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so my soon to be ex-roommate is in very strange situtation. our other roommate has very one-sided love for him and they're moving away from here together. and just to be clear, they haven't ever been in a romantic relationship and he thinks her as his bestfriend/sister.
yesterday we were home alone just two of us and we drank a little bit and he starts to tell me things: 

- this bitch has forced him to stop all his friendships with other girls. for example there was this one girl who used to hangout here all the time, she was their both's good friend. but when she broke up with her bf, she legit told her that she can't ever come again to our place or keep contact to him. she also broke his and his bestfriend's friendship, because he has sisters who used to hangout with them a lot. 
this is the first time i hear about this. i always wondered why she wasn't around anymore, but i ever bothered to ask.. 

- when she talks about him to other people, she calls him her partner/boyfriend. even tho he has clearly stated that they're not in a relationship 

- she half-forced him to move out of here (fun fact that she randomly felt need to move out of here with him excatly the same time i broke up...). they can't even pay the rent in half and half in this new place, she pays 700 euros and he pays 400 euros. she's ready to pay that much to get him there. 
oh and also this place is not in city. they're moving in middle of the nowhere and he said he legit feels like she's trying to lock him up there so he can't meet other people that easily 

- i jokingly said to him that there's other pussies too out there. and he deadass says that he lied to her that he's asexual so he wouldn't need to have sex with her and they can keep it platonic

i asked him why the hell why just WHy on earth you're moving away with her don't you realise how fucked up that is 
and he said that because he's ill and he doesn't know if he has 1  year or 10 years to live normal life, and this might be his only change to live on countryside. because he couldn't afford it on his own. (he's chronically ill and in pain most of the time) 
and i'm like yeah man i get that but there's like ton of communes etc ?? 

then things excatled and we had sex. in the morning i was like yeah you know if i were you i would save my ass and tell her this happened, but she might kill me tho soo..... 
and he's like no wtf of course we will never let her know 

TLDR; my roommate is very sick in her, she's obssessed with our other roommate and she's even psychotic about it sometimes. i think she needs some serious help. but he needs some help too, because he lets her do that. but like... what can i do? it's not my business really, but no i don't want to read how they murdered each others from the news paper 
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reading this was the most depressing thing ever
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
reading this was the most depressing thing ever
having to see this happening irl is the most depressing thing ever but yeah 
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kagura wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
reading this was the most depressing thing ever
having to see this happening irl is the most depressing thing ever but yeah 
honestly i dont even know what u can do im sorry wish i had some ideas or advice
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and like sure i knew she has some narcissistic traits and she can be little... like that sometimes. but i never knew it was this bad 
i don't spend too much time with them and they seem to get along well in anyhow. and i always thought that it's just some love there that keeps them together, but no they're not even together and he clearly doesn't love her like that or even have sex with her 
then he's casually like "yeah i know this is pretty sick" OH REALLY 
Multatuli
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wait who is moving out
SweetLapis
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She sounds dangerous, and definitely needs help. Your roommate should get away from her, but I imagine if things gotten this bad, it's likely not easy and won't be easy to get away from her since she's so toxic and seems even manipulative.
Is she possiblely a narcissist  too??
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Multatuli wrote:
wait who is moving out
two of them, these people in talking about. together. alone. to middle of the nowhere. 
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SweetLapis wrote:
She sounds dangerous, and definitely needs help. Your roommate should get away from her, but I imagine if things gotten this bad, it's likely not easy and won't be easy to get away from her since she's so toxic and seems even manipulative.
Is she possiblely a narcissist  too??
yea she most def is narcissist
i asked him if she's ever been violent physically. apparently not 
SweetLapis
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kagura wrote:
SweetLapis wrote:
She sounds dangerous, and definitely needs help. Your roommate should get away from her, but I imagine if things gotten this bad, it's likely not easy and won't be easy to get away from her since she's so toxic and seems even manipulative.
Is she possiblely a narcissist  too??
yea she most def is narcissist
i asked him if she's ever been violent physically. apparently not 
Hm, hope he's telling the truth. Sometimes guys are too embarrassed to tell people if they've been abused in anyway. I seriously hope he reconsiders his decision with moving in with her in the middle of nowhere regardless of his condition cause who knows what's on her mind then. Maybe try to talk with him more about this, don't know if it will change his mind but it's worth a try. Wish I had better advice but this is real tricky and overall really shitty situation.
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why does he feel forced though its not like he has a gun pointed towards his head
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SweetLapis wrote:
kagura wrote:
SweetLapis wrote:
She sounds dangerous, and definitely needs help. Your roommate should get away from her, but I imagine if things gotten this bad, it's likely not easy and won't be easy to get away from her since she's so toxic and seems even manipulative.
Is she possiblely a narcissist  too??
yea she most def is narcissist
i asked him if she's ever been violent physically. apparently not 
Hm, hope he's telling the truth. Sometimes guys are too embarrassed to tell people if they've been abused in anyway. I seriously hope he reconsiders his decision with moving in with her in the middle of nowhere regardless of his condition cause who knows what's on her mind then. Maybe try to talk with him more about this, don't know if it will change his mind but it's worth a try. Wish I had better advice but this is real tricky and overall really shitty situation.
he's not very typical guy like that, so i think he is telling the truth. but yea never know 
but he can't just take this back now, they have already made rental contract and they're movin there in 2 weeks so.. but of course i told him not to do that. he should have just told me all of this like a month ago 
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Pavlov wrote:
why does he feel forced though its not like he has a gun pointed towards his head
yeah i mean she's the devil here, but also not cool from him causing this himself and keeping it so close with her. he's hurting them both by acting like this 
MissLondon
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Unless he’s 12, this doesn’t make sense
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MissLondon wrote:
Unless he’s 12, this doesn’t make sense
add 20 years to that.. yes it doesn't make any sense to me. 
he said he doesn't have other friends who's as close to him so he doesn't wanna lose her. and i was like well yeah you don't  have friends because of her you dumbass  
SweetLapis
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kagura wrote:
SweetLapis wrote:
kagura wrote:
yea she most def is narcissist
i asked him if she's ever been violent physically. apparently not 
Hm, hope he's telling the truth. Sometimes guys are too embarrassed to tell people if they've been abused in anyway. I seriously hope he reconsiders his decision with moving in with her in the middle of nowhere regardless of his condition cause who knows what's on her mind then. Maybe try to talk with him more about this, don't know if it will change his mind but it's worth a try. Wish I had better advice but this is real tricky and overall really shitty situation.
he's not very typical guy like that, so i think he is telling the truth. but yea never know 
but he can't just take this back now, they have already made rental contract and they're movin there in 2 weeks so.. but of course i told him not to do that. he should have just told me all of this like a month ago 
Shit really? This is crazy. I really can't understand why he's going through with this, she must have manipulated him well then. Guess he figures he's got nothing to lose by doing this.
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