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Nuola wrote:
i have next to no dating experience so take this with a grain of salt. but i think i recall you said that you told him you weren't ready for a relationship yet? doesn't mean men won't be like this, but i think you might be nearing a point where you have to assess what you want and then discuss with him where he is at.
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Date: 28-12-2021 18:52
Sol
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Sol wrote:
Nuola wrote:
i have next to no dating experience so take this with a grain of salt. but i think i recall you said that you told him you weren't ready for a relationship yet? doesn't mean men won't be like this, but i think you might be nearing a point where you have to assess what you want and then discuss with him where he is at.
i agree with this, i've been reading this thread for a while and there seems to be a lack of communication between you two. it might be nice for both you & him to talk abt what you both want
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Date: 28-12-2021 19:22
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
alright. he ended up answering me like 2 hours later hah. he was like "i'll see when i'm done 😍😍 if i have the energy 😅"
i was like "ok text me then 🥰" he was like "yes bby"
so 8pm came, when he quit. nothing. half an hour went, an hour. and NOW two hours later "bby i'm so done i'm going to sleep now 🥺"
two fucking hours later. wow. but surprised he even said something bc i was so sure he'd just not say shit until tomorrow, if even then. i'm angry. so fucking angry. disrespectful honestly to just make me wait like that?? how HARD would it have been to just send a short message once he quit to tell me he didn't have the energy? takes 3 fucking seconds
i didn't reply bc i just don't know what to say? i'm fucking angry but i also don't want to start shit? work tomorrow will b so fun right hahahhhdgbsgfbg. just two hours together tho. i'll see how he is then. and i'm planning on just asking him later at night, once i've quit as well, if we're spending new years together or not. just so i'll know. but it will probably be a no so there's that. fuck everything
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Date: 28-12-2021 22:20
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
sorry if it seems like i'm overreacting but as i've mentioned before in this thread, this has happened to me soooo much for TEN years. almost every single dude i've met??? we click, bond, spend time together and it's nice, and then all of a sudden they just go weird and distant, just cutting me out of their life instantly. you know? it's tiring as hell. i'm always left without answers and so i make up my own answers and blame myself. because what else is there to blame hah?? they got to know me and didn't want it, more or less.

but yeah i'll see how he is at work today. yesterday i felt like he distanced himself, didn't help me as much as he usually does. he hangs out a lot in the kitchen with me normally but not yesterday. so idk. i'll see
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Date: 29-12-2021 10:40
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
mm ok he was very busy when i got to work so didn't see him for 40 mins or smth
we greeted each other and then i felt like he was avoiding me LOL. but then when i stood by the counter alone he came to me and asked if i'm good, told him yes, asked how he was. we small talked a bit. then i told him to smell my new perfume so he grabbed my head and put it against his so our cheeks were touching, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE KITCHEN LOOOOL. damn
then a bit later i was sitting in the kitchen, the others including him were sitting in the armchairs outside the kitchen and he sent me a text snap saying "i want a kiss so bad" and i texted him back like "come then"
kiss never happened tho but like how tf was that supposed to happen with 23509345 ppl around
when he was leaving he was like "i'll see you on..... ???" and i waited for him to say smth to get answers abt new years but he didn't say anything so i was like "i work on monday" n he was like "we'll have to see each other before then. we'll talk" so

i'm gonna ask him about new years like right now tho. i need to know hah
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Date: 29-12-2021 19:27
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MissLondon wrote:
cobain wrote:
mm ok he was very busy when i got to work so didn't see him for 40 mins or smth
we greeted each other and then i felt like he was avoiding me LOL. but then when i stood by the counter alone he came to me and asked if i'm good, told him yes, asked how he was. we small talked a bit. then i told him to smell my new perfume so he grabbed my head and put it against his so our cheeks were touching, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE KITCHEN LOOOOL. damn
then a bit later i was sitting in the kitchen, the others including him were sitting in the armchairs outside the kitchen and he sent me a text snap saying "i want a kiss so bad" and i texted him back like "come then"
kiss never happened tho but like how tf was that supposed to happen with 23509345 ppl around
when he was leaving he was like "i'll see you on..... ???" and i waited for him to say smth to get answers abt new years but he didn't say anything so i was like "i work on monday" n he was like "we'll have to see each other before then. we'll talk" so

