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Okay so Helo, i still exist. Maybe it is just me who don't feel like that after these last two days. But ye, im attempting to pull myself together to write an email to my student councilor(??????) about what my options are regarding if I can't complete a class this semester, still being able to do the last bachelor year, changeing study and all of that. I've literally been loosing it all weekend.

Ye wtf do I write

MasileinDE
International star

MasileinDE wrote:
I'd honestly just ask the question.
Then explain why you don't know the answer to it (aka what causes the confusion).
And then add in the personal reasoning behind it in a sentence or two

it sounds so unhelpful, but basically just be like

Hey, I'm wondering if not being able to complete the class xy this semester will prevent me from starting the new bachelor year. I can't complete it for x reason (can just be something short like personal reasons, etc, if it's important they'll ask follow-ups) and am now wondering how this may affect my future semesters and studies in general.

Greetings, etc

(but then again people tell me I sound like a bitch in mails, so maybe don't use it to the t and rework it)

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MasileinDE wrote:
I'd honestly just ask the question.
Then explain why you don't know the answer to it (aka what causes the confusion).
And then add in the personal reasoning behind it in a sentence or two

it sounds so unhelpful, but basically just be like

Hey, I'm wondering if not being able to complete the class xy this semester will prevent me from starting the new bachelor year. I can't complete it for x reason (can just be something short like personal reasons, etc, if it's important they'll ask follow-ups) and am now wondering how this may affect my future semesters and studies in general.

Greetings, etc

(but then again people tell me I sound like a bitch in mails, so maybe don't use it to the t and rework it)

i did send something like that but it's like

hi i am still sick and likely won't be able to do the next fieldtrip, thus fail obligatory stuff.
the teacher don't offer alterantive work.
i have also applied for internal change of bachelor degree which require i pass everything this semester for my approval to be valid
when will the course go again if i have to pass it
will my other studypoints from a different school be any help
pls help me i'm lost

thats my email

MasileinDE
International star

MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:
I'd honestly just ask the question.
Then explain why you don't know the answer to it (aka what causes the confusion).
And then add in the personal reasoning behind it in a sentence or two

it sounds so unhelpful, but basically just be like

Hey, I'm wondering if not being able to complete the class xy this semester will prevent me from starting the new bachelor year. I can't complete it for x reason (can just be something short like personal reasons, etc, if it's important they'll ask follow-ups) and am now wondering how this may affect my future semesters and studies in general.

Greetings, etc

(but then again people tell me I sound like a bitch in mails, so maybe don't use it to the t and rework it)

i did send something like that but it's like

hi i am still sick and likely won't be able to do the next fieldtrip, thus fail obligatory stuff.
the teacher don't offer alterantive work.
i have also applied for internal change of bachelor degree which require i pass everything this semester for my approval to be valid
when will the course go again if i have to pass it
will my other studypoints from a different school be any help
pls help me i'm lost

thats my email

works too

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MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:
I'd honestly just ask the question.
Then explain why you don't know the answer to it (aka what causes the confusion).
And then add in the personal reasoning behind it in a sentence or two

it sounds so unhelpful, but basically just be like

Hey, I'm wondering if not being able to complete the class xy this semester will prevent me from starting the new bachelor year. I can't complete it for x reason (can just be something short like personal reasons, etc, if it's important they'll ask follow-ups) and am now wondering how this may affect my future semesters and studies in general.

Greetings, etc

(but then again people tell me I sound like a bitch in mails, so maybe don't use it to the t and rework it)

i did send something like that but it's like

hi i am still sick and likely won't be able to do the next fieldtrip, thus fail obligatory stuff.
the teacher don't offer alterantive work.
i have also applied for internal change of bachelor degree which require i pass everything this semester for my approval to be valid
when will the course go again if i have to pass it
will my other studypoints from a different school be any help
pls help me i'm lost

thats my email

works too

yes, lets hope so like i've been having a mental breakdown over this since friday when i was literally dying from the fieldtrip. it was terrible, in all aspects of the word.

