.. can't? i don't know how to be mad at people
like it's fine because i know he's gonna regret this at some point and i also have his favorite board game here in my place, so i can always throw them cards in fire or something (ok i wouldn't that but i know i can)
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Date: 20-02-2021 13:04
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coco wrote:
kagura wrote:
also any tips for healing for broken heart? i mean i know only time helps but...
indefinite amount of self care, practice hobbies, games.. these r the only things that takes my mind off things & i hope it does the same for you, at least a bit

please dont feel bad. i know me saying that doesnt do shit at all, but people in loving relationships dont feel like they wanna be single out of nowhere

i broke up w my 2yr ex bc i wanted to feel alone too. he was perfect for me but i wasnt used to the amount of affection given to me bc of family problems n issues. i thought about it for a while before i broke up w him without telling him about my problems because i just wanted to get away. i got w other ppl during the break up, but it never felt the same. about almost a year passed & we're closer than before. our communication has improved and we have matured as well. he deserves way better than me n im grateful for him

please take advantage of the break. take care of yourself, practice new makeup techniques, workout, buy cool clothes, listen to music, paint, start baking....
he needs to work on his communication skills. maybe smth more.
i know you just want to vent but i really hope you know your worth. that anxious feeling will go away soon. 

sorry if what i said made u feel uncomfortable or anything bad. ppl ik have been through hard breakups n it makes me feel really sad about these topics & i wouldnt want anyone to feel the way they did
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Date: 20-02-2021 13:37
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kalypso wrote:
kagura wrote:
also any tips for healing for broken heart? i mean i know only time helps but...
time is indeed the only thing, but the time will last forever, if u doesn't block him completely out of you're life/sight until you are healed. you need to NOT think about him in anyway, unfollow him on social media (you can maybe tell him that you need to do this), do not let urself look at his social medias even though u want, dont look at photos of u, but keep ur mine being focused on something else. 
i feel like this is the only thing you can do, and of course he will pop in ur mind still, but if you keep having to be reminded by him, that isnt your's mind controlling, then it's probably going to be much harder.
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Date: 20-02-2021 13:47
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kalypso wrote:
and yes, it's easier to get over someone if you're mad at them. when i dated this guy, i was pretty much sad throughout the last few months, cause he made me miserable, when HE finally pushed me to say it was over, cause he honestly was a coward and couldn't do it himself, i kinda already had went through the "sad stage", so i was instead was really fucking angry with him. So i was really effected by the break up so much, i had two really big cry's, when it happened and then a few weeks after, but then that was it. 
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Date: 20-02-2021 13:52
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MissLondon wrote:
It sucks but I suppose it’s better that he has cold feet now
instead of leaving you with a place that you might not be
able to afford on your own.
best of luck to you 
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Date: 20-02-2021 14:04
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kagura wrote:
kalypso wrote:
kagura wrote:
also any tips for healing for broken heart? i mean i know only time helps but...
time is indeed the only thing, but the time will last forever, if u doesn't block him completely out of you're life/sight until you are healed. you need to NOT think about him in anyway, unfollow him on social media (you can maybe tell him that you need to do this), do not let urself look at his social medias even though u want, dont look at photos of u, but keep ur mine being focused on something else. 
i feel like this is the only thing you can do, and of course he will pop in ur mind still, but if you keep having to be reminded by him, that isnt your's mind controlling, then it's probably going to be much harder.
well good thing he literally doesn't have any social media accs, not even fogotten facebook made in 2010 like everyone else
but idk what to do with our little groupchat with friends. like hell no i'm gonna delete myself they are my bestfriends, but i really don't wanna speak there while he's still there

i had a long night with my roommates... wasn't my proudest moment but i think my anger came out, but it was towards them for being straight white men lmao
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Date: 21-02-2021 12:44
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kagura wrote:
coco wrote:
kagura wrote:
also any tips for healing for broken heart? i mean i know only time helps but...
indefinite amount of self care, practice hobbies, games.. these r the only things that takes my mind off things & i hope it does the same for you, at least a bit

please dont feel bad. i know me saying that doesnt do shit at all, but people in loving relationships dont feel like they wanna be single out of nowhere

i broke up w my 2yr ex bc i wanted to feel alone too. he was perfect for me but i wasnt used to the amount of affection given to me bc of family problems n issues. i thought about it for a while before i broke up w him without telling him about my problems because i just wanted to get away. i got w other ppl during the break up, but it never felt the same. about almost a year passed & we're closer than before. our communication has improved and we have matured as well. he deserves way better than me n im grateful for him

please take advantage of the break. take care of yourself, practice new makeup techniques, workout, buy cool clothes, listen to music, paint, start baking....
he needs to work on his communication skills. maybe smth more.
i know you just want to vent but i really hope you know your worth. that anxious feeling will go away soon. 

sorry if what i said made u feel uncomfortable or anything bad. ppl ik have been through hard breakups n it makes me feel really sad about these topics & i wouldnt want anyone to feel the way they did
yeah i know, but also it's not that simple with mental health problems  so i don't know
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Date: 21-02-2021 12:47
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remains wrote:
OOF i feel you me n my partner talked abt applying to the same school n moving together to another town n a month later they were like "you should move out and no i dont wanna talk about it or give any reasons" so that was great and cool
idk ! it's just gonna suck for a while
all you can do is try not to be bitter
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Date: 21-02-2021 12:50
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kagura wrote:
bones wrote:
OOF i feel you me n my partner talked abt applying to the same school n moving together to another town n a month later they were like "you should move out and no i dont wanna talk about it or give any reasons" so that was great and cool
idk ! it's just gonna suck for a while
all you can do is try not to be bitter
sorry to hear you have been throught that too
it really sucks
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Date: 21-02-2021 12:53
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kagura wrote:
but maybe this is just some phase or thats' what i hope for. i mean my sister and her husband has been together for 10 years it's not like they haven't ever "broken up"... there was this one summer they didn't spoke to each others for 2 months

when we met, i was in really really really hard place in my life. i was still trying to get over my ex and thought nobody else could ever understand me. but i met him and i got scared of how much he was.. just so much. everything and even more i could ever ask for
and it wasn't like didn't want the relationship with him when we met, but i just couldn't do that. because i knew it wouldn't be fair to him. and i was scared that i'll just chase him away
but what does this motherfucker do? he just patiently waits for me, for almost a year. he became my bestfriend during that time, and i don't think it was always easy for him to be there. but he was and waited. for some unknow reason he thought i was worth of that
so that's the reason i can wait for him too if he needs a month or two alone
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Date: 21-02-2021 14:30
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