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i called my (ex?) bf a wh*re, pt. 2 (tw)
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
i walked into the living room, said the word and went back (and btw he told me to go cut myself some more). i thought it was funny but he apparently didn't.

i feel like ranting so
i'm currently in the process of getting diagnosed with DID and i don't really talk about that but right now i just wish i could get something out of writing this. like how to proceed or something 


so we've been together for somewhere between 1,5 and 2 years and last summer we started realising the whole did thing. so problem here is, he's amazing with some of the alters but super abusive to some of us. the whole breakup process feels utterly impossible because the whole system is having a huge internal conflict on it. some of us want rid of him, others see him as a family member and don't understand why'd we have to move away. i can't bring myself to revoke our lease, every time i consider it another alter takes over and if the whole situation wasn't so horrible i'd find this kinda hilarious 


gallup: if some of us want to break up and others don't, what should we do
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Date: 20-02-2021 14:35
Gilmore
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Gilmore wrote:
Break up and sort things out on your own. Maybe he'll realize his dipshit of a behavior and seek some help. Your mental health comes first, both of yours. 
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Date: 20-02-2021 14:36
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ouch wrote:
Ouff das bad but ig u gotta make everyone realize its best for everyone if u leave 
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Date: 20-02-2021 14:37
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Ground wrote:
ouch wrote:
Ouff das bad but ig u gotta make everyone realize its best for everyone if u leave 
deffo !!

safety and wellbeing comes first!
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Date: 20-02-2021 14:39
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Flamink wrote:
i think its best if you leave, if he is abusive to any of the alters then he is not safe to be around.
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Date: 20-02-2021 14:40
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ouch wrote:
Flamink wrote:
i think its best if you leave, if he is abusive to any of the alters then he is not safe to be around.
Yeah 
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Date: 20-02-2021 14:41
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Barbarella wrote:
A partner that can't handle your mental health issues is clearly an incompatibility, and this will keep happening - it can be overwhelming for folks who are not familiar with it, who are afraid of it, and that is not a healthy person to have around.

that being said, even unrelated to your bf, you're still responsible for how you treated folks after having an episode, and it's probably very healthy for you to be single while you get a diagnosis and learn how to manage this thing you've got to live with.
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Date: 20-02-2021 14:50
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MissLondon wrote:
Break the lease and get your own place
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Date: 20-02-2021 14:51
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Nanevane wrote:
Hes not good for u
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Date: 20-02-2021 14:54
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Nanevane wrote:
BrainFilth wrote:
A partner that can't handle your mental health issues is clearly an incompatibility, and this will keep happening - it can be overwhelming for folks who are not familiar with it, who are afraid of it, and that is not a healthy person to have around.

that being said, even unrelated to your bf, you're still responsible for how you treated folks after having an episode, and it's probably very healthy for you to be single while you get a diagnosis and learn how to manage this thing you've got to live with.
Thia is the smartest mesagge
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Date: 20-02-2021 14:55
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
BrainFilth wrote:
A partner that can't handle your mental health issues is clearly an incompatibility, and this will keep happening - it can be overwhelming for folks who are not familiar with it, who are afraid of it, and that is not a healthy person to have around.

that being said, even unrelated to your bf, you're still responsible for how you treated folks after having an episode, and it's probably very healthy for you to be single while you get a diagnosis and learn how to manage this thing you've got to live with.
i don't have "episodes"
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Date: 20-02-2021 15:16
Gilmore
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Gilmore wrote:
BrainFilth wrote:
A partner that can't handle your mental health issues is clearly an incompatibility, and this will keep happening - it can be overwhelming for folks who are not familiar with it, who are afraid of it, and that is not a healthy person to have around.

that being said, even unrelated to your bf, you're still responsible for how you treated folks after having an episode, and it's probably very healthy for you to be single while you get a diagnosis and learn how to manage this thing you've got to live with.
uhhhhhhhhhhh
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Date: 20-02-2021 15:17
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Utdatert wrote:
hutsu wrote:
i walked into the living room, said the word and went back (and btw he told me to go cut myself some more). i thought it was funny but he apparently didn't.

i feel like ranting so
i'm currently in the process of getting diagnosed with DID and i don't really talk about that but right now i just wish i could get something out of writing this. like how to proceed or something 


so we've been together for somewhere between 1,5 and 2 years and last summer we started realising the whole did thing. so problem here is, he's amazing with some of the alters but super abusive to some of us. the whole breakup process feels utterly impossible because the whole system is having a huge internal conflict on it. some of us want rid of him, others see him as a family member and don't understand why'd we have to move away. i can't bring myself to revoke our lease, every time i consider it another alter takes over and if the whole situation wasn't so horrible i'd find this kinda hilarious 


gallup: if some of us want to break up and others don't, what should we do
A this point he literally sounds like a sociopath. Fuckin leave asap????
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Date: 20-02-2021 15:27
Dew
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Dew wrote:
Utdatert wrote:
hutsu wrote:
i walked into the living room, said the word and went back (and btw he told me to go cut myself some more). i thought it was funny but he apparently didn't.

i feel like ranting so
i'm currently in the process of getting diagnosed with DID and i don't really talk about that but right now i just wish i could get something out of writing this. like how to proceed or something 


so we've been together for somewhere between 1,5 and 2 years and last summer we started realising the whole did thing. so problem here is, he's amazing with some of the alters but super abusive to some of us. the whole breakup process feels utterly impossible because the whole system is having a huge internal conflict on it. some of us want rid of him, others see him as a family member and don't understand why'd we have to move away. i can't bring myself to revoke our lease, every time i consider it another alter takes over and if the whole situation wasn't so horrible i'd find this kinda hilarious 


gallup: if some of us want to break up and others don't, what should we do
A this point he literally sounds like a sociopath. Fuckin leave asap????
like why are people ignoring that part

leave 
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Date: 20-02-2021 15:35
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ouch wrote:
Dew wrote:
Utdatert wrote:
hutsu wrote:
i walked into the living room, said the word and went back (and btw he told me to go cut myself some more). i thought it was funny but he apparently didn't.

i feel like ranting so
i'm currently in the process of getting diagnosed with DID and i don't really talk about that but right now i just wish i could get something out of writing this. like how to proceed or something 


so we've been together for somewhere between 1,5 and 2 years and last summer we started realising the whole did thing. so problem here is, he's amazing with some of the alters but super abusive to some of us. the whole breakup process feels utterly impossible because the whole system is having a huge internal conflict on it. some of us want rid of him, others see him as a family member and don't understand why'd we have to move away. i can't bring myself to revoke our lease, every time i consider it another alter takes over and if the whole situation wasn't so horrible i'd find this kinda hilarious 


gallup: if some of us want to break up and others don't, what should we do
A this point he literally sounds like a sociopath. Fuckin leave asap????
like why are people ignoring that part

leave 
Cus "i can't bring myself to revoke our lease, every time i consider it another alter takes over and if the whole situation wasn't so horrible i'd find this kinda hilarious " not everything isthat easy 
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Date: 20-02-2021 15:45
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Limbs wrote:
i'd talk about this with the people you're getting help for your mental health from if you haven't already. if you have enough communication with your alters you could try and have like a meeting, where you invite everyone to share their thoughts on this issue. and listen to what they have to say but you can try to convince them to see why you should break up with him. 

like it's very understandable that your thoughts and experiences on/with him get distributed differently to diff alters. n some of you maybe aren't aware of everything or are just coping with things differently. so i think it's important that you go into it gently and try not to blame anyone
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