MasileinDE
International star

MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:
i did send something like that but it's like

hi i am still sick and likely won't be able to do the next fieldtrip, thus fail obligatory stuff.
the teacher don't offer alterantive work.
i have also applied for internal change of bachelor degree which require i pass everything this semester for my approval to be valid
when will the course go again if i have to pass it
will my other studypoints from a different school be any help
pls help me i'm lost

thats my email

works too

yes, lets hope so like i've been having a mental breakdown over this since friday when i was literally dying from the fieldtrip. it was terrible, in all aspects of the word.

I've read your updates
weren't you kinda excited for it and then it turned out shit? really sad it sucked that much :/
hope you can get what you want out of it and for them to help you with this

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MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:
works too

yes, lets hope so like i've been having a mental breakdown over this since friday when i was literally dying from the fieldtrip. it was terrible, in all aspects of the word.

I've read your updates
weren't you kinda excited for it and then it turned out shit? really sad it sucked that much :/
hope you can get what you want out of it and for them to help you with this

oh no, no i hate fieldtrips

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Eostre wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:
yes, lets hope so like i've been having a mental breakdown over this since friday when i was literally dying from the fieldtrip. it was terrible, in all aspects of the word.

I've read your updates
weren't you kinda excited for it and then it turned out shit? really sad it sucked that much :/
hope you can get what you want out of it and for them to help you with this

oh no, no i hate fieldtrips

they are hell when u got social anxiety*and there are 70+ students there with you + u r sick af
and then it was cold af and we didn't even have anywhere to shelter for lunch bc the busses weren't there
* also i've always hate fieldtrips bc they are mostly a waste of time and energy and i have always not found myself comfy in situations like that, like from I was a child any not regular day at school was a no thank you
and i was sick obvi, walking 100m was hard and they were just well walk here and there and here and there and i just ended up sitting down on some old driftwood and shiver my ass off. i couldn't even hear the teachers talking bc i couldn't breath through my nose and i couldn't rly breath at all and i was shivering so hard and yeah it was terrible i didn't eat all day either bc i can't eat when i'm stressed. and we were at that icy cold place for 1,5hour and all i wanted to do was to ask the teachers to call my emergency number or to sit down and just die. and then i got home after skipping the last stop (the first one not in total nowhere, actually close enought to where i live) and i was so exhausted my entire body hurt (my legs, my arms, my stomach was so tired from anxiety spasms all day.) my brain was dead too. and i was just like i'm a plane crash, and it has taken me 2 days to restitue from 5-6 hours of fieldtrip and like the next one is 36 hours or something.

MasileinDE
International star

MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:
I've read your updates
weren't you kinda excited for it and then it turned out shit? really sad it sucked that much :/
hope you can get what you want out of it and for them to help you with this

oh no, no i hate fieldtrips

they are hell when u got social anxiety and there are 70+ students there with you + u r sick af
and then it was cold af and we didn't even have anywhere to shelter for lunch bc the busses weren't there
and i was sick obvi, walking 100m was hard and they were just well walk here and there and here and there and i just ended up sitting down on some old driftwood and shiver my ass off. i couldn't even hear the teachers talking bc i couldn't breath through my nose and i couldn't rly breath at all and i was shivering so hard and yeah it was terrible i didn't eat all day either bc i can't eat when i'm stressed. and we were at that icy cold place for 1,5hour and all i wanted to do was to ask the teachers to call my emergency number or to sit down and just die. and then i got home after skipping the last stop (the first one not in total nowhere, actually close enought to where i live) and i was so exhausted my entire body hurt (my legs, my arms, my stomach was so tired from anxiety spasms all day.) my brain was dead too. and i was just like i'm a plane crash, and it has taken me 2 days to restitue from 5-6 hours of fieldtrip and like the next one is 48 hours.

omg, I would never have gone in the first place o.O
but I'm proud you still gave it a go and went, even if it was such torture

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MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:

