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I think its really funny that when
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Barbarella wrote:
I'm asked about myself, I always describe myself as easy-going
when I am most certainly not easy-going
I'm actually a neurotic mess 

but you see
I want people to think I'm easy going - I don't want to be that high maintenance woman
and as a result, they treat me like I can just go with the flow, but I can't
and then I'm unhappy for not being accommodated and my needs and desires not being met
because clearly everyone is supposed to be psychic or something lol


 

Have you ever had one of those "maybe I am the problem" moments? Tell me about it. 
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:09
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I am the problem but it's ok life is like that
Date: 09-10-2021 18:12
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Barbarella wrote:
I'm the problem but it's okay I'm gonna do better
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:20
Alam
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Alam wrote:
I am the problem but what can you do?
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:26
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Barbarella wrote:
Alam wrote:
I am the problem but what can you do?
Address what the problem is, make a decision on whether or not you're happy living that way, and if you're not, find ways to do better?
like, staying a shitty version of yourself for your whole life is some mediocre-whiteboy vibes. lol
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:27
Alam
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Alam wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Alam wrote:
I am the problem but what can you do?
Address what the problem is, make a decision on whether or not you're happy living that way, and if you're not, find ways to do better?
like, staying a shitty version of yourself for your whole life is some mediocre-whiteboy vibes. lol
But it's so harddddddd
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:28
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ouch wrote:
Idk but I despise when ppl get angry at ppl for not reading their mind or whatever. Just say wtf u mean 
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:29
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Limbs wrote:
yeah, when i kept bending over backwards for people and being upset that they were draining me & not putting in the same level of effort for me. i learned to say no and now i love doing it. it feels good to maintain my boundaries
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:32
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Barbarella wrote:
Alam wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Alam wrote:
I am the problem but what can you do?
Address what the problem is, make a decision on whether or not you're happy living that way, and if you're not, find ways to do better?
like, staying a shitty version of yourself for your whole life is some mediocre-whiteboy vibes. lol
But it's so harddddddd
I mean if you're fulfilled with stagnation that's your prerogative, no judgement
I just wasn't happy 
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:33
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Barbarella wrote:
Limbs wrote:
yeah, when i kept bending over backwards for people and being upset that they were draining me & not putting in the same level of effort for me. i learned to say no and now i love doing it. it feels good to maintain my boundaries
Last night I told my friend that I he had to earn our friendship back for this very reason and it was like, nerve wrecking lol. 
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:34
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MissLondon wrote:
if I post it 
it’s likely to offend
but yes, relatable 
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:45
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Barbarella wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
if I post it 
it’s likely to offend
but yes, relatable 
You've never struck me as the type to care if folks were offended, haha. 
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:46
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Alam wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Alam wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Address what the problem is, make a decision on whether or not you're happy living that way, and if you're not, find ways to do better?
like, staying a shitty version of yourself for your whole life is some mediocre-whiteboy vibes. lol
But it's so harddddddd
I mean if you're fulfilled with stagnation that's your prerogative, no judgement
I just wasn't happy 
That''s such a nice word. Stagnation. I like that word.
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Date: 09-10-2021 18:58
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Barbarella wrote:
Alam wrote:
I am the problem but what can you do?
Address what the problem is, make a decision on whether or not you're happy living that way, and if you're not, find ways to do better?
like, staying a shitty version of yourself for your whole life is some mediocre-whiteboy vibes. lol
gonna make a tinder and write that as my bio
Date: 09-10-2021 19:01
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Barbarella wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Barbarella wrote:
Alam wrote:
I am the problem but what can you do?
Address what the problem is, make a decision on whether or not you're happy living that way, and if you're not, find ways to do better?
like, staying a shitty version of yourself for your whole life is some mediocre-whiteboy vibes. lol
gonna make a tinder and write that as my bio
you will not find a man who works on themselves on tinder
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Date: 09-10-2021 19:07
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ouch wrote:
I think, if im only hurting others, who cares abt doing "better", if im ruining shit for myself too like in your example, it would be for everyones best, including myself, if I improved myself
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Date: 09-10-2021 19:11
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