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HopeStar
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HopeStar wrote:
i just got a really nice haircut and it looks great but the second i got home i just broke down and sobbed for like half an hour bc of how bad the experience was. it went as smoothly as a haircut can go yet it was still so terrible. i dont know why i hate getting haircuts so much but i avoid them for so long because sitting in that chair is absolute hell for me. no clue why, ive always been this way. i end up putting it off and my hair gets too long and i feel dysphoric, but going to the barbers is just terrible!!!!!!! i dont know why. 

does anyone else feel this way??? how do i learn to cut my own hair lol
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Date: 04-11-2022 01:44
SkyeTwilight
International star



SkyeTwilight wrote:
sounds awful! i don't like going to the hairdresser either, but i can't relate to how you experience it. do you know someone personally that would be able to cut your hair? someone that feel comfortable talking to and being around, so that they could come to you or you to them and you could do things in your own tempo that suits you best? not sure how "professional" you want your hair to be done, but i've seen several people cut their friends hair and it turning out good even though they are inexperienced
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Date: 04-11-2022 01:58
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remains wrote:
ow
no i dont experience that, but ive never had an actual good haircut at a barber either
last time i went was maybe . 4 or 5 years ago and it was so bad it was like a chain hairdressers n they basically stole 40€ from me for nothing



i always cut my own hair n patience rly is the key with that, it can easily take 90 minutes if i actually layer n make it look good and normal. u cant just cut straight lines. u have to hold the scissors vertically and really get in every layer to make it not look choppy and half assed
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Date: 04-11-2022 01:59 | Times changed: 1
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remains wrote:
man i rly wanna cut my hair now i miss getting to chop all of it off without a care in the world
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Date: 04-11-2022 02:00
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National star



Sylvan wrote:
I hate looking at myself in the mirror while a stranger touches me
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Date: 04-11-2022 02:03
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Claire wrote:
ive always cried after a haircut lmfao like i can get the BEST haircut that i LOVE and still come home and cry

i recently was told by a doctor that i got the autism and the adhd so now when i think about it i think i get like sensory overloaded like a haircut is really a vile sensory experience or like its exhausting even if its good. like its a lot of effort to like sit still and like look normal in front of some stranger who like keeps talking and talking. but even if i have fun and love how i look when its done it DRAINS me and i cry because im tired.
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Date: 04-11-2022 03:35
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devilcake wrote:
I can’t go get my haircut most of the time bc of social anxiety. The times I have gone though I usually don’t cry after, bc I usually only go get it cut bc I feel dysphoric so then I feel better 

I cut it myself or ask my mom to mostly
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Date: 04-11-2022 07:15
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Sylvan wrote:
Claire wrote:
ive always cried after a haircut lmfao like i can get the BEST haircut that i LOVE and still come home and cry

i recently was told by a doctor that i got the autism and the adhd so now when i think about it i think i get like sensory overloaded like a haircut is really a vile sensory experience or like its exhausting even if its good. like its a lot of effort to like sit still and like look normal in front of some stranger who like keeps talking and talking. but even if i have fun and love how i look when its done it DRAINS me and i cry because im tired.
how does every1 on vp end up with an autism diagnosis lmao
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Date: 04-11-2022 11:03
Pavlov
International star



Pavlov wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Claire wrote:
ive always cried after a haircut lmfao like i can get the BEST haircut that i LOVE and still come home and cry

i recently was told by a doctor that i got the autism and the adhd so now when i think about it i think i get like sensory overloaded like a haircut is really a vile sensory experience or like its exhausting even if its good. like its a lot of effort to like sit still and like look normal in front of some stranger who like keeps talking and talking. but even if i have fun and love how i look when its done it DRAINS me and i cry because im tired.
how does every1 on vp end up with an autism diagnosis lmao
because the climate here is just right for that kind of species
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Date: 04-11-2022 11:17
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alprazolam wrote:
i'm too socially anxious to go get a haircut so now my hair is long enough to wipe my own ass with it 
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Date: 04-11-2022 11:18
MissLondon
Queen of Queens



MissLondon wrote:
I don’t like the idea of 
being held back by anything 
so although it might be uncomfortable 
I would consider the experience 
a small victory and think
”yes, I survived that shit!!”

The only time I’ve wanted to cry
is when the stylist fucked up my hair
and I couldn’t slap a bitch 
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Date: 04-11-2022 11:49
HopeStar
Streetmusician



HopeStar wrote:
Claire wrote:
ive always cried after a haircut lmfao like i can get the BEST haircut that i LOVE and still come home and cry

i recently was told by a doctor that i got the autism and the adhd so now when i think about it i think i get like sensory overloaded like a haircut is really a vile sensory experience or like its exhausting even if its good. like its a lot of effort to like sit still and like look normal in front of some stranger who like keeps talking and talking. but even if i have fun and love how i look when its done it DRAINS me and i cry because im tired.
i dont got the tism but i do have hella sensory issues and i think that's why. and yeah its just so draining. and i cry when im tired.
and omg when they DONT talk i cant tell if its worse than when they keep talking. i usually plan ahead and think of small talk that i can talk about for 15-20 mins. so when that doesnt happen it kinda throws me off cos then i have to stare at myself in the mirror lol.

I was talking to my friend about this and they gave me a plan for next time cos i wanna get a nice haircut for the holidays. I'm gonna go to the same person as last time and just be like "heyo i have a terrible migraine but i didnt wanna reschedule, is it ok if i just wear my headphones and close my eyes?" cos most ppl know how shitty migraines are and will look past not ~abiding social norms~ lol. 
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Date: 10-11-2022 04:05
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ouch wrote:
Yes but I cut my own hair now, idc if its shitty so its ok
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Date: 10-11-2022 04:30
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ouch wrote:
ouch wrote:
Yes but I cut my own hair now, idc if its shitty so its ok
Often it does look shitty, but usually after a few days, hair wash etc I can see whats wrong and fix it, like if one part is too choppy or smth
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Date: 10-11-2022 05:12
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autism wrote:
i've never been to a hairdresser other people cutting my hair feels physically so bad that i've just cut it myself for the past 15 years 
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Date: 10-11-2022 07:20
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wrote:
nope, me and my hairdresser love each other <3
Date: 10-11-2022 10:36
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