wrote: Well, I guess as one do, first you mourn it and then you do your best to move on. Find new things and people to fill the needs that person once did.
MasileinDE wrote: depends on the reason as to why but yeah, mourning and then remembering and finding new people, not to replace them per se, but to fulfil the needs and desires the person who left has now left "unattended"
MasileinDE wrote: depends on the reason as to why but yeah, mourning and then remembering and finding new people, not to replace them per se, but to fulfil the needs and desires the person who left has now left "unattended"
She is moving
She was the first person in a while I really liked. This doesn't happen very often anymore because I became very exhausted and bitter when it comes to meeting people.
Melody wrote: depends on situation like uh, what's the reason u'll never see them, bc like.... if it's that they passed away then uhhhhh,,,
but since u said they are simply moving, then it means u r still able to connect with them through calls and texts, yea? i know it's not the same as face to face contact but it's not like u lost them completely y'know? and who knows mby u will see each other again, i assume u both still have many years ahead of u
Melody wrote: depends on situation like uh, what's the reason u'll never see them, bc like.... if it's that they passed away then uhhhhh,,,
but since u said they are simply moving, then it means u r still able to connect with them through calls and texts, yea? i know it's not the same as face to face contact but it's not like u lost them completely y'know? and who knows mby u will see each other again, i assume u both still have many years ahead of u
I always lose contact with ppl who left. I'm bad at keeping up communication
MasileinDE wrote: depends on the reason as to why but yeah, mourning and then remembering and finding new people, not to replace them per se, but to fulfil the needs and desires the person who left has now left "unattended"
She is moving
She was the first person in a while I really liked. This doesn't happen very often anymore because I became very exhausted and bitter when it comes to meeting people.
maybe you'll both manage to stay in touch for some time to come and then when it slowly dies out, it won't be as harsh a loss (those things usually happen with relocation, so you're kind of expecting it in a way to happen over time)
adtrfan wrote: honestly this is horrible advice but if they try to interact with me through social media etc, i ''ghost'' / ignore them and continue with my life
MasileinDE wrote: depends on the reason as to why but yeah, mourning and then remembering and finding new people, not to replace them per se, but to fulfil the needs and desires the person who left has now left "unattended"
She is moving
She was the first person in a while I really liked. This doesn't happen very often anymore because I became very exhausted and bitter when it comes to meeting people.
maybe you'll both manage to stay in touch for some time to come and then when it slowly dies out, it won't be as harsh a loss (those things usually happen with relocation, so you're kind of expecting it in a way to happen over time)
Idk I think I would rather keep the good memories. The cringy texting is the worst if you are used to talking face 2 face.
Hortensia wrote: oh my god i had completely misunderstood your post and wrote an awful answer, i thought you wrote something like ''how to deal with not wanting to see a person you don't like ever again'' 😭so sorry.
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