Meltychocolate wrote:brunhilde wrote:
i mean yea you can say whatever you want but i can't guarantee happy consequences, esp since i don't know how your relationship is otherwise
you're allowed to feel how you feel but if you ask my personal opinion then i think you're overreacting/being sorta selfish but that's just me. i know period cramps can b painful but it will pass
It's not like that I'm selfish and this bad pain(really bad one) doesn't happen every month, I also understand that this game is so interesting, but still I felt bad when he said that😔
I don't want to fight with him, just wanted to know that do I even have the right to be sad/angry or not, because I know this pain will pass، but that made me wonder how important am I to him, you know what I mean?
yeah, i understand, and i'm not saying your reaction isn't valid. i used to get extra bad moodswings (even outside periods) before i got medication for it, and i've said a lot of things i regretted afterwards. the fact you got mad also tells me that you know your worth, which is great. however he did say he's going to call you after the match which in return tells me he does care about you, and chooses to pick a better time instead of - if he's as into the game as some people i've seen - yell into your ear and add to your pains