i'm gonna ask him about new years like right now tho. i need to know hah
Girl, you had the perfect opportunity 
when he asked, “see you on…”
maybe stop overthinking everything 
be the grown woman that you are
and just be direct..about what you want especially 
good luck!
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Date: 29-12-2021 20:10
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
cobain wrote:
mm ok he was very busy when i got to work so didn't see him for 40 mins or smth
we greeted each other and then i felt like he was avoiding me LOL. but then when i stood by the counter alone he came to me and asked if i'm good, told him yes, asked how he was. we small talked a bit. then i told him to smell my new perfume so he grabbed my head and put it against his so our cheeks were touching, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE KITCHEN LOOOOL. damn
then a bit later i was sitting in the kitchen, the others including him were sitting in the armchairs outside the kitchen and he sent me a text snap saying "i want a kiss so bad" and i texted him back like "come then"
kiss never happened tho but like how tf was that supposed to happen with 23509345 ppl around
when he was leaving he was like "i'll see you on..... ???" and i waited for him to say smth to get answers abt new years but he didn't say anything so i was like "i work on monday" n he was like "we'll have to see each other before then. we'll talk" so

i'm gonna ask him about new years like right now tho. i need to know hah
Girl, you had the perfect opportunity 
when he asked, “see you on…”
maybe stop overthinking everything 
be the grown woman that you are
and just be direct..about what you want especially 
good luck!
i know but i chickened out 😭😭😭
thank u babe !!!
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Date: 29-12-2021 21:10
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
so he still hasn't opened it hhhhhhhhhhh been almost 2 hours now and i'm stressing
but like... chill, right... either it's a yes or a no. so what. right......
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Date: 29-12-2021 21:11
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
ok he answered and said "i don't know yet, tomorrow they'll tell me. but i miss you bby"
idk what he meant rly like i think he has more than one option for new years so i suppose he doesn't rly know himself what he's doing yet. but like.. can i just come for one of the options or???? what does he mean?? idk whatever hah i told him to tell me tomorrow so i'll know if i'm gonna do something else or b with him
ugh i hate not knowing 
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Date: 29-12-2021 22:16
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
so yeah i went there on thursday evening after work
i just now got home LOOOL so 3 nights with him. damn. i rly rly like being with him, it's so cozy and he spoils me rotten, to the point where i feel bad bc he doesn't want me to pay for anything or to lift a finger!!!!!!! i did cook for him on friday tho, and cleaned up the dishes. that's the only time i've done anything skdlgndklfg

we got drunk on thursday and played "never have i ever" n it was so funny
on new years, he was meant to go to a party (idk if i was ever included in that plan but i guess it doesn't matter) but idk his friend had just broke up w his gf so he wasn't going but she was going, so my guy didn't go either. we ended up dressing nice even tho we were just staying at home (we had sooo much to drink HHAHA) and he invited his friend over. it was nice. my guy was looking sooooo hoooot ugh i die for him when he dresses nicely. so fucking hot dude
yesterday we spent the entire day indoors (his friend had lost his key in the snow outside hhhh so we couldn't go anywhere). fucked a ton. slept a ton. watched movies. he made me shawarma and it was so fucking delicious. UGHh
today we've also mostly cuddled and watched series n films n shit. ate pizza
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Date: 02-01-2022 18:33
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
oh his friends came over today and we drank arabic coffee which was........ strong.................. it tasted nice, tasted like there were spices in it or smth? but i see why they serve it in small cups LOL. smoked shisha. not only did they talk in arabic, but about soccer in arabic. boooooring but it was fine lol i'm so shy anyways so i'm fine just sitting there quietly. my guy explained what they talked about sometimes, and sometimes they talked swedish, sometimes english

