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Toxic relationships (possible tw)
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Ever been in one? 

And if you're like me do you question if you were maybe just as toxic as they were or if you did a bunch of shit that enabled them to treat you shitty 

Or simply wtf you were doing in the first place w/ them
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:06
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
Yes, because I made the mistake
of thinking that I could “fix” the person 
You live and you learn
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:11
Furby
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Furby wrote:
yes.. and no. don't know why it happened though
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:12
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ouch wrote:
Yes, I was a bit toxic too probably, bjt def not to the same degree n mostly justa. Response to the shot I got myself
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:16
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Barbarella wrote:
yes and yes

I think part of it is like, you develop shitty traits to survive emotionally and thus become toxic as well lol
but a reason is not an excuse
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:27
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Melody wrote:
yeah and yeah - i no longer remember how we supposedly "fell in love" or what i saw in them
perhaps they understood me on some level, which is weird bc i don't understand myself half the time. i have strong aromantic tendencies and i don't remember any of the good times which they could recall in high detail, for example

they were too clingy imo and also they changed immediately whenever we entered a relationship; yeah we "broke up" a few times and every time i could notice the change. i don't know how to explain it better, but i found them far more attractive personality wise when they were just a friend
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:28
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Claire wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Yes, because I made the mistake
of thinking that I could “fix” the person 
You live and you learn
 me too

and also literally too many other young women lmfao
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:29
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Claire wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
yes and yes

I think part of it is like, you develop shitty traits to survive emotionally and thus become toxic as well lol
but a reason is not an excuse
like you cant react to unreasonable behavior in a reasonable way. you end up acting wrong because thats the only way to act around people who act wrong. 
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:30
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Barbarella wrote:
Claire wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
yes and yes

I think part of it is like, you develop shitty traits to survive emotionally and thus become toxic as well lol
but a reason is not an excuse
like you cant react to unreasonable behavior in a reasonable way. you end up acting wrong because thats the only way to act around people who act wrong. 
I busted up into a girls house across town barefoot twice 
I'd say it could have been handled better lol
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:34
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Pavlov wrote:
yeah im in a toxic relationship with myself
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:38
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bee wrote:
had a really toxic friendship. or she was fucking toxic and treated me like shit. i have thought about if i was toxic to her too and i probably were to some degree but i always had good intension and put her first i was just really mentally unstable and sometimes i fucked up. but i dont believe im the reason she treated me so poorly
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:38
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
yes and yes

I think part of it is like, you develop shitty traits to survive emotionally and thus become toxic as well lol
but a reason is not an excuse
Idk what do you call it when he breaks up w/ u and you clamor for him to come back and wait for it even tho you know hes not healthy for u really 

It's not like he would threaten me if I tried to leave I literally wanted him in my life wtf, I chose to be in a shitt position 
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:51 | Times changed: 1
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Barbarella wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
yes and yes

I think part of it is like, you develop shitty traits to survive emotionally and thus become toxic as well lol
but a reason is not an excuse
Idk what do you call it when he breaks up w/ u and you clamor for him to come back and wait for it even tho you know hes not healthy for u really 

It's not like he would threaten me if I tried to leave I literally wanted him in my life wtf, I chose to be in a shitt position 
I mean
I was so pathetic I begged my ex to stay after he cheated on me lol
we can all be weak at times but we grow from it
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Date: 11-07-2021 03:53
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
yes and yes

I think part of it is like, you develop shitty traits to survive emotionally and thus become toxic as well lol
but a reason is not an excuse
Idk what do you call it when he breaks up w/ u and you clamor for him to come back and wait for it even tho you know hes not healthy for u really 

It's not like he would threaten me if I tried to leave I literally wanted him in my life wtf, I chose to be in a shitt position 
I mean
I was so pathetic I begged my ex to stay after he cheated on me lol
we can all be weak at times but we grow from it
Oh definitely I think I'm just trying to understand what happened more than anything 

I got threatened with a knife all because I called him out on his shit and asked him to apologize to his neighbor and I was begging for him to come back and was so happy when he finally called me after months 

I think I should be single for awhile i need more self confidence 
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Date: 11-07-2021 04:05
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Claire wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
yes and yes

I think part of it is like, you develop shitty traits to survive emotionally and thus become toxic as well lol
but a reason is not an excuse
Idk what do you call it when he breaks up w/ u and you clamor for him to come back and wait for it even tho you know hes not healthy for u really 

It's not like he would threaten me if I tried to leave I literally wanted him in my life wtf, I chose to be in a shitt position 
I mean
I was so pathetic I begged my ex to stay after he cheated on me lol
we can all be weak at times but we grow from it
i did that too lmfao its amazing i never thought i was the kinda girl to stay with some cheating asshole 

idk i feellike i learned a lot about myself after i got cheated on. like obviously it didnt work out in the end but like i learned im so loyal ill try to make it work even in that situation lol. and now im with someone who values that loyalty and appreciates and respects it and can return that same loyalty to me.
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Date: 11-07-2021 04:06
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Idk what do you call it when he breaks up w/ u and you clamor for him to come back and wait for it even tho you know hes not healthy for u really 

It's not like he would threaten me if I tried to leave I literally wanted him in my life wtf, I chose to be in a shitt position 
I mean
I was so pathetic I begged my ex to stay after he cheated on me lol
we can all be weak at times but we grow from it
i did that too lmfao its amazing i never thought i was the kinda girl to stay with some cheating asshole 

idk i feellike i learned a lot about myself after i got cheated on. like obviously it didnt work out in the end but like i learned im so loyal ill try to make it work even in that situation lol. and now im with someone who values that loyalty and appreciates and respects it and can return that same loyalty to me.
Thats beautiful 

I've learned I cant fix men I have to fix me 

If I can give people compassion I can give it to myself 
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Date: 11-07-2021 04:08
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