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i got myself in a meeessss
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Living Legend



glowed wrote:
in october last year I moved to the capital city to study. finding an affordable flat was a PAIN but I got an offer from one of my hs professors to live in her studio flat for a crazy cheap price. at that time, I was looking to share a flat with a friend so we moved in together.

the winter sucked big time because we were stuck in the flat most of the time, with classes being online and weather being shit. and my mental health was never worse and I started despising how messy my roommate was so in February I moved back home. she stayed in the flat, paying half the rent, with a promise that I can move back in at any time and that she understands my struggles. 

fast forward a couple months -- I finally feel stable enough to move and start anew and get a job so I ask her if the offer still stands and she says no.

and now... I am feeling very angry aha : DD
so I did what I would never dare to do and messaged my professor, the landlord. and I am so going to regret that in the morning ! but yes. I am upset ! pls tell me how dumb I am
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Date: 19-06-2022 22:01
Wuwu
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wuwu wrote:
you paid half the rent all this time?
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Date: 19-06-2022 22:05
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
wuwu wrote:
you paid half the rent all this time?
This..because if not
i don’t understand the anger
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Date: 19-06-2022 22:06
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Living Legend



glowed wrote:
wuwu wrote:
you paid half the rent all this time?
no aa should've been clearer on that part
they didn't have her paying the whole rent because they also thought I would be returning to the flat in a couple of months 
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Date: 19-06-2022 22:13
MissLondon
World Famous



MissLondon wrote:
glowed wrote:
wuwu wrote:
you paid half the rent all this time?
no aa should've been clearer on that part
they didn't have her paying the whole rent because they also thought I would be returning to the flat in a couple of months 
If this was set up at the time you left
why would you need to ask if you can return?
sorry but it doesn’t make sense 
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Date: 19-06-2022 22:19
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Living Legend



glowed wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
wuwu wrote:
you paid half the rent all this time?
This..because if not
i don’t understand the anger
needed someone to say this lol i am so very over the place

the sole reason for my anger is -- I was the one who found the flat and who was in charge of everything ? and the fact that she said I can come back and is now changing her mind and being rude about the whole situation. 
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Date: 19-06-2022 22:20
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glowed wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
glowed wrote:
wuwu wrote:
you paid half the rent all this time?
no aa should've been clearer on that part
they didn't have her paying the whole rent because they also thought I would be returning to the flat in a couple of months 
If this was set up at the time you left
why would you need to ask if you can return?
sorry but it doesn’t make sense 
because I'm polite... I can't just barge in and say hello I'm back ;_;
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Date: 19-06-2022 22:22
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
glowed wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
glowed wrote:
no aa should've been clearer on that part
they didn't have her paying the whole rent because they also thought I would be returning to the flat in a couple of months 
If this was set up at the time you left
why would you need to ask if you can return?
sorry but it doesn’t make sense 
because I'm polite... I can't just barge in and say hello I'm back ;_;
Polite doesn’t have anything 
to do with it tho, especially if this was set up
at the time you left.

If nothing was written/no contract  
regardless if you found the place
technically, you left your roomie 
holding the bag..you just got lucky
that your landlord felt sympathy 
and only charged half during your absence.
Yes, she went back on her word
but the roomie doesn’t owe you anything.
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Date: 19-06-2022 22:31
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Living Legend



glowed wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
glowed wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
If this was set up at the time you left
why would you need to ask if you can return?
sorry but it doesn’t make sense 
because I'm polite... I can't just barge in and say hello I'm back ;_;
Polite doesn’t have anything 
to do with it tho, especially if this was set up
at the time you left.

If nothing was written/no contract  
regardless if you found the place
technically, you left your roomie 
holding the bag..you just got lucky
that your landlord felt sympathy 
and only charged half during your absence.
Yes, she went back on her word
but the roomie doesn’t owe you anything.
understood (,:
I am so very bad at adulting 
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Date: 19-06-2022 22:34
Private
Princess of Pop



Arthema wrote:
She doesn't owe you anything but who she is for just saying no?
it's not her place lol and ultimately the professor's decision

If she promised you it'll b okay to come back when she's JUST paying half and now did not keep the promise, that's a shit friend
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Date: 19-06-2022 22:48 | Times changed: 1
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Living Legend



glowed wrote:
Abby wrote:
She doesn't owe you anything but who she is for just saying no?
it's not her place lol and ultimately the professor's decision

If she promised you it'll b okay to come back when she's JUST paying half and now did not keep the promise, that's a shit friend
right ... i talked to the prof just now and she said that she can't really kick her out but is willing to talk to her. and i'd rather not have the landlords involved so I said that I'll talk to her myself. so I messaged her and now I wait ( :

I feel like a child when saying oh she's a shit friend but truly,, she is
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Date: 19-06-2022 23:26
Private
Popstar



ouch wrote:
Whos been paying the other half of the rent 
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Date: 19-06-2022 23:37
MissLondon
World Famous



MissLondon wrote:
Abby wrote:
She doesn't owe you anything but who she is for just saying no?
it's not her place lol and ultimately the professor's decision

If she promised you it'll b okay to come back when she's JUST paying half and now did not keep the promise, that's a shit friend
Even with Glowed in the house
roomie would still pay half.
But, if there’s utilities/electricity etc
seems like a extra expense 
for the roomie if  she had 
to cover the cost alone.

I get that it’s a friend 
but it also seems a little selfish 
to expect someone to pause
just because one has to 
check out for a few months.
I think the friend should have
been a little more clear 
and asked for a definite date of return. 
Either way, hope things work out 
although I’d feel awkward as hell 
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Date: 19-06-2022 23:39
Private
Living Legend



glowed wrote:
ouch wrote:
Whos been paying the other half of the rent 
no one
the landlords were okay with that because me returning was a given? but i guess not lol
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Date: 19-06-2022 23:39
Private
Living Legend



glowed wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Abby wrote:
She doesn't owe you anything but who she is for just saying no?
it's not her place lol and ultimately the professor's decision

If she promised you it'll b okay to come back when she's JUST paying half and now did not keep the promise, that's a shit friend
Even with Glowed in the house
roomie would still pay half.
But, if there’s utilities/electricity etc
seems like a extra expense 
for the roomie if  she had 
to cover the cost alone.

I get that it’s a friend 
but it also seems a little selfish 
to expect someone to pause
just because one has to 
check out for a few months.
I think the friend should have
been a little more clear 
and asked for a definite date of return. 
Either way, hope things work out 
although I’d feel awkward as hell 
finances not considered -- the flat isn't big so the costs are minimal and she can definitely afford it. her family is loaded and i don't want it to come off as me leaving her all stranded and whatnot? it was a thoroughly discussed matter

i do thank you for your points though !! i really needed someone to give me counterarguments here
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Date: 19-06-2022 23:42
Yeule
International Star



yeule wrote:
i hope everything gets worked out and things go smoothly for you soon, goodluck!! 
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Date: 19-06-2022 23:48
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