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is it rude to bake cake for urself only
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bee wrote:
when you live with your family and youre like i wanna bake a cake are you obligated to share with your family??
sometimes i just wanna bake a portion sized cake for myself to dig into with a fork you know. and my mom thinks im egoistic and rude for not sharing. saying i should make a bigger cake so everyone can have a piece. no. i like mixing random stuff together without a recipe to create a treat for myself bc thats selfcare to me. making a bigger cake requires more thinking and it doesnt bring me the same joy. but how dare i not share with my family 
told her if she wants cake why dont she bake one herself? then she started with like wEll HoW wOuLd YoU fEeL iF i mAdE cAke WiTHoUt ShAriNg?! 
fine? do what you wanna 
the only reason she wants a share is because it contains sugar. if i made a delicious omelet she wouldnt care less. but for me its the same thing?? im making something for myself?

n e ways it makes me mildly sad bc i used to bake frequently and always share with my family but at some point i lost all my energy to even think about baking. and by making a small cake for myself im slowly starting to enjoy baking again without it feeling too much or overwhelming, bc baking can be like that

honestly its the stupidest argument ever but its been going on for like half a year and i cant figure out if im in the wrong or not, but i really dont feel like i am, and i feel like i really tried to explain why i only bake for myself sometimes 
idk i guess im just here to rant woops
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Date: 06-09-2022 20:29
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ouch wrote:
Portion sized cake or small cake, not rude, but mby a bit weird/rude if u bake a huge cake and keep it all to urself
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Date: 06-09-2022 20:33
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Kino wrote:
it’s more asshole-y to expect someone to make a bigger cake just so they can also have a piece than it is to make a small cake for your own enjoyment
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Date: 06-09-2022 20:34
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bee wrote:
ouch wrote:
Portion sized cake or small cake, not rude, but mby a bit weird/rude if u bake a huge cake and keep it all to urself
yeah if i bake a full sized cake i would share but that not what i wanna do 
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Date: 06-09-2022 20:35
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bee wrote:
Kino wrote:
it’s more asshole-y to expect someone to make a bigger cake just so they can also have a piece than it is to make a small cake for your own enjoyment
and its not like i dont make the most delicious cinnamon buns at least a few times a year and SHARE
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Date: 06-09-2022 20:37
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Kino wrote:
you’re really not in the wrong tho like sure if someone made dessert around me i’d want to have some too, but i am in no way entitled to it just because you’re making it in my presence
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Date: 06-09-2022 20:40
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Rotte wrote:
make a bad cake on purpose and share with them, hope they will never ask again
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Date: 06-09-2022 20:42
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bee wrote:
Kino wrote:
you’re really not in the wrong tho like sure if someone made dessert around me i’d want to have some too, but i am in no way entitled to it just because you’re making it in my presence
thank you for saying that
i will just get over it then and leave my mom to her bitchiness 
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Date: 06-09-2022 20:42
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bee wrote:
Angelica wrote:
make a bad cake on purpose and share with them, hope they will never ask again
actually i should do that yes 
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Date: 06-09-2022 20:43
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MissLondon wrote:
If I bought the ingredients 
for the cake
I wouldn’t feel rude at all
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Date: 06-09-2022 20:55
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nah, portion sized is portion sized. 
Date: 06-09-2022 21:44
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legohouse wrote:
I'm quite a people pleaser so i'd find it kind of odd, unless it's like a mug cake size. Maybe you could give her a small sample of whatever you end up making, that's what I do and then eat/drink the rest lol. 
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Date: 06-09-2022 21:49
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legohouse wrote:
I'm quite a people pleaser so i'd find it kind of odd, unless it's like a mug cake size. Maybe you could give her a small sample of whatever you end up making, that's what I do and then eat/drink the rest lol. 
yeah maybe this. leave them 1 slice each and take the rest for urself.
Date: 06-09-2022 21:58
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kruspersille wrote:
only rude if u didnt buy the ingredients urself w ur own money
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Date: 06-09-2022 22:04
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