kagura wrote:
so my soon to be ex-roommate is in very strange situtation. our other roommate has very one-sided love for him and they're moving away from here together. and just to be clear, they haven't ever been in a romantic relationship and he thinks her as his bestfriend/sister.
yesterday we were home alone just two of us and we drank a little bit and he starts to tell me things:
- this bitch has forced him to stop all his friendships with other girls. for example there was this one girl who used to hangout here all the time, she was their both's good friend. but when she broke up with her bf, she legit told her that she can't ever come again to our place or keep contact to him. she also broke his and his bestfriend's friendship, because he has sisters who used to hangout with them a lot.
this is the first time i hear about this. i always wondered why she wasn't around anymore, but i ever bothered to ask..
- when she talks about him to other people, she calls him her partner/boyfriend. even tho he has clearly stated that they're not in a relationship
- she half-forced him to move out of here (fun fact that she randomly felt need to move out of here with him excatly the same time i broke up...). they can't even pay the rent in half and half in this new place, she pays 700 euros and he pays 400 euros. she's ready to pay that much to get him there.
oh and also this place is not in city. they're moving in middle of the nowhere and he said he legit feels like she's trying to lock him up there so he can't meet other people that easily
- i jokingly said to him that there's other pussies too out there. and he deadass says that he lied to her that he's asexual so he wouldn't need to have sex with her and they can keep it platonic
i asked him why the hell why just WHy on earth you're moving away with her don't you realise how fucked up that is
and he said that because he's ill and he doesn't know if he has 1 year or 10 years to live normal life, and this might be his only change to live on countryside. because he couldn't afford it on his own. (he's chronically ill and in pain most of the time)
and i'm like yeah man i get that but there's like ton of communes etc ??
then things excatled and we had sex. in the morning i was like yeah you know if i were you i would save my ass and tell her this happened, but she might kill me tho soo.....
and he's like no wtf of course we will never let her know
TLDR; my roommate is very sick in her, she's obssessed with our other roommate and she's even psychotic about it sometimes. i think she needs some serious help. but he needs some help too, because he lets her do that. but like... what can i do? it's not my business really, but no i don't want to read how they murdered each others from the news paper
so my soon to be ex-roommate is in very strange situtation. our other roommate has very one-sided love for him and they're moving away from here together. and just to be clear, they haven't ever been in a romantic relationship and he thinks her as his bestfriend/sister.
yesterday we were home alone just two of us and we drank a little bit and he starts to tell me things:
- this bitch has forced him to stop all his friendships with other girls. for example there was this one girl who used to hangout here all the time, she was their both's good friend. but when she broke up with her bf, she legit told her that she can't ever come again to our place or keep contact to him. she also broke his and his bestfriend's friendship, because he has sisters who used to hangout with them a lot.
this is the first time i hear about this. i always wondered why she wasn't around anymore, but i ever bothered to ask..
- when she talks about him to other people, she calls him her partner/boyfriend. even tho he has clearly stated that they're not in a relationship
- she half-forced him to move out of here (fun fact that she randomly felt need to move out of here with him excatly the same time i broke up...). they can't even pay the rent in half and half in this new place, she pays 700 euros and he pays 400 euros. she's ready to pay that much to get him there.
oh and also this place is not in city. they're moving in middle of the nowhere and he said he legit feels like she's trying to lock him up there so he can't meet other people that easily
- i jokingly said to him that there's other pussies too out there. and he deadass says that he lied to her that he's asexual so he wouldn't need to have sex with her and they can keep it platonic
i asked him why the hell why just WHy on earth you're moving away with her don't you realise how fucked up that is
and he said that because he's ill and he doesn't know if he has 1 year or 10 years to live normal life, and this might be his only change to live on countryside. because he couldn't afford it on his own. (he's chronically ill and in pain most of the time)
and i'm like yeah man i get that but there's like ton of communes etc ??
then things excatled and we had sex. in the morning i was like yeah you know if i were you i would save my ass and tell her this happened, but she might kill me tho soo.....
and he's like no wtf of course we will never let her know
TLDR; my roommate is very sick in her, she's obssessed with our other roommate and she's even psychotic about it sometimes. i think she needs some serious help. but he needs some help too, because he lets her do that. but like... what can i do? it's not my business really, but no i don't want to read how they murdered each others from the news paper