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Isolated
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Isolated wrote:
Boyfriend to come over?

My roommate has a boyfriend since january and he’s been in our apartment for an average of 5 days a week. I can hear them having sex, laughing, talk etc. i always hear them and it’s annoying me to death. I’ve really been thinking to ask for her not to bring him over more than 3..or 4 times (but 4 seems still too much for me tbh) a week? But I don’t wanna like, restrict their relationship either if you get what I mean. 
what would you do in this situation
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Date: 09-06-2022 01:11 | Times changed: 1
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Claire wrote:
imo if ur sleeping over for more than half the week u gotta pay rent 
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Date: 09-06-2022 01:13
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Ataraxia wrote:
Claire wrote:
imo if ur sleeping over for more than half the week u gotta pay rent 
^
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Date: 09-06-2022 01:14
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Isolated wrote:
Claire wrote:
imo if ur sleeping over for more than half the week u gotta pay rent 
I don’t want him to pay rent so that he can stay here though, I didn’t sign up to be in a couple’s apartment 
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Date: 09-06-2022 01:17
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Claire wrote:
Isolated wrote:
Claire wrote:
imo if ur sleeping over for more than half the week u gotta pay rent 
I don’t want him to pay rent so that he can stay here though, I didn’t sign up to be in a couple’s apartment 
Man it’s unfortunate that boundaries weren’t set sooner. Since they’ve been doing this for a while already it will be harder to change things than like if you just draw the line in the first place. Honestly I’d start looking for a new place if I were in your shoes lmfao. 
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Date: 09-06-2022 01:22
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Claire wrote:
I do think you have a right to set a limit. Something like three sleepovers a week max would be fair imo. I just don’t know how well they’ll go with that since they’re already in a habit you know. 
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Date: 09-06-2022 01:24
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Isolated wrote:
Claire wrote:
Isolated wrote:
Claire wrote:
imo if ur sleeping over for more than half the week u gotta pay rent 
I don’t want him to pay rent so that he can stay here though, I didn’t sign up to be in a couple’s apartment 
Man it’s unfortunate that boundaries weren’t set sooner. Since they’ve been doing this for a while already it will be harder to change things than like if you just draw the line in the first place. Honestly I’d start looking for a new place if I were in your shoes lmfao.
I kinda did tell her a few times before that he’s been here a lot, and then it’s ok for a week and then it just starts over again. Even though she expressed feeling sorry for bringing him over so much as well. I also asked her if it was ok that a friend of mine was sleeping over she said it was ok as long as he didn’t stay for a week, so I’m like..??????
Also, I can’t just start looking for a new place though, I have a contract of 3 years and I’ll have to pay extra if I break it. I’ve been moving around each year and last year twice, getting a bit tired of it tbh and right now I can’t permit myself to spend a few months extra rent, because I need to invest my money in other things. 
anyway, other than this, it was ok living with her before yknow
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Date: 09-06-2022 01:47
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Isolated wrote:
Claire wrote:
I do think you have a right to set a limit. Something like three sleepovers a week max would be fair imo. I just don’t know how well they’ll go with that since they’re already in a habit you know. 
Mmm yea, should’ve maybe told her before it became a habit, I don’t really know either how it would work, think I’ll just try to look for a moment when we’d be alone, talk to her about it and see how it’s gonna go
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Date: 09-06-2022 01:50
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Sylvan wrote:
3 nights a week is more than enough
How do you split the electricity and water bill? 
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Date: 09-06-2022 01:51
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Isolated wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
3 nights a week is more than enough
How do you split the electricity and water bill? 
I have a sharing account with her and we just split them 50/50 
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Date: 09-06-2022 01:55
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MissLondon wrote:
Your roomie isn’t taking
into consideration how
she’s restricting you tho.

I would mention it again 
You deserve to be
comfortable in your own home
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Date: 09-06-2022 02:01
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Sylvan wrote:
Isolated wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
3 nights a week is more than enough
How do you split the electricity and water bill? 
I have a sharing account with her and we just split them 50/50 
Yeah that's not okay, you basically pay 50% of his rent, electricity and water
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Date: 09-06-2022 02:06
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Claire wrote:
when you talked to her about it did you like make it like a big serious meeting or did you like just kinda mention it

also does this guy not have his own place 
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Date: 09-06-2022 02:08
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Claire wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Isolated wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
3 nights a week is more than enough
How do you split the electricity and water bill? 
I have a sharing account with her and we just split them 50/50 
Yeah that's not okay, you basically pay 50% of his rent, electricity and water
here's an idea. start sending invoices on the 4th day for the nights rent lmfao.
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Date: 09-06-2022 02:08
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Claire wrote:
ok heres another thought

is she AWARE that you hear her sex? she should be at least a little embarassed for you to have to listen to that lmfao. 
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Date: 09-06-2022 02:09
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Isolated wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Your roomie isn’t taking
into consideration how
she’s restricting you tho.

I would mention it again 
You deserve to be
comfortable in your own home
Hmm yeah that’s right, didn’t see it that way before
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Date: 09-06-2022 02:12
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