on thursday actually he told me he likes when girls get jealous bc it's kind of proof they're into you? as long as it doesn't go overboard tho ofc. yeah i'm jealous about night girl and he knows that. a coworker was meant to come to us on new years, and he asked me if night girl could come too. he said it's up to me. i told him maybe. i told him i'm quite certain she's into him and i don't wanna watch her be all over him. he said to me that he'll be with me, and one kiss and she'll know it's me and him. but i told him that IF she is into him that's gonna b trouble bc if she starts shit, he'll have to handle that bc that's not my issue lol. but i eventually agreed to inviting her. neither of them came tho, obviously.
then yesterday she wanted to go out and nagged on him to come with. he asked me if i wanted to go and i didn't. she kept video chatting him tho and it annoyed the shit out of me. we were cuddling in the sofa and he answered when i was there on his arm but obviously didn't show me (which i understand, we're all coworkers and she was out with another coworker). and idk i get the feeling she's into him, he doesn't agree. they talked in arabic sometimes so i didn't know what they said hagjdsdbg. i think it's in my head tho, i don't think he's into her BUT i think she's into him and that he's a bit naive to it LOOOL. he likes teasing me about it. they're going out next weekend. i work that weekend so can't come with ((((((((( : fml
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Date: 02-01-2022 18:47
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
AHH RIGHT on new years i wanted them to teach me stuff in arabic
so my guy said something but refused to say what it meant, dumb of him when there's literally another person there who speaks arabic. so i asked his friend who wasn't rly paying attention, and it meant "i love you"
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Date: 02-01-2022 18:59
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM LOOOOOOL
so he's started working on another floor now, so we don't work together as we have before. i swear all day long i'm just longing for him to come to our floor, which he does sometimes. every time i hear the door i hope it's him. yesterday he came up to me after he quit and talked for a while. i hoped he'd do the same today but he didn't. 

n yesterday evening i got worried bc he sent me a snap n he had set the table for two, really nicely n shit so i asked quite innocent questions HAHAH but i think he understood i was a bit... worried....... he said he had a friend over who worked in his town for the day. gotta stop this shit. i think we need to have a convo about what we are n what we expect of each other. like i still don't think i'm ready for a fullblown relationship, or maybe i am ready but i wanna take it slow, not be bf gf straight away, you know? get to know each other a bit more first. but i don't want to be with anyone else and i don't want him to be with anyone else. but maybe it's weird demanding exclusivity while i also don't want to be bf gf just yet? i honestly don't know.
at the same time idk why i'm so fucking worried. i think he likes me and has some sort of feelings for me too, at least it seems like it. and he's said he likes me. even said "i love you" in arabic but idk if that was meant like that. i should chill
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Date: 04-01-2022 22:07
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Baffles me how people end up in these types of situations
Date: 04-01-2022 22:31
Cobain
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cobain wrote:
so yeah ok they're going out tomorrow. i'm invited too but i work until 7pm tomorrow and 12h on saturday but i'm thinking if i just stick to the same type of alcohol i might not get too hungover........ idk.....
i didn't tell y'all but when night girl called him when she wanted him to come out on saturday, he teased me about it and said she'd offered him to sleep at her place and she lives alone etc etc etc. i'm scared he's gonna sleep at hers tomorrow 🙃 he'd be a special kind of stupif if he did that, IF he likes me, bc he knows i'm jealous when it comes to her. i'd fuck shit UP if he did. like idc if we're not a couple or whatever i just think it would be a shitty thing to do to someone who's obviously worried and upset.
later that same night i felt like he became distant to me n i was like "are u thinking about her" and he was like "no. do you really think that??? absolutely not" and told me what he was thinking about. some business stuff. and told me he never thinks of her. but idk dude idk men r not to be trusted and iv learned that the hard way
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Date: 06-01-2022 21:15
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