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The Hug Struggle
MissLondon
Queen of Queens



MissLondon wrote:
My name is Lo and I believe in hugs

Are you a hugger? If so, do you also “pat” or “rub” the back
of the person you’re hugging or are you a basic hugger?

Are you more comfortable giving or receiving them?


me-
I enjoy giving and receiving them
I hug and give a back rub at the same time

if you’re not into hugs, do you politely decline and back away
or do you just suffer through it?
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Date: 20-09-2021 01:18
Private
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ouch wrote:
I don't do any physical contact when im sober, but when Im drunk or other stuff, I love hugging ppl dudes w my arms around their neck and my head in their neck too (it works I guess cus im kinda the same height or just a little shorter than most dudes I know) and also kiss them on the forehead all the time. Idk why but I love kissing ppl on the forehead pls 😭 esp when cuddling 
I have one dude firned who always wanna hug me too when hes drunk (tho hes not the person I enjoy hugging the most) but I hug him too if he puts his arms out 
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Date: 20-09-2021 01:22
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Sylvan wrote:
I don't like hugs most of the time 
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Date: 20-09-2021 01:23
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ouch wrote:
I usually don't hug back wehn old ppl do the weird side hug tho, or when teachers do it, but I let it happen
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Date: 20-09-2021 01:23
MissLondon
Queen of Queens



MissLondon wrote:
ouch wrote:
I don't do any physical contact when im sober, but when Im drunk or other stuff, I love hugging ppl dudes w my arms around their neck and my head in their neck too (it works I guess cus im kinda the same height or just a little shorter than most dudes I know) and also kiss them on the forehead all the time. Idk why but I love kissing ppl on the forehead pls 😭 esp when cuddling 
I have one dude firned who always wanna hug me too when hes drunk (tho hes not the person I enjoy hugging the most) but I hug him too if he puts his arms out 
Lol that’s cute tho
when I’m tipsy 
I generally end up singing 
and telling everyone how 
much I love them🤣
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Date: 20-09-2021 01:26
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Rotte wrote:
Feel like i have become less and less of a hugger, as i have gotten older. Usually when i hug someone it's family and it's just one of those side hugs, with one hand on the back. I give my parents closer and longer hugs tho.
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Date: 20-09-2021 01:31 | Times changed: 1
Aeipathy
Popstar



Aeipathy wrote:
I never get hugs but I'm a fan & I never initiate hugs so I'm definitely more comfortable receiving than giving.
I'm also a basic hugger
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Date: 20-09-2021 02:10
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Barbarella wrote:
I'm not a big hugger, but I'm not repulsed by it either.
However the condition with my spine makes hugs painful on my "bad days" so folks close to me know to ask first. 
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Date: 20-09-2021 02:36
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Barbarella wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
ouch wrote:
I don't do any physical contact when im sober, but when Im drunk or other stuff, I love hugging ppl dudes w my arms around their neck and my head in their neck too (it works I guess cus im kinda the same height or just a little shorter than most dudes I know) and also kiss them on the forehead all the time. Idk why but I love kissing ppl on the forehead pls 😭 esp when cuddling 
I have one dude firned who always wanna hug me too when hes drunk (tho hes not the person I enjoy hugging the most) but I hug him too if he puts his arms out 
Lol that’s cute tho
when I’m tipsy 
I generally end up singing 
and telling everyone how 
much I love them🤣
when I get tipsy I just end up telling everyone how much I love Jane Fonda 
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Date: 20-09-2021 02:37
Aphrodite
World famous



Aphrodite wrote:
I absolutely love all kinds of hugs
Every time I see my friends, even at school (like every day), we hug
I kind of wish my friends were a little taller since I always end up being the ”big spoon” in hugs too
But yea I definitely love physical touch it’s important
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Date: 20-09-2021 05:23
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Sylvan wrote:
I don't like hugs most of the time 
same but it depends 
Date: 20-09-2021 08:03
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kagura wrote:
yes i'm intese hugger and i always pat/rub person's back when i hug them 
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Date: 20-09-2021 08:43
DeltaB
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DeltaB wrote:
Oh no this reminded me of a really awkward story. 

A few years ago I was a barista at an independent cafe and baristas tend to get regulars that like them, and I had a few regulars of my own I guess.

Anyways one day my VERY POSSESSIVE boyfriend (now ex) dropped me off to work and one of my regulars (male) shouts my name as if he knows me closely. First of all, I didn't, usually it was him flirting and me trying to talk about normal things or rush the transaction. ANYWAY he then TRIES TO GIVE ME A HUG and I feel so uncomfortable because I'm not even slightly close to this stranger, he kinda creeps me out, and my very posessive bf is watching from the car.

My reaction? I DUCK out of the hug, dont dare turn back to make eye contact with my ex, and walk immediately into the building. The regular's face looked crushed with sadness but, literally, hands to yourself please 

In general, I like brief hugs only with those I know very well!!! 
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Date: 20-09-2021 08:50
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Raquelle wrote:
I used to not be
because of certain traumas
but i’m slowly becoming more and more of a hugger
it’s nicer this way for sure
i’m tall so most people who hug me get my tits in their face though 😁 
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Date: 20-09-2021 08:53
Thecellabration
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thecellabration wrote:
i'm really not a hugger, for example i could count on one hand the amount of times i've hugged my best friend whom i've known for a decade (she's not a hugger either lol)

but i'm okay with being hugged i just don't initiate it unless it's like. my mum.
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Date: 20-09-2021 10:08
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wrote:
I am not a hygger, but if I know a person I don't really decline. Its fine, but I rarely actively seek them out (really only with one of my aunts, I think). I mostly do hello or goodbye hugs. 
Date: 20-09-2021 10:17
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