Eostre wrote:
oh no, no i hate fieldtrips

they are hell when u got social anxiety and there are 70+ students there with you + u r sick af
and then it was cold af and we didn't even have anywhere to shelter for lunch bc the busses weren't there
and i was sick obvi, walking 100m was hard and they were just well walk here and there and here and there and i just ended up sitting down on some old driftwood and shiver my ass off. i couldn't even hear the teachers talking bc i couldn't breath through my nose and i couldn't rly breath at all and i was shivering so hard and yeah it was terrible i didn't eat all day either bc i can't eat when i'm stressed. and we were at that icy cold place for 1,5hour and all i wanted to do was to ask the teachers to call my emergency number or to sit down and just die. and then i got home after skipping the last stop (the first one not in total nowhere, actually close enought to where i live) and i was so exhausted my entire body hurt (my legs, my arms, my stomach was so tired from anxiety spasms all day.) my brain was dead too. and i was just like i'm a plane crash, and it has taken me 2 days to restitue from 5-6 hours of fieldtrip and like the next one is 48 hours.

omg, I would never have gone in the first place o.O
but I'm proud you still gave it a go and went, even if it was such torture

yeah
when u have to go or fail it's like who tf care about their health anymore, like u don't get to do that then : ) also i asked the teachers like a month ago for alterantive stuff and it was like "no u should be there, u will learn more"

MasileinDE
International star

MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:
they are hell when u got social anxiety and there are 70+ students there with you + u r sick af
and then it was cold af and we didn't even have anywhere to shelter for lunch bc the busses weren't there
and i was sick obvi, walking 100m was hard and they were just well walk here and there and here and there and i just ended up sitting down on some old driftwood and shiver my ass off. i couldn't even hear the teachers talking bc i couldn't breath through my nose and i couldn't rly breath at all and i was shivering so hard and yeah it was terrible i didn't eat all day either bc i can't eat when i'm stressed. and we were at that icy cold place for 1,5hour and all i wanted to do was to ask the teachers to call my emergency number or to sit down and just die. and then i got home after skipping the last stop (the first one not in total nowhere, actually close enought to where i live) and i was so exhausted my entire body hurt (my legs, my arms, my stomach was so tired from anxiety spasms all day.) my brain was dead too. and i was just like i'm a plane crash, and it has taken me 2 days to restitue from 5-6 hours of fieldtrip and like the next one is 48 hours.

omg, I would never have gone in the first place o.O
but I'm proud you still gave it a go and went, even if it was such torture

yeah
when u have to go or fail it's like who tf care about their health anymore, like u don't get to do that then : ) also i asked the teachers like a month ago for alterantive stuff and it was like "no u should be there, u will learn more"

I hope you'll be able to find a way to do something about it? I really can't believe they don't offer options for those who can't go? like not just in a mental capacity, but what if you just can't because of other issues like inaccessibility or something? that's kind of exclusionary of them to not take these things into account. or if someone's like actively sick with something and lying in bed with a fever?

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MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:
omg, I would never have gone in the first place o.O
but I'm proud you still gave it a go and went, even if it was such torture

yeah
when u have to go or fail it's like who tf care about their health anymore, like u don't get to do that then : ) also i asked the teachers like a month ago for alterantive stuff and it was like "no u should be there, u will learn more"

I hope you'll be able to find a way to do something about it? I really can't believe they don't offer options for those who can't go? like not just in a mental capacity, but what if you just can't because of other issues like inaccessibility or something? that's kind of exclusionary of them to not take these things into account. or if someone's like actively sick with something and lying in bed with a fever?

yeah it annoys me a lot since they didn't even know in january if the trip was going to happen at all due to covid and when they get a green light and all covid restrictions suddenly are lifted, it's like "no ppl don't get sick anymore"

MasileinDE
International star

MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:
yeah
when u have to go or fail it's like who tf care about their health anymore, like u don't get to do that then : ) also i asked the teachers like a month ago for alterantive stuff and it was like "no u should be there, u will learn more"

I hope you'll be able to find a way to do something about it? I really can't believe they don't offer options for those who can't go? like not just in a mental capacity, but what if you just can't because of other issues like inaccessibility or something? that's kind of exclusionary of them to not take these things into account. or if someone's like actively sick with something and lying in bed with a fever?

yeah it annoys me a lot since they didn't even know in january if the trip was going to happen at all due to covid and when they get a green light and all covid restrictions suddenly are lifted, it's like "no ppl don't get sick anymore"

fools, the whole lot of them

MissLondon
Queen of Queens

MissLondon wrote:

Eostre wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:
I've read your updates
weren't you kinda excited for it and then it turned out shit? really sad it sucked that much :/
hope you can get what you want out of it and for them to help you with this

oh no, no i hate fieldtrips

they are hell when u got social anxiety*and there are 70+ students there with you + u r sick af
and then it was cold af and we didn't even have anywhere to shelter for lunch bc the busses weren't there
* also i've always hate fieldtrips bc they are mostly a waste of time and energy and i have always not found myself comfy in situations like that, like from I was a child any not regular day at school was a no thank you
and i was sick obvi, walking 100m was hard and they were just well walk here and there and here and there and i just ended up sitting down on some old driftwood and shiver my ass off. i couldn't even hear the teachers talking bc i couldn't breath through my nose and i couldn't rly breath at all and i was shivering so hard and yeah it was terrible i didn't eat all day either bc i can't eat when i'm stressed. and we were at that icy cold place for 1,5hour and all i wanted to do was to ask the teachers to call my emergency number or to sit down and just die. and then i got home after skipping the last stop (the first one not in total nowhere, actually close enought to where i live) and i was so exhausted my entire body hurt (my legs, my arms, my stomach was so tired from anxiety spasms all day.) my brain was dead too. and i was just like i'm a plane crash, and it has taken me 2 days to restitue from 5-6 hours of fieldtrip and like the next one is 36 hours or something.

Please don’t take this the wrong way
because I’ve never dealt with
anxiety..only shyness.
I’m sorry that your last experience
was awful in every way possible
and I wish there was a way
that you could participate
with a support person..idk if it’s a thing
but it should be.
if it were possible I would go with you
and probably you would get sick of me lol
but somehow maybe things
would be slightly easier if you
had someone that you’re comfortable with
to go with it, help motivate and be there in general idk
either way, I hope things work out
in your favor

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MissLondon wrote:

Eostre wrote:

Eostre wrote:
oh no, no i hate fieldtrips

they are hell when u got social anxiety*and there are 70+ students there with you + u r sick af
and then it was cold af and we didn't even have anywhere to shelter for lunch bc the busses weren't there
* also i've always hate fieldtrips bc they are mostly a waste of time and energy and i have always not found myself comfy in situations like that, like from I was a child any not regular day at school was a no thank you
and i was sick obvi, walking 100m was hard and they were just well walk here and there and here and there and i just ended up sitting down on some old driftwood and shiver my ass off. i couldn't even hear the teachers talking bc i couldn't breath through my nose and i couldn't rly breath at all and i was shivering so hard and yeah it was terrible i didn't eat all day either bc i can't eat when i'm stressed. and we were at that icy cold place for 1,5hour and all i wanted to do was to ask the teachers to call my emergency number or to sit down and just die. and then i got home after skipping the last stop (the first one not in total nowhere, actually close enought to where i live) and i was so exhausted my entire body hurt (my legs, my arms, my stomach was so tired from anxiety spasms all day.) my brain was dead too. and i was just like i'm a plane crash, and it has taken me 2 days to restitue from 5-6 hours of fieldtrip and like the next one is 36 hours or something.

Please don’t take this the wrong way
because I’ve never dealt with
anxiety..only shyness.
I’m sorry that your last experience
was awful in every way possible
and I wish there was a way
that you could participate
with a support person..idk if it’s a thing
but it should be.
if it were possible I would go with you
and probably you would get sick of me lol
but somehow maybe things
would be slightly easier if you
had someone that you’re comfortable with
to go with it, help motivate and be there in general idk
either way, I hope things work out
in your favor

thanks : )

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MasileinDE wrote:

Eostre wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:
I hope you'll be able to find a way to do something about it? I really can't believe they don't offer options for those who can't go? like not just in a mental capacity, but what if you just can't because of other issues like inaccessibility or something? that's kind of exclusionary of them to not take these things into account. or if someone's like actively sick with something and lying in bed with a fever?

yeah it annoys me a lot since they didn't even know in january if the trip was going to happen at all due to covid and when they get a green light and all covid restrictions suddenly are lifted, it's like "no ppl don't get sick anymore"

fools, the whole lot of them

yeahh !!